European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 30, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday. January 30, 1987 the stars and stripes Paga t1 Ann Landers dear Ann Landerss. This ii in reference id a idler a,.a about a Young woman who chose j Inot to have an abortion despite the father s wishes. You said he \ should definitely pay support. Why if a woman is con Lilu j tonally entitled to a Choice about parenthood should t a Manhave the same Choice in 3 world of equal Power and choices women have to be willing to a Cepl the consequences of the choices they make. No abortion Fine now you have chosen to have a child care for it on your own. My body myself in Cape co dear Yaw body you Rolf do von believe that woman who refines to abort Achild forfeits the right to Insul thai the father of thai child help her late Ore of ii surely you jest. When a nun goes to bed with woman his so percent responsible for what happen As a result. If a pregnancy molls it Fala place in her body and Abe Hai the right id decide what he want to do about it this is the Law talking not Anu Dert and i think in Oral and fair. Dear Ann Landers i be read you for Yean for entertainment never thinking that one Day i would be asking for help me. Last year i found out my husband was seeing another woman. I had suspected it for three years but i had no proof. Because i desperately wanted to keep my marriage together i ignored ail the telltale signs and made excuses for his 6 o clock breakfasts dinners downtown with his Boss and weekends that were sup posed to be business. When i Learned that he had another woman it nearly killed me. F asked myself a thousand times Why 1am a Good looking modern wife who works enjoys sex and hat been married for 19 i told Jed to leave he said he did t want to. In fact he begged for another Chance. I told him i had stopped Loving him and the damage could never be repaired. Now he u a sad miserable Man. Our marriage is an empty Thell Yel he refuses 10 gel out of he House. Believe he nays because a divorce would mean that he would have to give me half of everything he owns. Jed Psi always been very tight with Money i Llave heard him making Telephone Calls to his lady love waking plans 10 see her. In t this a helluva life Conroe Texas dear Cor it my is. Why do Yon tolerate it there Are some excellent alternative. Yon could engage a lawyer throw the Bam out and be free of the whole ugly mess. Dear Ann Landers recently i was chiding my 13-year-old granddaughter for not wishing me a Happy birthday. She said "1 did t know when your birthday 1 replied Bull " my birthday is exactly two weeks after hers and behave lived in the same House for six years. I have never forgotten her birthday. Now my granddaughter and her Mother Are mad at me because they said i swore at her. I did not swear Al her i merely expressed my opinion about her response 10 my statement. Granted the language was a bit Strong but it was an honest reaction. Please Tell me Ann did 1 swear at her or merely express an opinion m or von expressed a opinion til right but your Choice of words Coop ban been lot better. You did t take the lord s my in la with you granddaughter but you certainly de a obscenity which i jul a bid. My Amr ipg Sanaa to com new undo Mumn cur ton. You i Watt to in n in of tin Sun cd it new. A ok11. U i Tot letters Don t get pregnant1 advice stings Mother dear doctor. I am sitting amidst five loads of laundry Al various stages of completion with a House which shows inc neglect brought by the past weeks illnesses. Two Chil Dren Are in bed for naps and another the resisting is showing obvious need of the same rest. We be just an hour ago come from seeing you Al the dispensary where through a mix up we Wert i seen for four hours. After a week of dealing with three sic children being ill myself with As me scenario must go a husband in the Hel then a four hour juggle with today Al least two uncooperative Little ones i m sure i was t the picture of the perfectly Radiant and tranquil Madonna. Your comment after seeing us besides an apology for the length of our wait was Don t get pregnant. I Don t know your motive concerns or opinions in making such a statement but if i am expected to find a solution or help from it for my situation then i d like w share what i be found out it has allowed me the Opportunity to express these feelings to one of Many in the of medical Field in the army and in a world citizenry who have made other very Choice comments lacking any encouragement or uplift. I find your comment an Intuit and an intrusion Ina Choice thai is very personal and sacred to me. Each one of my three children i wanted i am also Intelli gent enough and realistic enough to understand the stress that can come with the added responsibility. Nothing in the world comes for free regardless of what our advertising world might proclaim. You Don t seem to realize that i chose this. My children arc probably the greatest challenges i Wilt Ever Hope to Rise to. They Are absorbing draining radiating uplifting stabbing soothing