European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 26, 1981, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Page 18 the stars and stripes january 1081 44 44 44 44 44 4 44 44 f f 44 44 4444 444444444 44f44 444444 44 44 44 44 44 44444444444 4m44 44 44 44 44 dads give of jobs for fhe kids Sake in concerned about our nations they Lack they Are coming Home after school to empty they Are sneaking around and smoking running with the wrong being Lazy and acting smart Lecky to their Treyve got bad table what they need is a fathers for fathers have let their careers stand in the Way of a Happy Home they have kissed the children goodbye and headed for the whirl of big and their jobs have come first even before the tears of a neglected they have stayed late at the not even bother ing to Call Home and Tell the children night men Are paying the Price for their longstanding absence from Hearth and their children Are strangers to when fathers walk through the door at six the kids squeal and threaten to Call the they think daddy is a some children have never spent eight hours straight with their not in All their years of growing they have never known a fathers they have never Felt a fathers they have never gone shopping with they have never set the table for they have never basted the wiped out the or done the mending with my personal feeling is that this country is in for some sad times if we do not reverse this look at some of the children our nations fathers have been turning look at Ronald reagans look at Jimmy Carters look at Norman Dean mar and Osmond i really what Are we to do and As so Many pious folks children Are our most important Why Arent All the fathers breaking Down the Nursery doors to get at the Little you guns and take care of them never have so Many men talked so prettily and done so title for so Many i think its High time that men accepted the consequences of their if there going to keep having one child right after there going to have to take care of men will have to devote full time to their fatherly men Are just kidding themselves when they say they can be Good parents and have a career what nonsense anybody can see that a family is an either or proposition either you have children and drop everything to tend to or you dont have since children have been deprived of father love for too i propose that fathers completely rearrange their entire lifestyles to accommodate these children they men must quit their postpone their or accept temporary employment at the minimum wage so they can spend More time with their fathers must be Home at three Oclock in the no matter fathers must forget about their there is absolutely no reason Why a father  put off his or business career for the 20 years it takes to raise a Model men should not worry about the Price they will be the rewards will be Worth when the children Wake up screaming at they will scream for when the children throw up at daddy can leave work and pick them when the kids have their Little friends daddy can serve them hot dogs Vou know of me to of rhe in  of a and mop up the Catsup daddy can make sure the children get their shots before school daddy can find the children a clean pair of underwear because he forgot to do the the Only things men will be giving up Are a income and the satisfaction of doing the Job they were trained or Cut out to if men feel their spirits sinking in the narrow confines of Domestic they can get a Par time Job in a department store or some thing that will add a Little zip to their lives and earn them a Little pocket of the fathers might just As Well forget about retirement pay and benefits be cause nobody in the business world looks after the and if the fathers Are married to Rich the Guys can just do a Little Volunteer work or join a Bridge something to keep them sane and Busy while the kids Are off at of the question arises As to what Mother will be doing All this the answer is simple she will be getting a Good earning a decent and mapping out her career when she gets Home at daddy will run around telling the children to hush and not to bother daddy will hold off on telling her the trials of his Little Day until Shes had a Chance to put up her feet and watch the if daddy Doest give her some breathing space and Mother will say he is nagging and remind him of How much Money she brings in any the solution to the problem of the nations youth is Clear fathers must go into the Home where they have always belonged but never in i dont know How our Young people have survived for so Long the Cri Sis of the career its a wonder they Haven All turned into juvenile so do a kid a kick a father out of his swivel chair and into a hot where he and our nations most important resources can Start research Pioneer Dies Seattle a David first researcher in the United states to de scribe the fetal alcohol died Here after a lengthy the fetal alcohol syndrome is a pattern of altered growth and mental retardation seen in the children of mothers who 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39 jetty 40 stand still 43 goddess of Dawn 44 French interjection 45 Nice season 46 Compass Reading 126 dear Ann Landers that letter from Sidney Jaffe critical of Farmers is typical of people who find it easy to complain on a full the Challenge facing Farmers is How to continue to farm when they didst Harvest enough crops to buy chemicals and fuel in the coming the Farmer must Deal with Early exorbitant interest rates and the eve increasing Cost of please Tell Sidney to be cause in 1981 there May be no they May get fed up try ing to eke put a living and head for the Oil big Busi Ness and if i Hope Sidney will enjoy his Glass of his broiled gravel and the Gravy on his mashed if he has no we dont need his screwed up logic that Only adds to the wife in the Midwest dear wife if Sidney is still Reading your blistering the following should pop his of its a bumper sticker that came in the mail from put a Farmer out of business starve dear Ann Landers could it be part of a Normal growth Pat Tern when a 13yearold boy enjoys trying on ladies undergarments the boys father insists that Many psychological changes occur at this and the lad is merely fascinated with the soft Ness of feminine our son shows no other signs of his physical growth this past year has been no no state dear i suggest that you or your husband buy a paperback edition of the Ann Landers encyclopedia Ballan Tine available at All Wai Den and Dalton bookstores or get one at the Public like you both need to read on transvestism As Well As bisexual child transsexualism and most people dont know one from the i suspect that your son has transvestite this does not necessarily mean he is a to Many transvestites marry and have some homosexuals generally transvestites get their jollies from dressing As women that is the extent of their bizarre dear Ann Landers last week my Mother inlaw came to a family gathering with a cold and sore the first thing she did was kiss our 20monthold child on the i did a slow but said three Days later the baby came Down with a cold and now he is and soon the entire family will be sick do i have a right to give my Mother inlaw a piece of my mind i am so furious i cant see couple dear Canton wait till your anger cools and then Tell your Mother inlaw was Lovely of her to come even though she want feeling but the baby caught her cold when she kissed him on the leave it at c Field enterprises