European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 7, 1985, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday december 7, 1985 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers i dear Ann Landers. The letters you have run lately on the new rules for women who Dair Lias prompted me to write. I am in my 40s, was married for Sev eral years am totally a confused and More � than a Little nervous. � 4 what am i sup of. 1 posed to do when a Man invites me 10 join him for dinner and a movie should i ask him then and there who a paying How might one do that gracefully i cannot imagine. I am struggling hard to make ends meet. 1 simply cannot afford logo out with some one and suddenly be told i paid for the dinner it s up to you to buy the movie now 1 am wondering if that Nice Man who took me out last week and seemed to enjoy my company so much has t called Back because i did t offer to pay for my half. Or u lie waiting for me to Call and invite him out for a meal please Ann How about some help for us females who were Busy doing something else while the rules were changing confused in Washington dear confused relax. The rules Hiren t Doged nil that much for females in their 40s. Most 1mb in the same age bracket who Varile women to dinner and the movies stifle pet to pick up the lab. If the relationship becomes More than casual the woman should offer to Cook occasionally at her place or take him out on his birthday or on Valentine s Day or just for a sunday treat. She should also buy him i gift once in awhile. The rules Are different for teen agers on an allowance College kids who Are barely getting by or senior citizens on a pension. They go dutch. Dear Ann Landers 1 read with interest the letter describing the widespread practice of stealing Mer Chandise from one s employer. While 1 do not condone such behaviour it is not difficult to understand Why some people do it. Let me illustrate my Point. Many years ago worked in the office of a Small company in Chicago. The woman in charge of the mailing room handled several Hundred dollars Worth of Post age Stamps. When employees wanted to buy a few Stamps for personal letters they would go to Betty and she would accommodate them. Ii was discovered that Betty did not always put Hal Small change in the Cash drawer. Eventually she was caught and discharged for stealing. Several weeks later something inadvertently activated the sprinkler system. The superintendent ordered three truckloads of merchandise up from the basement and placed it where it would get wet. The com Pany then called the insurance people and collected a Nice sum of Money for inc ruined merchandise. The news circulated around the Plant in a hurry and Many of us were disgusted they fired Betty for St Calm a few measly dollars while the company ripped off the insurance company for a hefty sum. Do you understand Why some employees a Tow in i Over veal Contenti of the stars and a Lalovi Art no i Nevi Tarziv i official View of of to dorm by in us Ovir Newi. It department of Daft film or try u 5 european command the Hotaranu at advert Itig in the publication including in Ftp or it Tom Niv. Don not two Lillie endorsement by i department olo Teru or the Start and air Lei of he product or Tervi ctn advertised everything ave Flawd. In Fhi pub Callon trn be True available Lor Purina a a of patronage i Irful a Road Loric color Ftp lion. To National origin a if hair it physic in Handicap Oili incl Attl elation or any o room re if Clor of the Ciufi Fiatt Utar or Walron. Military of Fath 5 an Jund s a. Apo mall the Shari arid sri text Pollach 11 id 14. A Cloo Darmi Ltd d. Or Many. Tal. Girl them Otiss Mlo Mali mrs firm Pladt air trip i737ij 7j. It european Tel Phon soil pm et1 number 3n, building. Sf4 we pm. Room to. Wegrzn it in. So Meg. Apo 09407 to Lorwn Mullen Rel 7s11 j370, ets no 43-1170or Munich Civ 09-490-1100 Nuernberg Germany Ter Nura n. 71,William o a Vav Cavern Apo out. Mil 771-7714, ets no 440-77s4 or nut Rob rat 0911 7i7u3.stuttgart. Germany Dan wham and Joe on Bow no 7303. Room 11�, pack birr cd. Boa 9ta, Apo d9i7b. Left door Patch Mil. 77m-iw9, ets no 430-wl? of Civ 0711 j77174. Two to isms Hazlev Italy to Btl Leonard. Hangar a. Casetti Cuttno As Fpo by 0illater two Civ Mjt-i1-7suss. Mil Auto on 47-h10il Sim unt cd Kingo owe j. Pm in. Frankfurt ctr. A Toto so or ms41, Mil m15 or ?103, ets no. J30-m7 or 7to, to i 4177u. Kit Ier. A Ultra Civ. S Oil or s707. My. Vo9hwn you ets no. 4w-Wso, Munich Civ. �1sw or wois04, Mil. 6su. Ets no. 44v-Tu. Nurnmr9, Civ. 717sm, Mil 700i, ets no. 4ao-7001 soul Lorl Civ. 071m7ih. Mil. My. Et5 no. 420-wx. Cute eco at Strtt Civ. Mutt Italy Elcenia Civ. Is vim Spain Madrid. My. 100341 ws-4600 or Civ 00341 6s4i44s. Turkey i Duldul. Civ. 1444371. To 74174 sans to United kingdom Grenham common Civ Newbury 0631 44761 Mil or Bury of Hajj u7&3 Ett 709
