European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 1, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Wednesday. October 1, 1966 the stars and stripes Arm Landers dear Ann Landers you have done it again. Be Lieve me you have saved a . 4, i was married for almost 28 / years and have six of the most wonderful children in the world. ? five weeks ago my wife left me f j and the kids for a 22-year-old Guy. She says she is madly in love 4"with him and refuses to let this  last Chance for heaven get away. A j the woman is twice his age and fir she has four kids older than he is. 1 tried everything i could think of to gel her to change her mind but nothing i said made any difference. She is now living in the kid s apart ment. When she left she Tore my heart apart. Life was meaningless and suicide seemed like it. L Only Way lend the agony. I planned to take my life the following morning Tut that night i picked up the Newark news and ran across the letter in your column about parents who commit suicide. I cried All the while i read it but it opened my eyes. It made me realize How Short sighted and selfish i  you from the Bottom of my heart Ann land ers i am asking you to print this letter and you have my permission to use my name and City. I will never forget what you did for me and my children. Or. M., father of six in Oak Ridge , dear dad thank you for letting me know. For those who did not Sec that column the Bottom line was this Slick around and face the problem. Your family needs you. Killing yourself May put an end to your pain but it will create problems without end for those you leave  dear readers several weeks ago i printed a column by or. Deans Edell about ovral the morning Afler Pill. I would like to make it Clear that this Pill should reused As an emergency measure the morning Afler unprotected Intercourse. It is not repeat not a substitute far birth control . Daniel Myshell jr., chairman of obstetrics and gynaecology to the University of Southern California says that Lor the majority of women it would be safer and Juil As effective to Lake a Pill with a lower amount of oestrogen. Dear Ann Landers regarding the Mother in Longview whose children resembled no one in the family Here is a Story about Achild who did look like someone. At every family get together i was put on display and stared at and had my Chin grabbed and twisted so that everyone could see every Angle of my  i was 6 years old it was decided that i looked like my great aunt Edith who was almost 70 at the time. I was absolutely horrified because aunt Edith had a beak of a nose bulging eyes lots of wrinkles Anda wart on her Chin with hair growing out of it. During my growing up years 1 was a loner de pressed and introverted. I would spend hours in front of the Mirror praying for my face to change. Thankfully when i was 16 my face must have changed because i was elected May Queen. It was the happiest Day of my please inform people not to Tell kids they resemble older relatives. Children need All the positive imagery they can get to be told they resemble someone 50 years older can be very depressing dear Swan Thanki for silting in Ray chair today. Your message is Rood one and could have come Only from someone who tuts Beta Here. Millions of children will bless you. Hedgers or Thirino to Wile to to attn America Syndicate cur Anim und arime Lect a their fell i in Cave of the Star end Sli pm. Apo Tain. .  Page 11 letters household goods storage Reg explained my expiration of term of service ets from the army was in May 1986.1 have 760 pounds of storage in it. Bliss Texas. I got married Over Here and we will be Here until september 1987. I went to the local transportation office and wrote the transportation office at it Bliss. Because my things in storage Are in my Maiden name both offices told me i could t change it Over into my husband s name. It s been extended the additional 180 Days which ends in november. Is Here anything i can do i want to keep my stuff. After november i la be charged a fee. If i can t pay it then my things will be destroyed. Please help me with any advice or a Way to ship it Over Here. I can t afford to ship it on my own. Lisa Howard Babenhausen. Germany editor s note Victoria Logan office of Hie Deputy chief of staff logistics Usa eur replies an title mint for  storage of House hold goods at government expense becomes affixed on the effective Date of the orders. Household Good acquired after the effective Date of orders through marriage inheritance Purchase Etc. Cannot be transported or stored at government expense until the Soldier receives another permanent change of station pcs order. There Are no exceptions to this Public Law your letter slate that you were married , the goods were obtained by year Huib wed Are the effective Date of his orders and the he cannot be converted to he name for storage or shipment at government expense. Government payment for your temporary storage and All shipping entitlement for you property will Termi Nate after the 180 Days. It is recommended thai you provide disposition instructions for delivery to a specific location or advise it. Bliss of your intention to convert your lion Date. Ration card needed to enter cafes in . Earlier this year i went on temporary duly to eng land i am a civilian employee of the . Army i decided 10 visit the Post Exchange at Raf upper Scyford to look around. I was denied Access to the Exchange because i failed to bring along my ration card. Please explain this. It is my understanding that a ration card Only per mits an individual to Purchase a rationed item . Tobacco Coffee Tea liquor and is not used to Gai Access to an cafes facility. I had a valid identification card and Usa eur driven License to show that 1 was a Dod civilian. Name withheld Frankfurt editor s note capt. Heidi glib commander 513th services so., replies we Are sorry you experienced an unpleasant situation while attempting to enter As cafes facility. However ration ear i Are indeed required for in trance into these facilities where All items Are  is due to the status of forces agreement "1th the British government whereby the untied Sites is Al Lowed to ship items sold in cafes facilities into the United kingdom lax free. Cigarettes alcohol and luxury items Are controlled in accordance with safer j4-i inn the need for ration blocks on the cards. Only personnel stationed in toy to or on emergency lean orders in the United kingdom Are authorized ration privilege and thus in trance to cafes facilities. Since you were toy to the United kingdom Yon could have had your orders appropriately stamped at the billeting office which would have entitled you to use the cafes facilities. Teen against turning parents in for drugs i m very upset with the articles you have been print ing about la Ming your parents i n Tor drug abuse. I m 16 years old and i Don t think that it s right lo1  rat on your parents. They gave birth to you after All. There Are enough problems with robbery murder and terrorists that need to be taken care of. Turning your parents in tears apart the family and you lose Trust in each other. I m not saying it s right Louie drugs but i think it should be handled some other Way. Turning your parents in reminds me of communism. They do thai i Russia. 1 Don t want America to become like Russia everybody turning on everybody. What bothers me most is hat you print it up in the paper like it s a great thing ratting on your own parents. 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