European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 1, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse Parents of caretakers my child was asleep " or. Kenneth k. Berry an associate professor of 1 medical psychology Al the University of Nebraska medical Centor in Omaha who has worked extensively with single parents suggests doing this i Tell parents Logut the information Dusl from the Siller. But Don t approach critically. That closes Oil communication Sallows said i ii always ask the Sitter. How was it tudy and try to read be Wenn the lines of the when parents and caretaker come from different backgrounds which is Oiler the Case a Knis Oti said there May be Little on which to build a relationship and since it is Likely that both parents work or that the working Parent is single the Lack of Limo May be a further hindrance jealousy can intervene too with parents wanting the caretaker to be As Good yet not As Good As i hey Aro at child rearing. There is a fear that the child will not distinguish Between adults Berry said but research suggests that a developing attachment to the Cai Laker does not weaken a child s attachment to the Parent research results May not reassure parents. We finally figured out that our son knew who was who because amid a Stream of a pairs we were the ones who slaved said Alice k. Small director of con races at the Educa Honal testing service in Princeton n a and a part Lime Law student dealings Between Parent and caretaker Are olten linked with discomfort even fear parents May be. Afraid thai in 2 the caretaker will result in abuse of the child there is Little basis Lor Mimisi Cun Curn Atkinson said. Of the 1 million child abuse cases reported in 1984, less than 1 5 Percone involved child care workers meanwhile both caretaker and Parent May fear that Wien one of them disciplines the child the other will Iran Hospital s new children psychiatric Ward. That he returns to a positive environment Woolston said. Prior to the Young arsonist s discharge the unit arranged an eight hour school Day. Continuing therapy household help Lor his Molher and the supervision of a social worker. The iwo emotionally impaired Brothers were placed in a residential treatment program while their father was encouraged to seek counselling. Joey Kelly is Back in school in South Dakota in a special education program that was tailored to. Recommendations trom the Yale unit. If you lived in our House you would i believe the we Terence that has come from those six weeks Joey s i lather says it s almost perceive Ilas child abuse. Perhaps the ultimate fear for working Small said is Hal the caretaker will leave just when you need her Many of those ears can be dispelled if parents decide on the nature of their relationship with the said Diane Adams director of Community coordinated child care a non profit child care resource and referral Agency in Mattson the Best parental Al tude is that this person is Supply mening them " that attitude. In turn dictates a Mutual respect and a formal Mode of communication such As a daily diary Lell for parents to Road. And that Sorl of positive allude will result in whal Diane Adams Calls validation of she caretaker actions in which parents reinforce the notion that the caretaker plays an important ongoing role in their children s lives. Caretakers have no clearly defined role to use As a Model. Parents As yes heroes associated Pressw Hen it comes local heroes save censer Slage Loi parents according to a Survey by Frank Farley a psychologist Al the University of Wisconsin Madison mothers and Falcis Are Iho real heroes in the eyes of children. Asked to name their hero Young boys ranked their fathers ahead of Superman and girls admired then dads More than friends or Abraham Lincoln. Boys said their no. 1 heroines were their mothers and girls rated their friends and such notables As pop Singer Cyndi Lauper Way behind their mothers. Young male Colage students picked dad placing him ahead of people like Martin Luther King and Jesus Chansl and Heso Man when asked to name their heroine. Gave their mothers top place ahead of Eleanor Roosevell and Joan of arc. Among female College students dad won out Over a Field that also included King and Jesus and mom easily beat Oul Molher Teresa and was Way ahead of Golda Meir the 163 children surveyed were pupils 7 to 10 years old in grades 2 through 6 in a suburban Madison school. About twice thai number were surveyed but the rest were asked questions dealing with another Farley study. The 270 College students were members of a class on motivation taught by Farley. Again All students were surveyed but half were involved in another study. College slide nos listen lol loping As import land qualifications for heroes and strength kindness and love Hong ssh and intelligence people think heroes Are almost overwhelmingly Public people said Farley who has Boon studying a toes Lor years tm1 simply to not True i think people View heroism occurring up close in a family in a fiend. As Well As viewing it Atar in no Case were the students Given a list to choose from. They were on their own to name a hero among the younger children Iho lop live heroes Tor boys were dad. Superman a Friend Grandfather and professional wrestler Hulk Hogan their heroines Ware Mother Supor girl. Grandmother a teacher and a Friend among girls of that age the hero list dad. A Friend an Uncle. Superman and a lie for fifth place Between Hulk Hogan and Abraham Lincoln. Their heroines were Mold a a Friend Cyndi Lauper Singer Madonna and lied Tor fifth were grandmother and a teacher male College students said their heroes after their fathers were Marlin Luther King Jesus Chansl. President Reagan and Lee Iacocca. Heroines Trail run behind their mothers were Eleanor Roosevell. Joan of arc and Model Christie Brinkley among female College slide nos the ranking was dad King Christ Lincoln and Albert Einstein. Their heroines after Mother of course were Mother Teresa grandmother and s lie among Eleanor Roosevell. Susan b. Anthony and Golda Meir mom rates highest on girls list of heroines. The stars and stripes Page 15
