European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 12, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday january 12, 1b67 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann i am a 21-year-old College Stu Dent who went on a Date with a Man i be known and liked Tor several months. By the end of the evening Tim and i were engaged in heavy pet Ting. When he tried to go further i stooped hint. I am not a Virgin but 1 like this Guy a lot an wanted to establish a lasting relationship with him. I be always believed that if a Man scores on the Lirl Dale the woman is not considered wife  so i was fallowing my code of morality. A few Dayt Laier Tim told me it would not work out Between us because we were going at different  what do men really want it looks As if 1 have to Stout because t would a t have sex on our finl Dale. Yel i believe had i Given in to Tim he would have thought1 was a tramp and never called me again. You probably will say the fellow is a Jerk and i should Nick to my High standards hut i m worried that a lot of men our there think the same Way Tim does. Please help me make Heads or tails out of this Situa Tion. I am any woman any town .  me Square. Call me antediluvian. I still believe most men lose respect for a woman they can bed Dowson the lint Date. My question to you is what s with your Cade of Mcnully thai you were Tola Bony pelting on the lint Date Ever hear of con ers Atlon it is my opinion that you misled the Guy and he became frustrated and angry. Several Yean ago i wrote a Boot Ltd for Leen Ann in which i said keep Lour feet on the floor at air time and All hands on deck that advice though old and bearded by now is still Good oat Only for teen agers but for anyone on a first Date. Dear Ann Landers i read recently that the american medical Assoc a in posed to lie Detector tests even though they letter Kodak Exchange program is on hold tie. This percentage seems pretty Good 10  the Ama not approve of it big q. In Albion  big q a polygraph records of actuation in blood pressure pulse breathing and perspiration. Experienced liar on beat the machine by raining themselves to remain Coo Lunder pressure. By the same Token an innocent person who become rattled and atut Tou can teat guilty. I m with the Ama. Seventy five percent in t Goodenough when a person s reputation or livelihood u at take. Belter 100 guilty ones go free than 10 innocent people be punished unjustly. Dear readers on nov. It i received a note from my Good Friend Sydney a Harris. He wrote it was an unexpected pleasure to see u quote of mine in your column today. I am pleased you found it Worth in Ling. Please accept this copy of my newest Book which is coming out in a Tew week. 1 have bad a slight stroke and am convalescing at Home so can do Little id promote it i would be most grateful if you could find a reason to mention it to Yew faithful followers. With warm personal regards Oft dec. 7, Sydney Harris died during open heart artery he was a splendid writer and an  who challenged our prejudices and introduced us to our better self is. His last Book Clearing the ground published by Houghton Mifflin u his Best Fth Dara what Row to warm to news Arnah Ca Send lorm forum nil Lart Waray Androu or or than Man a to Sun an Stipo Apo own , Ink some of us Here in Germany bought the Kodak land camera then heard about the court Case and the recall of All those Cambrai. We did whal we were told to do at thai time. Since then we have not received anything except a Posl card stating that they were out of the packaging in which to mum the camera but As soon As they get their Slock we would receive this k that we could get our return this took place in april. I have written letters and eard nothing. We who arc overseas Are gelling shafted i feel. The Way t understand it dec. 31 was. ,. The last Day in which this could have be taken care of or something to that effect. I there anything that we can do or Are we to lose out on Money that is rightfully ours do companies not stand behind their work any More did they just politely forget about us Here in Germany Donna l. Jarombek or levee Germany i own a Kodak Koda Matic Champ instant print camera Kodak has a turn in program for these Cam eras due to the supreme court ordering the discontinuance of the production of he film for them. 1 obtained a turn in slip from cafes and sent it to Kodak in May 1986. A few weeks later i received notification that Kodak had received my turn in re quest and that i should expect to receive a mailing Container to return the camera in. Welt six months have passed and i Haven t heard anything. I spoke with an cafes employee Here in bad Kutu Zach and was informed that a lot of custom ers have been expressing the same problem of nol receiving answers form Kodak. Since the end of the year deadline for camera turn in has passed and Many of it in Europe Are having trouble getting information of this subject could you assist us Sec. Wesley s. Will Ogbun bad Knuz Nach Germany editor s note Walt Hennessey supervisory editor of our new York operations contacted Kodak for More information. Guy w. Bouchard director Kodak instant camera Exchange program Nolle thank Yon for your letter requesting our input regard ing1 inc status of t fat instant camera Exchange program. 