European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - February 19, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday february 1b, 1957 the stars and stripes Arm Landers dear Ann Landers i m concerned about a letter you printed from the wife Batter or who went to a and wanted a second Chance. You said you hoped he d gel it. In june the Man i loved an hoped to marry beat me severely Ana tried to strangle me with . He will be sentenced soon to one year in Jai. It Wouldhave been murder. 1 can t Tell you How Many Sec Ond chances i have Given him. Always there were tearful apologies Dowers Promise Sand excuses i was out of my i did t know what i was i did t mean Felt guilty about being an unforgiving person and gave in a lion he pleaded if will never i wanted desperately to believe him. Baht Rirs always have excuses. Want to go Home thinks his is alcoholism. I would t be so sure. Only a therapist can predict with any accuracy whether batterer will repeat. Changing one s behaviour drinking wont affect the urge to physically abuse until you actually address the deep underlying causes. Alcohol Only acts As an Cna Lerby decreasing want to seeks professional help his wife should hold her ground. If she accepts the endless round of abuse and excuses she needs help too. I did. Stanford Alumna who Learned devs a Yon Are right on. Lady. Hope to Raj bitterer and Bat trend person will leu out this column ind read it until he or she goes for help. Ii could change his or her life dear Ann Landers the letter from agony revisited struck a raw nerve. As a girl i also was very tall. At 12 i looked much older and was constantly challenged about my age. With pain i remember the Hole that Hod been drilled into a Metal pole on the bus. When you were taller than that Bole or 13 Yean of age you had Topay on adult fare. I was taller than the Hole at age ii. At 12, was also Loo tall to be under 14" at the neighbourhood movie House. The solution was my birth certificate which i car ried with me at All times. The look of Surprise on the faces of the doubters was my Way of getting even. Be patient those of you who Tower above your contemporaries. Time has a Way of evening things up. . In grand Blanc Mich. Dec and thanks Tor the wools of encouragement. The same advice holds for Host who tie Shorter Uusi compensations ire a tuberous a my i speak turn experience. Dear Ann Landers right now i m sitting Here hating retired men with a passion. I swear they turn into Lime boys again. The always seem to need something want something hear something and Sec feel suffocated by the constant presence of my retired husband. I resent the Way he demands All my attention. The Man is jealous of my friends my family even the dog. I can t have a phone conversation with out him nagging me to get off because he wants me to do something for him right wonder if All retired men Are like my husband i need guidance. Ohio candidates for the loony bin Dor candidate thank the Good lord All retired men Are not like your Hubband. Many have hobbies and interests hat keep then Busy productive and out of their wife s hair. At your husband s doctor la Ulk to him about pursuing a Hobby or doing Volunteer work. Consider joint came Ling. Sounds As if your marriage id in trouble. Mitera America bin Dicaita Colum Tii indent Walcome your la Lari. You can Lotti Cirtola to is r and Glnn. To Oki i a form Page 11 letters Lindsey memorial draws writer s Praise my cup run Neth Over your recent article officers to raise funds for Lindsey As memorial forecast for me the fulfilment of a dream of not Only mine but number of other americans i am positive it Only made me wonder that the Effort was not done by the service in which Cap. Lindsey served As opposed to a number of Junior officers in the Wiesbaden military Community. A few of John f. Kennedy s most memorable words in my remembrance were a nation reveals Iuda not Only by the men it produces but also by the men it honors the men it however i thought your readers might like to know that Captain Darrell Robins Lindsey had not been totally forgotten As these examples will illustrate shortly after Lindsay i death an Uncle or. Claudee. Puffer established the Darrell Lindsey memorial fund at University at Buffalo state University of new York. The Village of so prix France erected a Small me Morial commemorating the Lite of Lindsey s crash. Lindsey i widow arranged a Small memorial Tabuena via College storm Lake Iowa which he at tended 1938-39. It is in the form of an Oil portrait and pen pals i muh re pan pah from Al on Tow warm. I am 20 Yean old. By it Tanta , Cook Lna praying by rattle and Al Amu Rjohn Tang Jar Nili cd y.m0d Occue Hill m Peif Kig Wutt Tigtig. Dancing co Kaig or tanning and r,pnl�.5001 i want to a Rolf to Peopto-1 am 20 years old. 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