European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - August 15, 1978, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 20 the stars and stripes tuesday August 15, 1978 fathers it turns out Good by Daniel q. Haney associated press there s a new kind of daddy around. He chauffeurs his kids to the dentist plans their birthday parties does diapers dinners  is in Short a Mommy too. Since the breakdown of the rules about who does what divorced men have been winning custody of their Chil. Dren. Half time at least they bring up kids  trend born with the women s movement of the late tues is spreading. Two sociologists at Brandeis univer it sly in wan Ham mass. Who studied the results conclude f that fathers can Cope quite nicely with the Rigours of full parenthood. Men Are More than just substitute mothers . I  seem Able to Combine the Best of both parents Gad s strength and authority mom s love and under standing. And along the Way they master the traditional oils of motherhood making Beds cooking breakfasts lying . In joint custody settlements divorced parents agree Towee turns Cookli after the children. They give them a name on alternating weeks or for three or four Days at a modern Baths bottles and bedtimes gives fatten 1many men never experience they their kids. Rosenthal says fathers Are children became the wife to a what they  and Many men seem pleasantly get to know their kids. They say their kids Are the Only be Only themselves with Rosenthal says. Tow f laugh and joke and be  discovering children s emotions is a Joy it it s also a mystery. One of the biggest problems men i � men learn to St Iii Keshet and Krisne m. Rosenthal both divorced parents interviewed 127 of these fathers to find How they were doing. They found that keeping the kids is Okay forthe children and downright Good for the fathers. It gives men an excuse to Settle Down after the turmoil of separation. J i?10 p6" first separate they often seem to take Ai deliberately uncomfortable room somewhere and say see How deprived i am?"1 Rosenthal says. A m of Gays Are Tawf Flat to make themselves a Home and a Good meal became somehow this key notes their  the kids change that. The child is the person they caregiving a decent place to live. One father told the researchers in All the changes of shifting in the beginning of separation the children were like my lifeline while i was sinking in the pain of loss and and fathers it turns out make Good  their experience in the Job Market they often Are Good planners and they take on child rearing As if it Wasa new Job assignment. Men learn to Structure child care from organizing jobs Rosenthal says. They Don t get quite As Over whelmed by it As women  men also seem better Able to Cope with House keeping failures whether they Are yellowed Pillow cases or fallen souffles. They do what they must As Well As they can and they Don t Stew about their shortcomings. I h0T6""1 to feel More Anthy 8boul " pro Viding for their children in a very unlimited fashion 2. 8ss."fr men there in we sense of limit less responsibility that s constantly weighing on  being responsible for Runny noses torn dungarees. Child Core. They get quite As  by it As women tantrums particularly when the tid Rosenthal says. Men have trouble irrational.",juvenile crankiness in t the paternal a is full of new packing lunches. Choosing Clou. Put on the fad in the morning says 1you decide if he or be in going to be i sweater the men prove they can learn oils does t make Fau ume Parentha it s All of the things that mothers Ifor centuries. If we did t know we were sound like a woman complaining i different for men or women. They Farea overload to care for  even though the Young children Are jeers and the older ones at school lath caring for kids requires More Tim give. Something must be sacrificed.  men find they can t work late go to . They keep their jobs but lose Power prestige  Guys who Are full time fathers i Money says Keshet. They work but they Aren t driven. Moving from Job to Job up the ladder. & resentful but there is an adjustment i and  to Cook All Over   up ecu  of saving of americans Are buying Micro wave ovens and Many of them Are finding that they have to team to Cook All Over  ovens Reaton different Cook 5lstt"illllui Pomor sex also Call for different techniques. Times and the first Nolc Lawave Eves for pm sinner aae Wen a tar asked i the late Imis. By the end of if microwave oven were if More too percent of All House holds and experts estimate that they will cooking takes less time with microwave ovens because the heat is generated within the food itself. It is Energy clerk to cause the Energy is used Only to heat the food not the air around  savings vary from family to family but the Edison electric Institute consumes 190 kilowatt hours of  year less than one third the amount used Bya conventional electric Range the first step to successful Micro wave cooking is the Coal Alner. ��s�sz.&%?jut a ban Ramic baking dishes plastic storage con a Cooklis bags remove the Metal tie first cardboard Frozen food measuring cups stoneware you can even use Straw baskets or Wood bowl for heating breads or other item actual cooking time is influenced by several factors including y volume. The More food you have the longer it takes to Cook. If one baked i Tatanto microwaves Are a form of electromagnetic radiation. The Metal Interior of toe oven reflects the microwaves which Bounce Back and Forth and Are absorbed by the food. The Load molecules vibrate the vibrations produce heat and the heat Cooks the food. Density. Compact foods like Meatte longer than porous ones like bread goods containing riot of moisture fans sugar Cook quickly since these. Service at Rutgers the new Jersey note that a provide the Crisp Brown 1for foods like pies or roast foods like Popover ought or airy texture do Crow ave ovens Beans enough dry heat. Federal safety amount of microwave Ito leak from the out around the door and of ment. The food and of also off in borne safety there Are High gets franc Rome evenly shaped foods Cook bet uneven Comers get too Well done briefly after among the paper and Starof per towels heat resistant Glass and experts from the cooperative Extension do not have the oven Jed so that the interlock i will not  operate an oms i not close firmly or is a a objects around to door turn the oven on we Antr do not use scouring 1 other abrasives on the seals Dean with water gents Only