European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - February 23, 1981, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 18 the Tarsan stripes february work ouf a conf race with your own Auto my car is my a few weeks it was just a fit for nothing but getting me where i wanted to the Only time i Ever spent with my car was when i sat in it on the Way to the the or the coast of South Caroli the rest of the time my car just sat outside in its Little numbered open to the elements and closed to my i didst care about the Quality of the moments we now i see my car As a real the change was Long in All my life i was guilty of exploiting my now we have a but a relationship cant exist unless the channels of communication arc you have to do More than just brazenly pump the car full of Gas every Twenty my car had been talking to but i had not been talking to my husband talked to the car All the Riding Down the he would suddenly stiff Tell me to and Down the hear that hed sounds like its com ing from the i never heard id practically Stop breathing and stick my ear in the Glove compartment and still i hear i just didst love my car i was too wrapped up in my own Little world to the car had been screaming in pain for maybe and i did not respond to its in i never could figure out Why my Hus band would waste a whole saturday afternoon on a two hours under the Hood left him Greasy and emotionally i just stayed in the watching soul train and communicating with the Ray was the paid professional who opened up the channels of communication Between my car and in that was the name of the course communicating with your for fort seven Bucks plus i got eight sessions of intensive therapy in a Neutral setting where i could get past my indifference and get in touch with my True feelings about my Ray was the Ideal counsellor Laid conversation very i dont think i could have taken a fascist approach to car Ray started me off not forcing me to Rush right up and hug a car or he didst laugh when i positively identify the he let me work through my High grease anxiety by first letting me hold a filthy rag before requiring me to inject grease in the Ray introduced me to the Bottom Side of the there was nothing sordid or shameful about i saw my first Oil i watched an old Oil filter come off and a new one go Ray took me pointing out the Shock the catalytic the the Universal the i had never seen things from the cars Point of i had never thought about the trauma of having your Rusty Muffler fall i had never considered what it would feel like to go i saw the ravages of wheel misalignment on a Brand new set of i resolved never to kick Aneth hear of Tao and brigade Tomm Amder pa6setm 6v across 1 a bedouin 5 watering place in Belgium 8 Low haunts 12 diverges 14 an Indian 15 orators 16 climbing Plant 17 biblical wilderness 18 hero Cal 20 Priscillas John 23 malay Dagger 24 fermented Honey drink 25 scottish tenant Farmers 28 Hill builder 29 roof edges 30 sight in the Seine 32 As a Burden 34 space 35 former governor of Alaska 36 portals 37 cowardly 40 High school 41 blood form 42 works out by degrees 47 Dill Plant 48 issues 49 american Beauty 50 electrical unit solution 51 no part Down 1 paid notices 2 corded fabric 3 it Vale 4 prejudiced 5 British gun 6 through 7 declared 8 contrive 9 the red 10 historic ship 11 Blind 13 similar 19 abysses 20 chalice time 27 223 answer to saturdays 21 focusing device 22 facts 23 a gathering of witches 25 Large Lark of Europe 26 act or gun 27 wild Plum 29 the razors 31 River to the North sea 33 dedicate 34 kind of sleeve 36 secluded Valley 37 scorch 38 Western City 39 Singer de 40 grand parental 43 Uncle 44 Indian 45 female Swan 46 Compass Reading tenders or even if i were trying to get dog stuff off my from the Bottom of the we worked up gaining Ever new we lifted the Hood and began servicing the i nearly wept at the environmental conditions this car was forced to run in the Brake fluid was Low the spark plugs had Carbon the Radiator was almost empty the Battery was corroded the air filter was filthy the fan belts were Over All Lay a heavy film of grease and dust and dead i was i considered establishing a hot line for a place where cars could get help should cases of abuse i realized that there was More to cars than Silver Gray paint and pm radio and leather interiors and sleek being under the Hood of a car was a very moving experience for the car emanated a sort of animal yet there was also a touching the thought that one Pencil Mark extending Between electrodes in the distributor Cap could set the car to skipping was enough to remind me of the fragility of As Ray explained the implications of a cracked distributor the threat of a Battery the supreme importance of the and the Folly of bad timing and i saw How much my car needed i knew if i didst give my car and attention it nobody i made a commitment to a Lon term relation i Call my car Hank now it didst seem right to continue the charade of a its a whole new scenario from Hank and were up front about our demands on each weve even worked out a based on our decision to drop destructive Behaviours in favor of viable Mutual Hank promises he wont conk out on me in the Middle of a dangerous intersection i prom ise to keep the Carbon off his Hank promises not to make funny Clun Clunk noises when he goes into reverse i Promise to keep his Universal joint Hank promises he wont guzzle Gas i prom ise i won t Trade him in on a new 223 dear Ann Landers what do you do about a son you Haven seen or heard from in almost two years from the time he four years his wife placed everyone out of his one at a before you forget How does one forget a son who loved As we loved him for 24 years the loss of our sons love is definitely the fault of his we now know that none of her husbands Are allowed to have anything to do with their own families when these four daughters their Hus bands were taken Over by the in is there some Way we can re establish a relationship with our s0n dear accept the fact your sons decision to Cut you out of his life was partly his wife did not chloroform nor has he been in a Dungeon these past two if he wanted to see he would Man age my advice is to can your son or drop a note every few months just to hello we Hope you Are make no reference to the separation or your anxiety about one he May pick up the dear Ann Landers id like to comment on the letter from concerned in Ohio the brother of a Chaste priest who was chased by women in his Par i worked in x diocese and have observed at close Range How priests discourage women who become if they sad to it is because they dont want As for calling a priest in the Middle of the night and asking him to come Over and administer the last that a pretty transparent most priests would respond by offering to Send Over an ambulance and meet the woman at a in All the years i worked among priests and Lay persons in a religious i Only saw one woman make a flagrant Effort to seduce a and it didst Illinois Reader dear Reader the letter you mentioned brought a number of responses from women who had fantasies about priests and Felt confessing to me How at for a switch dear Ann Landers my Hus band and i Are both in our Early we have been married for two we both want a baby very and i have been trying to conceive for about is i am in Good health and so is my but he smokes an awful lot of i read somewhere that pot smoking can interfere with preg i told him and he became terribly is there any truth to the article please dont Tell me i should not be try ing to have a family with a Hus band on because he prom ised to quit As soon As i get Little Rock Knock dear Rode accordian to any Fertility pot Saouaf Lowers the testosterone level self aa4 this pm indeed reduce thei Tel your
