European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 25, 1986, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday oclobw25. 1986 the stars and 3tripes pafl9 h Arm Landers dear Ann Landers r cannot believe your response to smart sooner than later regarding mrs. Butcher of Man Hattan who left her family with Best wishes while her friends collected $2 million. Do you Lead a sheltered life or Are you just stupid i have a brother age 55. Our 82-year-old Mother also plans to give All her Money if she has any left to her faithful friends. They can have in. All we want a peace. Mother hat two dogs. They Are very old Blind in continent and the House smells terrible. We took turns going Over there to change her bed and mop the floors. She has repeatedly told her friends my family does t do a Damn thing for her Niece used to take Mother s car and get it washed fill it with Gat and drive it so the Carbon would not build up. When Mother accused her of stealing the car she quit. I did Mother s laundry but i brought it Back too late to suit her. The last Lime i was told get your fat rear end out of Here and Don t come Back.1 my brother is a Good Mechanic and kept her car running like a top until she told him he was a Dumbbell and the car would work belter if he left it alone. So now he does just that and she screams about the repair Bills. Her grandchildren go to her Home after work Cany out the trash do the grocery shopping vacuum the rugs and shampoo and Cut her hair. She never says thank you Only complains that the grocery Bills Are Loo High and her hair looks awful. Mother can barely walk. She needs a wheelchair and we be offered to buy one. She says we Are trying to turn her into a worse yet we cannot get her to see her doctor. Every time we make an appointment she cancels it. The woman places anywhere from 10 to 24 Calls a Day to Tell us and others what a great Mother she has been. She also spends about $200 a month telephoning friends Long distance. These Calls she says keep her sane because her family never visits her and she has nobody to talk to. She telephones various members of the family twist ing and carrying talks Back and Forth one against the other. Then she whines i Don t know Why we can i be a close family like other typical of her conversations Wilh friends is Why do Lullabelle and Jonathan hate me do you know when Lullabelle was in school she had 83 dresses in her closet 1 made each one with my own two so please Ann know that some parents Are beyond help or Hope and there is no Way to please them. You can print Tail letter just As 1 wrote it everyone w town knows All about this. Hard Core vets in Oceanside Calif. Yet Mother sounds As if she has something More Baa personality problems. A neurologic sex would probably Tel a lot if ran Cut to her Ihk to and who must Deal with difficult m. If a serious problem and becoming More so cum people Are living longer. Counselling to help Yogt opt room nuke pfc
