European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 16, 1968, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 16 the stars and stripes saturday March is photos by Scott Gates mrs. Betsy Guido american teacher in England. Ipswich students listen attentively As they get English lesson with Yankee accent. By Bob Hoyer staff writer . Gal teaches English to English Crisp English voices filled the lounge. Off to the Side 11 pretty am y import discussed what it s like s in an English secondary school i m still learning about the so Here. I like the responsibility aus Freedom of the system implies 35betsy sue Guido. Sai i to teaching English and i can �,.textbooks or i can do without them Vuk puts the teacher pretty much of � a Wal a comely Brunette mrs. Guido joined the 45-member permanent faculty m Tower ramparts secondary Mode school in Ipswich England in Jans she will remain on the faculty at Law until july but headmaster h e s Wallade Hopes she will decide to Sta until july w70. W slay that s when her husband airman 1 Rthomas Guido is due to conclude & tour with the 79th tactical fighter 2at Woodbridge England. She teaches four classes of English 21 class periods a week a Norma work Load to 13 and 15-year Olds the students Are approximately equivalent to our seventh and a Teeth grades in America she said the current tendency in teaching English is to give As much Freedom of expression As possible explains Cadwallader. We used to teach More grammar now it s taught incidentally. The emphasis on Freedom of expression is both Oral and he also pointed out that although the headmaster is responsible for the Man Ner of teaching in his school the systems similar throughout the country a fact that places no Burden on the student who transfers from one Section to an other. The headmaster said Tower Rampart secondary modern school with an enrolment of 970 is one of six such school sin Ipswich a City of 130,000 on the Southeast coast of Large Bride building which first opened to classes in 1899, it is the Las school for most students who Are required by Law to remain in school until age 15. Some 75 have stayed on voluntarily beyond the age limit this year. Normally about 2 percent of the school population go on to advanced education Cadwal Lader . Guido has been assigned to the school s yellow House a kind of fraternity which is a convenient Way to schedule games and social has been most cooperative. I feel quite assured by the Confidence that has been placed in me she said. The school Day begins for mrs. Gul Doat 8 50 . And ends at 4 . She and her husband live at Felix Stowe 10 Miles from Ipswich. A native of Grove City pa., with Bachelor s degree in English from it. Union College Alliance Ohio mrs. Guido came to Britain with her husband in Guido has a degree in business and economics is it True american women Are too Good by John Krueger staff writer american women Are too Good for their own and their family s Good. This ringing declaration comes from viennese born psychiatrist or. Rudolph Dreikurs who emigrated to the United states in 1937 and is now director of Alfred Adler Institute in Chicago. Dreikurs author of numerous books on the Chal Lenges of marriage and parenthood is convinced that America is cursed with the goodness of its no Man and no child he says has a Chance Tolive up to them in striving to be a Success As a wife and Mother driven by a horrible fear of being a failure the woman actually makes herself u slave to her children. And it is the children who suffer our child guidance work he Points out our main Job is to extricate our mothers from the Tyr Anny of their children otherwise the children never will acknowledges that most child experts preach that you can t give a child Loo much in new tradition for raising children in warns the More love Vou the More of a tyrant they will become. The More dependent they that does not mean that i advocate ignoring Chil Dren explains Dreikurs. I Only advocate ignoring All their mischief which is Only for your misbehave Only for the reaction they get from you for the service the attention and the fight they get from you. Obviously if the children would t have an Audi ence they would t do these things. No child would lose his temper if he did t have a wonderful audience in his parents who can t stand it. And parents Are treated to Only Stellar performances any private tantrums or brother sister Battles Are Only rehearsals in other words we have to teach parents to become Independent to do the right things themselves. If Urey do it the child learns very rapidly what he ought in the Case of Mother she will have to learn to mind her own business and let the child take on his own consequences and responsibility about eating getting up or putting away the however once you have stopped being a victim of the Power struggle you can concentrate on encouraging tile child to help him find better avenues for finding his before you were too Busy fighting with him every Inch of the Way and that we have to learn to then says Dreikurs you replace your Lack of at Tention to misdemeanours with a lot of attention you to him at other times playing affection Etc. I Don t advise anybody to neglect a Why the need for a new tradition for raising Chil Dren Dreikurs puts it this Way,."it seems to be the privilege of the 201 h i i Itury � have lost an Art and knowledge which All other Cut lures on this Earth seem to possess namely How raise their the real reason for the difficulty claims l l 1 Kurt is that in our modern family we Are culturally in prepared to solve any conflict. Lecausi a a living in a time where requirements for i him have no precedent we have no tradition to to Lack 10. The former tradition was based on the in Tot ji1i.ucultural Era which does not provide mean of a children or solving conflicts in a democratic Era amplifies Dreikurs ans in an autocratic society All human n 1llltll "11 Klare those of dominance and submission sup in � inferior. In a democratic society people us line i 1 that is what upsets the
