European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 8, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse                                August 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers my otherwise a wonder Loving steals from his Chuck works for a shipping company and has brought Home dozens of expensive items Worth several Hundred Dol he has Given some of these items to it is not that Chuck needs these he just Doest believe the rules Are for in sure he would never steal from a private but the company is so impersonal and he Doest think he is doing any thing i am terrified that one Day he will get caught and the roof will Cave also i feel guilty because i know what he is doing is totally i have done everything i can think of to Stop him Short of turning him and that i  chucks dad had a similar Job and bragged about what he got away but even he never went this the pressure on me is what can i do in Pennsylvania dear scared confide in your ask him to speak to your when Chuck hears from an outsider that he is risking the loss of his Job and the respect of family and and maybe a prison he might straighten up and Fly dear Ann Landers several Days ago i saw a to program about a Young baby Sitter who was falsely accused of touching a 5yearold in the wrong during the we were encouraged to hold hands and hug and kiss the person next to us in our culture was big on demonstrating now we have gone to the other we dont know if we Are allowed to touch anyone or not especially a i realize that child abuse is a serious but How does one know where to draw the line in Atlanta dear concerned the line Between displaying wholesome affection and touching in the wrong place is not As murky As you every reasonably intelligent person knows which parts of the Anatomy Are considered personal if proper respect is observed for verboten there should be no dear Ann Landers military wives Are not the Only two for sneers on the american please consider the wives of these women dont receive salaries but they do nearly As much Church work As their husbands Are often grossly the Clergyman wife is expected to at tend social and civic she pours Tea and Pinch hits when conflicts arise in her husbands she runs her own Home and rears her Chil whom everyone expects to be per when there Are she must solve them alone because her husband is away counselling Church members who Are having trouble with their wives of clergymen dedicate their lives to i wonder How Many people appreciate them in it dear Vermont thanks for praising these Unsung he Ive known several in my life who deserve a standing c news America Syndicate reminder All letters to the editor must contain the full printed name and address of the writer and must be we do not read unsigned but we will withhold your name on request and protect your All letters Are subject to Navy explains its programs to help abused families i am a military wife living overseas and very my marriage is not the Best under Ordi nary and awful when my husband at that time he Calls me abusive names and shoves me As a Rule he and i stay away from drink ing but there Are times when he is told to then he drinks and comes Home and hell Why Are we forced to live this Way i would leave if i but i cant pay the Way for my children and and he wont let me take the he wants them to choose Between withheld Spain editors note Navy naval Sta replies the author mentions several issues that Are of great concern to the Navy overseas duty alcohol family and dependents rights and priv these issues Are being addressed aggressively throughout the Navy and Here in Rota with increasing effectiveness and coordination Between existing the overseas duty support program Navy wide is a system to assure that families Are properly screened before being assigned overseas duty that sponsors Are motivated and trained to provide assistance that intercultural relations and base orientation programs Are conducted i country that i country support and information is provided that pre departure information and support is offered and that reentry to the Continental United states is the family service Center Here in Rota has primary responsibility for Many aspects of this program and has made significant changes Over the past year and a with regard to alcohol Nav Sta Rota has a Well established and Well coordinated providing treat and the Navy alcohol and drug safety action program is Active in the the alcohol rehabilitation service and counselling and assist Ance Center both have residential and out patient treatment there is Community support for alcoholics anon Alanon and which meet at various times of the Day and every night of the the navys policy on family violence is that it will not be aboard Nav Sta the family advocacy representative at the naval Hospital is the coordinator for the Navy family advocacy together with the base staff judge command getting credit for overseas Tours i am writing to see if you or your Many readers can assist me with a i am presently in the air i served two previous overseas Short Tours in the Ive been to my consolidated base personnel office a few times and they cant seem to help i need to know How to get the Correct documentation to receive credit for these any information you could provide will be Ray Robinson Raf upper England editors note we received two replies to this the first is from chief warrant officer acting personnel actions 1st personnel he Usa eur regarding your inquiry concerning documents to verify your overseas service Dur ing prior periods of Active duty with the army if you were separated with a Reserve Send your request to army Reserve components personnel and administration Center attn Agup sets 9700 Page 631325200 if you were separated from Active Mili tary service and completely discharged without a Reserve Send your request to director National personnel records Center attn 6ncpma 9700 Page 63132 your request should include dates of All prior Active dates of overseas serv ice and a copy of your do form 214 if your request should be prepared and forwarded with the assist Ance of your local Capo special actions the second reply is from master Mike Deputy assignment policy he Safe Nel this is an easy All the writer need do is go to his or her consolidated base personnel customer service with a copy of the appropriate do armed forces of the United states report of Transfer or that reflect the overseas the Capo can easily verify and input this information into the personnel com you Are entitled to receive credit for All previous overseas regardless of Branch of to receive credit for a Short you must have completed at least 181 Days of a lessthan18month pen pals Dum Aguele City Philippines 6501 please place my name on your pen pal i am 24 years my hobbies Are collecting postcards and Cataluna foundation University Dumaguet City 6501 Philippines please print my name in your in 11 years old and would like pen pals from All Over the my interests Are sewing and in in the sixth Lolly 65 sued ring 8941 tru Kelsberg West Germany i am 20 years old and would like you to publish my name in your pen pal aay hobbles include and travelling Burla Robles tubed i am 21 years old and would like to have my name added to your pen pal aay hobbies include watch ing television and going Imatong san Jose Negros Oriental Philippines 6501 i am 21 years i would like pen i am a member of the United Church of Christ in the Phil aay hobbles include and writing pen main gusto Robles tubed Dumaguet Philippines 6501 i am 22yearold full plan who would like to have friends aay hobbles include listening to music and viewing Calina Mckinley Gui Huangan Negros Oriental 6525 Philippines family advocacy and other he naval Hospital far pro Vides treatment and follow through on issues of Domestic the Csc offers a variety of classes to increase Community awareness of the Var ious family advocacy including spouse and child sexual assault and rape and sexual molestation and treatment for individuals or families identified As abusive is provided by the naval the Csc offers a wide Range of counselling services for i Dividu couples and families who Are experiencing problems and who May be at the Lack of information regarding de Pendents rights and privileges demonstrated by the author is an ongoing prob it is a fact that some service members prefer to maintain their spouses in Igno Rance of these the Csc offers classes on dependents rights and benefits and assures that Rele vant information is provided in the news radio and it is an on going with continuous efforts to remedy in Nav Sta Rota has a Vari Ety of resources available to the author of the Contact with any one of the organizations mentioned above would re sult in direct assistance or appropriate referral for her specific concerns or prob the because of the diversity of its program and its highly publicized and utilized information and referral is often the first Point of and would be an appropriate 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