European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - August 18, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday. August 18, 1986 the stars and stripes Page 11 dear Ann Landers i just had to write after Reading about women who continue to have sex with their sex husbands because i am one. Joe and i were divorced last year. One month later he was in my bed. I thought i was the Only woman in the whole world who did this. From your column Learned otherwise. You Are wrong when you say it is the path of least  there Are other reasons both my sex and t Are terrified of getting a venereal disease. I Don t sleep around and he knows it. If i thought he was Alley Catling i would Stop seeing him at once and remain celibate for the rest of my life. I m 42. Though we gel along extremely Well sexually we found it impossible to live together. So you see Ann there Are other reasons for steeping with one s former spouse a Reader in East Montana dear Reader to Kauai for your comments. My Man indicates there Are u awful Tot of sex s sleeping together and some of the reasons they give would twirl your Urban. One Wamala wrote he rents a room in or Bouse. On week de we Sony Dos gel drunk together and forget we ant married. Dear Ann Landers i just finished Reading Eileen Stevens letter about fraternity hazing and wanted to Lei you know that Haz ing it not merely a problem Al College or even in High Schoob but also in Junior High. My son Norman 12 years old a sixth grader was a victim of a Type of hazing called  that is when a group of kids boys and girls pick out one kid 10 put in a trash can against his or her will. When Norman was attacked there s no other Way you can describe it with one Tud against sit it was lunch thine just outside the principal s office. They locked his arms behind his Back and tried to put him in the trash can. Of course he resisted and fell hitting his Mouth very hard on the can. Norm has a Mouth full of braces so you can imagine Bow bad his Mouth and braces were Lorn up. This happened six months ago and he still has problems with his Teeth. I believe every kind of hazing should be banned. Not Only is it dangerous but humiliating. Any child who feds he must put up with hazing in order to be accepted has a serious problem. Cd. In so Valley Dearcy How right you Are. One of the aspects of ugh school and Collet hazing that has been overlooked it the willingness of the victims to put up with humiliation and degradation in order to  How sad. As for Junior High trashing the school authorities should visit harsh punishment on every child who is invoked in this cruel pastime. Dear Ann Landers recently one of your medical consultants discovered aids victims were not eligible to be Organ do nors. This is Only partly True. Eye Banks desperately need the eyes of aids patients for medical research. So Patoux Ann Tell your leaders who May be interested to Contact or. Emile j. Farge executive director of sons eyes of Texas Eye Bank Texas medical Center 6501 Fannin suite c 307, Houston Texas. 77030. M Kumcu for kit tit now. . Frankfurt mom finds Day care problems Picc again i am reminded of the inconvenience of living overseas. Judging from the amour. Of babies being bom at the 97lh i fear i am not the Only Cue who has a complaint. 1 live on the Economy 9 Choice thai i have never regretted. I try at Leas once a week to get away from it All having two year old twins can rattle the Best of nerves. Recently i had a doctor s appointment that also required an appointment for my twins at the Day care Center. I called iwo weeks in Advance to the 97th child care Center for an appointment and was a Little taken Aback when asked inhere was an emergency involved. I said no Only a routine doctor appointment. I was Lold sorry a am we Are not taking walk ins unless it is an  i asked Why and was Lold they were renovating. I next called the Abrams child care Cenner. Once again i was asked if there was an emergency involved and was told once again they Loo were renovating and not taking walk ins unless it was an emergency. I relayed this Story to my neighbor who Lold me the same thing is going on at the Drake child care Center. Come to find out this renovation of three Day care facilities had a completion Date of mid july. With nowhere else to urn in the Frankfurt area i called Rhein main child care Center. They at least. Weren t renovating but they Only had room for one of my twins. I guess i could pretend one of them does t exist. Inconvenient to say the least can someone possibly give me a reason Why the army would choose to renovate Alt of the Frankfurt Day care facilities at the same time it s not a problem for those people with a live in Nanny or for those who live in stairwell housing where moms Trade o t. If there is an answer i would like to believe it was not made to purposely keep moms at Home More. It has always been an amazement to me in the years i have been associated with the military How the so called service organizations find so Many ways to be non service oriented. It brings to mind the old cliche of the ail wagging the dog. Terry Reynolds Frankfurt editor s note Michael h. Workman director. Personnel and Community activities Frankfurt military to Mcanlly replies thank you for expressing the interests of the Mother who chooses not to work away from the Home. In order to accomplish the renor Alki with the finds available it was necessary id Haw the work done Irhn the contractors were available. The original contract would Haft necessitated completely closing the Centra concurrently. This of course was unacceptable and the contract was modified id allow partial dec of the facilities while Ibn malted in a some Waal greater cos o the Community it made it possible for most of our full time patrons la be accommodated Lafonn Atlon on Biliy child can a Wriden who accept children for hourly care was to Uuk at the centers or at Blu development services Frankfort military eau Raily. These pro Ruen arc located la got eminent coot new quarters in All areas of the Fra Kart Community awl Ait a option o Wesiter Bawd can. We regret any Bacoate Areace caused Patron Farina our neat Nown too. Both Knau us 97lh child development centers an Alec Agana  Lor termly care. For Rew How at fee 97th pm development Center Call Gibbs Tatt taty 325-7572 or Frankfurt Zrilian 069 1m1-7s72 for a nuns Heater Call Frankfurt Mullary 31-8166 or Frankfurt a Lillian 069 1s1-1. Writer suggests review of a 670-1 i do believe the most forgotten or ignored regulation is a 670-1. 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