European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - October 29, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday october 29, 1985 the stars stripes $3& stat Isis Page 11 dear Ann Landers this morning for the second time in six months 1 encountered a Young woman crying in the restroom of our of fice. The reason she did t know the Man was married. There Musl be thousands of women out there who arc in the same situation. I would like to give these not very Bright females a Short l look at the wedding ring Finger. If there s a band of while around it the Guy takes his ring off when he visits you. 2 if he is unable to give a phone num Ber where he can be reached at night he s got a wife. 3 suggest that you spend a night at his place watch his reaction. 4 if he tells you he s allergic to per fume it Means his wife has a nose like a bloodhound. 5 if he checks himself Over for lipstick or makeup before he leaves your place there s a Good reason. 6 ask to see the pictures he carries in his Wallet. If he makes some excuse for not showing them to you he s got the wife s kids pictures in there. 7 what kind of shorts does he Wear single men Wear bikinis. Married men Wear Boxer shorts. I la sign this been around in dakersf1eld dear bake you surely have. Thanks for a postgraduate course in husband detection. The Points you make arc wonderfully Logi Cal. Dear Ann Landers i am 14 years old never have been out of new York City. My Cousin from South Dakota came to visit in August. Sue told us All sorts of stories about life on the farm. It sounds fascinating. Sue says her pet cow Bostic gives Blue milk when she is feeling Down in the dumps. For instance Bossie lost a calf last year her milk was Blue for weeks. I be never heard of such a thing. Can this be True please Check with your farm experts let me know. City Cousin dear Cue that Story is Adderly ridiculous. Dear Ann Landers the letter from the Young woman who walked in her sleep prompted me to write. When i married my husband several years ago he had a habit of sleeping in the nude. 1 never liked it let turn know my feelings. I bought him several pairs of Beautiful pyjamas but he refused to put them night we went to Philadelphia for a social event. We stayed in one of the finest hotels. In the Middle of the night my husband sleepwalker into the lobby. This naked Man created such an uproar the screams woke him up. When he discovered where he was in what condition he nearly died of shame. 1 never had to ask him to Wear pyjamas after Hope the lady who wrote to you wears a Nightgown. _ a Routs wife dear wife if she does to she probably nil now. Confidential to am i right in Galesburg i double it. You have too Many knocks for people who have been very kind to you. Nothing is easier than fault finding. It requires no Talent no brains no character. Riders Wesr tone to write to news America Syndi Cate columnist Law is May address a mers " car Otth Star s1rlps Apo 09211, . Forert reminder All letters to inc editor must contain the full printed name address of the writer must by signed. We will with hold your tame on request protect your privacy. � he wants More on Post facilities to accept checks 1 am one of Many . Army soldiers who jumped on inc sure pay bandwagon Long before it was mandated by the military Sci Zarchy. Therefore a Check Book has be come second nature to me. Unfortunately this is not True Tor those soldiers less responsible than myself. I am grateful for the department of defense s current system of keeping track of bad Check writers. What i would like to know is Why Are some on Post businesses . Heaters restaurants Etc not provided with the Nec Essary information to validate checks also Why arc not All on Post establishments required to accept valid checks As payment in my opinion the same government that found it necessary to enforce sure Fay should concern itself with the fact that a Soldier cannot even use a personal Check everywhere on Post. Furthermore he is currently restricted to american banking facilities or Post exchanges. Without this Freedom today s Soldier stationed in Europe is missing out on the very luxuries originally built for him. This is or t a problem to be taken lightly. Spcc.4 . Baker , in Many editor s note a spokesman from the office of the Deputy chief of staff resource management he 1 Sar eur replies thank you for the Opportunity to identify where personnel in Europe can Cash personal checks. Our Basic goal is to pro vide stateside like Check cashing serv we think we arc meeting that goal. Actions this past year included standardizing und streamlining Check cashing procedures at army finance offices. This service is not generally available stateside. There was also an increase from $10 to s25 Over Purchase Check cashing at cafes outlets. There Are other actions ongoing to expand Check cashing re Duce bureaucracy ., elimination of con sent agreements for family members at finance offices limit increases at com a message to dependent wives i be never written to a newspaper before but i feel i have a message to dependent wives that is As widespread As it is important. 