European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - July 13, 1977, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 8 the stars and stripes july 197 women topic of by Marynett staff writer assertiveness training a search for woman Power lessons m aggression not the International women week Getto Gether in Wiesbaden was no strident Femi nist if the scattering of men present had come to confirm suspicions that such was to be the they were in for n Leader of the How to session Dorothea a clinical Counselor for the Council of drug and alcohol abuse soon set them there Are All of false assume for that to be assertive one has to wave the arms around a lot that a person can be being assertive is purely communicating in a non neurotic it has nothing to a with being 11 can be questionnaire to let those attending judge their own As a questionnaire was passed around including such questions Asir can you accept a compliment gracefully it someone has borrowed can you ask them to repay it can you Tell someone you care for them can you say no to a request for a favor Mahon said thai often people Are Asser Tive in some areas and not in for a Man or woman might be very assertive at Home and not at All Al v she added that women dont have a monopoly on being i know Many men who have for sex one who Doest believe in picking up cant pass one without giving All sorts of apologetic signs Aslo Why Hes not pulling hos afraid 16 be thought of As a he cant stand behind his own Point of that not assertive As she sees both men and women need help in learning to correctly assert them that id communicate their feel Ings honestly to she has encouraged different Lypps of responses from men and women Are allowed to display More emotions ten men can be More Daggres and Paula no Ploc for shrinking violets Dorothea Pahoa left leads tit Dis Cussion in assert Vetesi raining at a its True thai women Are economically but culturally id say men Are equally according lit involves telling it like it making your needs known in an appropriate it requires taking responsibility for your own ii Doest mean walking Over or walking up to someone and saying 1 think youre a some people who decide its time they at Long last assert them selves go they confuse being assertive with Bell ing everyone what they she that inappropriate As Long As the other person is not infringing on your theres do reason to express a Point of youve been a passive Pushover for women with Beverley Roberts f Center demonstrating the Art sons in a relationship and now decide to expect Mahon changing your behaviour in a neurotic relationship is going to upset the whole re you have to give others an Opportunity to get used to the new you and although you Are trying to you cant assume others Are trying to a for years in a relationship you have never made a decision for when you attempt to do you arc met with anger or if a reaction she advises a Cool listen to what the other person has to question Why he or she is saving it in a quiet try to your own Point of View and search for a Middle and How does being assertive payoff Witt Man a Sarapos in saudi Arabia 4 army sergeants set precedent by Lucia Guajardo staff writer Germany four army postal sergeants set a Prece Dent Here by taking an oath of appointment to protect the mail at three new air Force a sin saudi for the first qualified amur sergeants Are Manning three new air Force Apos at khans my shall and according to members of the 7025th postal a spokesman added because of service should improve 100 per and custom ers will receive the same postal services that Are available throughout the sergeants arc in toy at the locations for 90 to 100 Days because the Apos were to open two or three months before permanent oneyear assignments could be a 7015th spokesman according to the army postal iranian Diplomat replaced Tehran Kupij Iran Deputy foreign Nasser has teen replaced and the iranian in Manouch Elir named As his former Secretary general of the Central treaty organization had been absent from the foreign ministry scene since april working under the air Force postal system wont involve Many changes for them other than using different filing the men underwent Orienta Tion at the Squadron level mid by the of Shah Refl Parent apr m these few problems Peculiar to saudi and to obtain postal finance accounts and equip ment before going on to their respective Ludie commander of Packer named to Mideast command London rear Samuel a is the new com Mander of the Middle East a major subordinate command of Navy who flies his Flag aboard the u leads one of the navys smallest major commands la terms of ships As signed but one of the largest in terms of area of within this area Are 25 Mainland countries and islands in the East Indian Ocean and persian Gulf packers Man recent assignments have been with the office of the chief of naval operations and the joint joint chiefs the 7025th postal administered the oath to the four volunteers selected on the basis of leadership ability and being Able to work under and verse Charles Ashley of Wail to Riyadh with five years of army pasta Ashley was formerly with the 81st a pet in where he will return at the endow his sgt Archie to Olivcr of who will Goto an assignment at after his saudi arabian is the senior military postal supervisor at he was formerly assigned to Wiesbaden 30th sol James it Elliott of went to taif with eight years postal after july Al Elliott will return to his former the 12ui a Del in the Ronald Johnson of went to Khamis Mushaty from 139th a co in where he will return after his Lour in saudi air route begins Jordan a King Hussein of Jordan inaugurated a new Amman new York air route for the Royal jordanian air ways Alia will Fly a Boeing jumbo jetliner every monday on the new route it wont win you said the idea is nol to try to persuade to your Point of View or make what being assertive will to this is give you new new and belter relationships f j f she pointed out thai if you have not been asserting you probably Harbor feelings of resentment and that self defeating in relationships with it can Lead to aggressive behaviour plus feelings of and How does a mouse learn to that speak up you just Start forcing yourself to be assertive about very it Ute per Aptt at first your self esteem goes up etch and the whale thing starts spare log rebel prelate to tour of Mexico Mexico City up rebel French archbishop Marcel Lefebvre has a tour of Mexico after being denied vist be by the mexican a spokesman fora group of Lefebvre followers e the Mons Goor will definitely note 1 coning to Mexico but one of his to elves will arrive Here this probably with a message from the Whf cd Antonio plus who was 2 Oran along Lefebyre projected s consulate to Houston formed Lefebvre Over the weekend dust my not get an entry rim fac Jui they didst give a but to few Nave the Power to do what they no one at Mej can government would or deny the report o the governments the ministry of the interiors inform non Ernesto Alvarez Ilasco fwd j cannot confirm or Jaty the report but cause 1 have no inform lion on it c his who says he a informal group of people  about the traditional lives the government barred Lefebve under pressure from the mexican Catholic