1appreciate the Chance to help inform you readers u to where we stand at the present tone. The Kodak Contact id Texas Chris Vynna i correction stating that the program la currently on bold. Dot to a class action suit in Chicago we Are Crummly being resin like from taking any step in the Exchange pro cram beyond compiling a Lut of name and Adit nud of Kodak instant camera owner. The court As a part of its decision will decide what options will be made available to members of he clan. At this time we an unable to predict when the can willbe settled. When u is settled a a Fol be seeing out Urford a trim to everyone in of dab Hue explaining wet Steps should by taken to Complete the exc Hann program. One of nth that Lus occurred Iraq Tantry u Abt our original dec. 31, 1986, deadline Tor Nta nug can in. Tab deadline to no longer in effect the Exchange program dates trill be extended accordingly to allow for any Legal delays being encountered. We will allow plenty of time for the return of cameras after the courts Haw made  letter was mailed in Early december to All military Exchange managers updating them on in current Situa Tion. Revised Coupon pads were Alao tent la he fax changes to help explain to interested military personnel what Ruu happened in regard to the clan action. To become a member of the Exchange program Mili tary personnel within the United states can Call in toll free number. Those located overseas can Send the Cou Pon with their name and address to the Addic prot cd on the Coupon. Thank you again for giving me the Opportunity to a of some help to Hose of your Reader who May Haw wandered about the status of our program. Leap refund procedures explained on oct. 21.1985,1 requested a refund on my Vea contribution of about $1,000.1 was told by my local accounting and finance office afo that i would receive the refund in four to six weeks. Five months later i received a Check but for Only $1 so. 1 immediately wrote to the air Force accounting and finance Center Afaf to explain that Here was a mistake probably due to my recent marriage and name change. 1 received no answer. I Wen to my local afo. They said it s not their problem write to Afaf i wrote again and again still no reply. It has been Over a year now and i am at a total loss. 1 contributed to leap in Good Faith but i have been robbed. How can i get the leap to refund the remain ing $850 they owe me name withheld theto mar. A Germany editor s note master sgt Durw Babcock military pay analyst he Safe Caff replies thank you for providing us an Opportunity to explain now the leap refund system Mutt. We still discuss the proper procedures that must be taken to obtain a refund the Normal delays allowed by Law and your Casein particular. First the leap allotment must be stopped before requesting a refund. The veterans administration will nol process any refund without verification of the month and year of the member s last contribution. Secondly a a form 4-5281, application Tor refund of educational contributions most be submitted to your Load accounting and finance office afo which re views the claim for completeness and forwards the Clanto the air Force accounting and nuance Center. Afaf verifies How Modi Money was collected to name and current address of be claimant and Forward the claim to the a. By us the Valus 60 Day to process the refund. In your Case an error was made by All parties which caused the excessive delay in processing a claim. First your claim should have been submitted through the local afo. Afaf cannot handle he workload of verifying All the data necessary to process the claim in timely fashion. Secondly if the afo lot you it was out in tar prob Lem they were incorrect. As a result of your letter we spoke la your local afo who i now working with you Afaf and the a to obtain your desired refund. In inc come of oar review we Jap found Afaf made a mistake in verifying your total contributions which it being corrected through actions taken by vow afo. Again ire apologize for tit leap problems Yon bad Bat nope Othen can lean from your experience by Fol lowing the procedure outlined la this resp Ojue. All letters to the editor Mast contain the full Pricita name and adore of the writer and rant be lined. 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