1 am new in country being an extrovert the move was t As traumatic for me As it probably is for most. I have never had problems acquiring new friends until 1 moved Here. At first the curiosity of the new kid on the Block was rampant. But since i feel unwelcome very Unin formed very alone. I have been made to fed an inconvenience. 1 have always tried to make previous new wives feel any Access to important information or utilities was Al ways available to them through me because i was familiar with the area. I realize it s rough trying to adjust to All the strangeness without it coming from the least place you d expect it your Ameri can neighbors. Haven t you been new once did t you have a Hundred questions your new neighbor probably docs too. You May not love thy neighbor As thyself but in t there something you could do to make them feel a Little More comfortable or accepted in their new environment i would like to one More comment about Germany. My personal opinion is i Haven t got one complaint. It s a Beautiful country with wonderful people the cafes system May not be the biggest but the people working with in the system arc very pleasant cooperative. And the army s services acs Are wonderful the opportunities through Many of them Are limitless. For adjusting to being new reaching out to other new people the army has outdone itself with their service. Thank you for hearing me out. Name withheld Giebe Tadt Germany opposition to apartheid urged manily banking facilities Aafke commissaries. We expect Progress in these other areas in the near future. To your haste question some act ties do not accept personal checks because of the nature of their business. Heaters for exam ple do not normally take personal checks. Admissions Price is Low usually s2 going to the movies is a planned event so the Thea Ter goer normally plans to have Cash available. Based on this plus the fact that throughout the theater Industry Check acceptance is very minimal accepting personal Check is not Worth the expense maintaining extra Cash on hand extra had Check listings increased personnel expense or the Extension of time the majority of the theatregoers would have to wait inline. Where can you Cash personal checks in the typical military Community in Ger Many the following outlets Are available Community banking facility $500 per Day or up to account balance. Cafes main stores s100 reprinted checkss50 counter Type or s25 Over Purchase. Food lands $25 Over Purchase. Commissaries $20 Over Purchase. Army finance offices $745 per Day assigned to Community or 520 1 per Day toy leave. Club system various limits. Personnel assigned at Remote Sites May not have All of these facilities Avail Able those assigned in Belgium Italy Turkey Greece hate several differences. In most communities Check cashing is readily available. With proper planning personnel with sure pay should be Able to have Cash available when they need it. The stars tripes is us a european Edmon capt Dale a Patterson us editor in chief cmdr Jeffrey 3. Zakem u5n a put editor in chief . Blackwell m. Proctor . Meo Cramott production manager manat oed. Circulation my deepest congratulation from most of my friends on your great editorials up Date stories on South Africa. We As Ameri cans in president Reagan s Eye play yet an isolated role in helping our South african neighbors to better the outcome of the inevitable. But whatever happened to the . For Freedom spirit during president John f. Kennedy s term he stated let every nation know whether they wish us Well or ill that we shall pay any Price Bear any Burden meet any hardship support any Friend or oppose any foe to assure the survival Success of have those words expired As Wendell Willkie stated Freedom is an invisible word. If we want to enjoy it fight for it we May As Well be pre pared to extend it to everyone whether they agree with us or not no matter what their race or color of their or As Mahatma Ghandi so boldly stated violence As a Way of achieving racial jus Tice is both impractical immoral. It is impractical because it is a descending spiral ending in destruction for All. The old Law of an Eye for an Eye leaves everyone Blind. It is immoral because it seems to humiliate the opponent rather than win his understand ing it seems to annihilate rather than con Vert. Violence is immoral because it thrives on hatred rather than love. It destroys Community makes brotherhood impossible. It leaves society in monologue rather than dialogue. Violence ends by destroying itself. It creates bitterness in the survivors brutality in the so the state of emergency Only makes things worse. If we Are against communism the denial of our Basic freedoms then we should be against apartheid. Sometimes it feels As though i am serving in vain. Here we have a practical problem there is a practical solution Lei i take our Marble from their pot Lei them decide among themselves. We Don t want to be part of a racist government. 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