European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - July 15, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                July 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann landed letters dear Ann Landers id Tike to thank you for printing that letter from the 16 year old girl from Miami who said teenagers who do not learn to be sexually responsible Are letting themselves in for a Heap of in a Good my Boyfriend and i were in the top 10 percent of our class in College but we were incredibly stupid about we slept together for almost a year with out giving a single thought to birth i became it was bound to i am surprised it didst happen i think the primary reason we didst use birth control was because it would have meant we were planning to have sex and neither of us wanted to admit we were brought up in very strict Homes where pre marital relations were so we drifted believing that each time we had sex it would be the last because we both Felt so guilty about of it never since teenagers listen to their Peers More than to id like to say this if you Are going to have use birth con if you have sex dont kid your self into thinking it will be the last unprotected sex is an assured no matter How Many times you cheat the your Luck wont last i was Lucky for 10 months and now in wearing maternity clothes and wondering if i will Ever return to College and have the career Ive always yearned my sweetheart had to put his College dreams on hold for a year and i feel Lousy about this is not the Way we wanted to Start out married but we Are trying to make the Best of to for whom its not too please learn from our too late in Seattle dear Seattle my thanks for a Frank and frightening youve performed a real service by writing dear Ann Landers i am 25 years single and unhappy with my i work and live in a Small town where there Are very few people my i have no the reason for this is that i am i have had horrible acne scars since i was 17 years Ive never had a Girlfriend and have been turned Down for dozens of dates because no girl wants to be seen with since Ive never taken out a girl in this town Many people think i am a Homo sex the classmates i grew up with have drifted away or married and i dont fit in never invited i have some outstanding but nobody give me credit for they just judge me by my can you offer any encouragement in Virginia Dew Virginia go through the history books and look at the faces of some of the most Hrast rious most of them were far from hand Many were had families and tired fun see a Good dermatologist about dermabrasion to remove the acne get some counselling and talk about Why you cant seem to make til bet its because you dont know How to make the first move and be a life can be but you must meet it Good c news America Syndicate dispute about paying for damage to apartment i dont know if anyone can Correct this situation or but i would like to express my August 1982 we arrived in stationed in the apartment we moved into had not been painted since but my husband wanted us so he took it with the prom ise that the place would be the paint was falling from the ceiling and should have been we stayed there 2yi years and moved to another part of when we we were stuck with a Price tag of for that they called it i had four children at that but they were so there is no Way they could have damaged the but you know we had to pay for it now for apartment 2 we had to make a mandatory move to we were in this apartment maybe six to seven the same thing happened i guess since we were Why not stick them again this apartment was fresh painted with water based which when dry caused big bubbles to form and the Bathtub was chipped and had 4 tiles it was like this when we moved when they finished assessing the damage on this one the Price was quite the lady that cleaned the quarters before we moved in will give a stating the condition the apartment was we cannot afford to be taken like i think the army should look into i wanted to go to jag but it was not enough this Money will come out of my Hus bands it just Doest make with six who can afford All this Money for nothing it is a shame for the i and his family to be done so i am not just speaking for my i know there Are other families with the same prob but dont know who to turn to for withheld Germany editors note Richard Neu Ulm acting replies when the service member was assigned to quarters he signed the inventory and condition a form detail ing All existing including a notation that the Bathtub was stained and that several Wall tiles were during the preterm nation inspection the apartment was found to be far beyond Normal fair Wear and the deficiencies were explained in detail to the and he was Given the Opportunity to make corrections prior to the termination inspection which occurred 2vi weeks he failed to do As custodian of the family the directorate of engineering and housing is responsible to ensure that quarters Are habitable when a service member moves there is also a responsibility to protect the governments and taxpayers interests and to guard against waste and when a service member occupies govern kudos for car shipping company this letter is in reference to your article on the shipment of cars from Europe to the Continental i would most Likely never have focused on the article had it not been for the letter to the editor from Roettger and these gentlemen were understandably upset because of an which by infer labelled any firm not mentioned As being something less than desirable when it comes to having a car shipped to the had any other firm written to i might not have thought another thing about my recent experience with Duero International causes me to their Point is Well taken if you cant mention All of the the Good it is unfair to inadvertently Label others As unsatisfactory by their in my particular i passed the time limit for the shipment of my car under the task program under which it was Pur when i wrote to due Gro and explained the circumstances of the involuntary Extension of my they immediately responded in a most unsure a cratic and helpful Way in attempting to re solve my i must agree with the Dugro personnel when they state that the tourist Auto Mobile shipping program run by Dugro is not one of the flyby night in my experience it is a firs class outfit that serves the customer i know that the stars and stripes did not intend to malign any of the reputable companies that were not mentioned in the original in fairness to due Gro and the other Good Guys out either All should be listed or the transportation offices should have a list of All automobile shipping firms that Are qualified and to do otherwise leaves the Market open to favor it ism and withheld Rome various roles of military police come you Guys lets give that individual a break you know what he was referring to when he said that military police training is being directed toward combat More than serving the lets not get it All twisted of an mrs first role is so like you they should be trained for such crises but lets focus on a few non combat roles which Are in conjunction with Basic duties of a Law enforcement scenario an my on routine patrol observes a car weaving along the but Doest Stop it because he is trained basically for combat roles and not so to save himself some embarrassment from his Peers and the he intentionally avoids the he is later dispatched to a serious Acci Dent involving the same vehicle once he arrives on the that one or trocar Accident is vastly increased to a disaster because he didst warn approaching vehicles that there was an Accident what will be his excuse i was trained primarily for combat contrary to what some of you May an trained for combat could do me Little or no Good in a vehicle Domestic i under stand the reason for combat and i feel that it could be useful in a time of but i too feel that Basic Law enforce ment training is slowly dwindling away and being replaced by combat Melvin Sembach Germany pen pals i would like to correspond with people in other i am 43 years old and like gardening and lag la 192 Block 3 new Davao City 9501 Philippines i would like my name listed in your pen pal i am 23 Yean old and like gardening and Fouec Tang i am a roman Saycon 777 Roxas Bals Oriental 6523 Philippines i would like to have pen i am 30 years Vittoro 143 Locsin Street Dumaguet Philippines 6501 we Hope to gain friends from All parts of the please add our names to your pen pal lube to Arlenza Salazar 29 c Cristobal Street Quezon City Philippines ment quarters he becomes responsible to preserve and properly maintain less Normal fair Wear and if this is not the service member is assessed the Cost of so the next occupant can move into an acceptable set of the rules governing these procedures Are detailed in a accounting for damaged or destroyed if the service member docs not agree to the charges being a report of Survey can be such action will not nor Mally result in a delay in leaving the com in this the service member did not dispute the this Case raises several other issues As housing occupants must ensure that the assignment inspection is and that the a form 3281 accurately states the condition of the quarters when be an Active participant in the self help As outlined in a Pam 210 failure to accomplish self help will re sult in labor charges for self help Type items that the engineers must accomplish Between make their quarters available for the scheduled periodic visits by the preventive maintenance in addition to accomplishing preventive these teams also note deteriorating conditions and report them for further be aware of deteriorating and report them to the housing office when they Are the records indicate that this Type of while not is not had the service member taken More responsibility during his it is Likely he would Bave been among the vast majority who Clear with minimal or no charges for dam the european edition capt Dale us editor in chief cmdr Jeffrey us Deputy editor 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