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followed up of the earlier research study of Bow Chat Dren with desirable and undesirable names perceived he boys names because the for go in and out of fashion too while the popularity of boys names remains relatively constant Over the years others have observed that there has been some change in boys Brian becoming very the dwt be names ducted in were Richard and the undesirable names were and i Garwood found that the Boyt a Fth deter ask names Etc rally ton get of themselves in a More positive than the they had higher Aspi taking All this a step further is Thomas an educational psychologist at Temple University who had studied More childrens he has linked the desirability of a child1g names to Tjie boys who tended to have the highest regardless o their level of de tended to Bear names such As Scott and the most desirable name and the girls reputed to be the brightest1were Cindy and its not Clear what makes one name More desirable than some names Are fads linked to movie stars suddenly there Are a lot of other always been imbued with positive Quail undesirable names have been linked to a vague of or a very specific prejudice against an ethnic in All of wan chm a of from other but Factor Chud is and it is tightly intertwined Ivha such As they Point the research Only incl rates wrist Happatz on some a Turen with the strangest names think Well of them serves and in Uncial names can be Bandy to Tor instance helping a candidate stand Oul l having lived a Ilfe As Mcdavid 1 Odzic the1 name that was but far Tome the teenage years time Tot for their childrens teenage Vears can make All the years thai preceded them look like uninterrupted now comes the time when the child Oden seems to be passionately rejecting every think or a Carlo everything that the parents stand for where has the love the parents wonder the re aped and where have the dreams gone All the wonder Ful things that parents wanted for their children asking them to he both like their parents and somehow better now seem shattered in disruption and unpleasantness most families gel through All others the As child development authorities de scribe is frequently and then the Parent wants retribution the anger parents feel when their children fall them through crime or drugs or sexual activity or just by being something far less than the dream can be overt and extend to severe beatings or in the View of it can be still extreme Derek professor of psychiatry at North Western asserts that who cannot Ace their anger find ways to deny that they Art or thai anything is even Bui he is convinced that theres tots of evidence that parents unconsciously wish to kill their children when the children anger he said he was forced to that conclusion among other watching parents respond to suicidal Chil one would think that parents of suicidal children would gel them looked after but the opposite happens they will pull them out of the Hospital too Early and allow the children to have the the parents of today teenagers deter be compas and its no Winder thai a suitable number might imply wish to gel away from the aggravation of a bldg a child a the teenage As child development specialists generally depict the teenage years Are indeed a time for the nature of he period makes it sound like the child is a slave pitted against a the Issue is Eman said Adele director of adolescent Medicine in the department of paediatrics Al Bellevue Hospital in new York the children have Well defined challenges to Chance to Kilt admitting a Childs problems a like admitting ones own he and it can be so the Par Enta May look to place the blame elsewhere on the friends i who in fact do have a Strong influence or on the on the but nol on Tiey need to be different from their or else they Wilt never Rake 11 on their Hofmann is just As concerned about the child who is too easy in the teenage year As about the one who is in a and others assert that there u a Middle ground parents who help children become More accountable for their actions in the preteen years will diminish the Trou be later most kids Hofmann emancipate themselves in a healthy Way hey do Experiment the world and their friends May cause them to Lake but if Thev dont get killed in a car crash or something they make it Richard director of be a Jetsun adolescent Medicine at childrens Hospital in lot that negative by Nataf is a major toot of the Emandy Stoml u Drun May be t Trana Lliter for the anxiety the child be there Aho negative and the cold Hopes the Parent wont like nun much any wont be so and he can separate a he said that who attempted to continue to control their teenage children As they did in the preteen Yean but now reverting More control All us time usually drove the youngsters into greater negative be the Parent is in a terribly Tricky Mackenzie the Parent must stand Back a allow the child to Al the same time thai the Parent continues to stand by amen Tor if no longer the parents he is to continue to hold to Prin Ciple and to explain to their children the their experimenting and kid wants Hacke ode Bot i also wants to know the Parent went reject if parents suspect that the teenager to reluctantly get Ting into a dangerous situation because of pressure from Hofmann suggests parental Lell the youngster u use the adults As the the mean ones if my Ever they kill Miter gave a couple of examples of healthy rebellion its decidedly he when teenagers refuse to keep the curfew parents have reassuring parents that everything win be All its also Narma for teen agers to Tell in no Uncertain to leave them even wjt11 research rats running interference for i dual know a justly when i m going to but i do know in going to die of if they Arent discovering that kissing causes chipped fingernails and Peanut butter brings on embarrassing there put tag a curse on my pizza and the volume on my car 1 cant cloy anything in in downright t go around feeling cum to Sec in there spilling on my Finger to lick holding in breath around bulling my water and avoiding xray machines at Ine Airport my Luggage Doest look too Good and in lord knows Ive tried to please every a few years ago when they put the Finger of i quit smoking and turned to music for someone cooped up in Here All Day listening to All those decibels will make you 1 went to the someone the water is polluted and the Sun will cause skin someone Fried Cereal meat and eggs Are bad for t went to the Hospital for a someone rays Are bad for you and so is some of the Medicine there i decided someone that is bad or the sugar u really harmful to your someone i Only drank drinks artificially Fla bad for someone i eat and drop dead a Friend of mine had a great idea for she bought rat and followed it around Day and everything u ale and die everything endured with out she Wem two Days ago she called and said the rat whal col bit by a Mousetrap Block from Tell i said was it Wear ing lipstick 1 have to u Tiff Fri