irritating and educating. They provide me with a continuous feedback of my own personality almost acting a magnifying glasses of my own strength and weaknesses. Do you expect Forsooth that a Mother will Han Down to her children principles which differ from tier Juvenal because of my children 1 am a different person today than yesterday or tomorrow Ai they Are Ever changing so must i keep up with higher hurdle to Cross in my skill of understanding and love. My purpose in this life in t just e have Tome status car or go skiing in the Alps or for that matter to have a Job that s exciting or even necessarily to affect directly worldwide change. In my Awn right t am trying to be and become the pest i can be and it i a partnership with my husband my children and my lord which will help me to attain that goal and in truth the Best Way to teach my children ii through my example. When you see a harried Mother or father Cope or trying to Cope Don t fuel their frustrations with trite cynicism. Help them to see the nobility of their roles and the endless resource their child can be la them. Thank you for your help today in fixing the mix up tiling our medical needs and giving me the Chance to finally give ibis response air. And i nope you Fin Finin Fulk ret Effrom your own cold soon. Anne Kratzer location withheld criticism of cafes and policy is answered i noticed that a recent cafes sales paper listed number of sales but of the automobile specials 1 listed seven of the eight items were our everyday Low Price. What kind of a special Sale is that i would recommend that a Sale advertisement be just that instead of listing items at the Normal Price. That does t provide much incentive to participate in the automobile specials. Larry e. Gilmore Cellen Urchen Germany editor s note it. Col Charlie White Public affairs officer he. Cafes Europe replies your implied definition of advertising Falls Short of the intended Mark. Our publicity and advertising efforts Are Complex in Deavors designed to impart a positive cafes image they re meant o highlight our value consciousness Container responsibility open Loul integrity the Quality of our merchandise and Serron and oar Anfe Ithmal credibility. As Well As specific alien. With a third of oar customer base chanting annually we a an obligation to let customers know what i available through hot cafes Ernp. Tact Toon of the and Yob mind a was 16 provide me mafioso abort Janonal Antony Olin item available at Proa Locala Afes Anto parti store. Additionally it s of latent to inform Cor out omers of special buys and Rota Taniai rallies Ara foible on � regular Suud a Well at offering pedal tale prices. Bottom line in the True tense b service our intent thoth advertising be it in print or other forms is to reflect the cafes image of strings consumer Protection Quality and Confidence. And naturally to reinforce the customer s propensity to shop cafes first writer salutes hard working mail clerks Over the Christmas holidays Many of us saw our work Load decrease and our time off increase so that we could do our Christmas shopping or just have More time with our families. However one group of people had Juit the oppose u experience and to All of them i lip my a and say thank you for a Job Well i am referring to the Many mail clerks who so efficiently served As the Bridge Between us and our loved ones Back in the states or elsewhere. Specifically though i would like o mention spec. 4 Moore at the 67th evacuation Hospital in Wuerzburg whose outstanding skill As a mail clerk self reliant Enterprise and cheerful cooperative attitude should serve As a shining example to All of us. While she was assisted at times by capt. Munn and 1st sgt. De mates this Soldier almost to it that every piece of mail was delivered in a timely and efficient manner. Again thanks to All those deserving mail clerks. Name withheld War Barf Germany pen pals i m is told hmm Millmr Monid Owusu. I my Mai inn turn to � the met Wuu Trail inn own. I i Cwm id Naiwi Gupta qty noun. Bib 1 pm Jwj Muhip he attn in a auth Enwia. Don net conv Anutt and Arunn to to 0swtnim g a Temh. Of the Sari Tea of Ftp of Pix Baltor Hnin . Lavound u i pure Titan Vul m in new a i Clum. Vhf. Or a won without Rigort to Cox. A grow Wal Ger. A Tum cop. Pohuma truth to or wry a two nil Tuteur or to up renew. Amt of p Way or i to suit n St Tom Foo Jyh. Two Nonty my tin Gurtin Stypu. Patty cell h 37.ihia i Nihil ii a. To Bon. To by Tus to 4u5 or Kli Anlu Mth. Munich ohm War of . A Coria my nit . Borreo. Apo dwt to to or Mun enav. Umm i do you Why to to Wittl. Buting l. We Fri 0. Dot own. Foo och Chi Illel nov non T my test ets us Titi a Newm 171. No let. To fim fun in. Tl�4u. Ct3 go Vita cd 07llbt7tm. Minomb Nautam j. Us clash. Nistal. Mui of Pemaj a left Uphan my Autoro 81z2m. Wach Mot of out Utah of Urmia with. Pabon 4om. Wun Ngui a Thok my an my in nine. No atm to Man we hair my w7 Boom Ltd hmm i but do. Anith i1s7, Cis to Misc Bnnwlin-hsissr"5 j 7 ro1r ei�rtb.7 1 tubuts unum pm. M437z, film u17i tans Tel Chirco kiw100h on Uiti cont in pm. No hey Ous i7mmh
