European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 27, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Friday March 27. 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 letters Soldier says if you re right keep going for nearly eight years i be been a Soldier in the . Army and my last is years have been a continuous Nightmare. The reason i m still in is because t have refused to be driven out. I enjoy the army and i am a Good Soldier. I was buttoned in Germany for my first two years. Ii we great f did t Good Job had Good people to work with and the Best Leaden from my Liloon sergeant to my commander. We All worked hard but were re warded for being the outstanding soldiers we were. When transferred to the states i was sent where not Loo Many want to go but i upheld the standards of my previous unit and we proud. Before 1 left there two and a half years later that unit practically stripped me of All i d so honestly earned with sweat and tears. At that Point i changed alien i came Down on Levy for duty Oversea i thought what a Blessing. I came thinking i could take up inhere 1 left off and Start Over just to find out that my morale is practically gone and Lam burning out that s what happens when you give and give and give but never receive anything Back but negative thing. I was almost at the Point of giving up. But an army major who took a Little time out of his Busy Day listened to my problems and gave to me some encourage ment. Sir you Juit Don l know How much i appreciated those words of Wisdom. You Are very right t am stronger than they Are and i will not allow anyone to Force me out of the military i Wilt gel my morale up and take up where i left off in being All i can be. Thank you my words to other soldiers who feel Tost like i have Felt for so Long go on striving to be the very Best you can be. Never give whoever your problem May be a Chance to get you Down and keep you there. You can make it. I will. Enlisted members especially grades Al through e 5, if you believe in something and you know you arc right fight for it because there s bound to be someone who can help you. Don t think it s easy though be cause it s not. Others May agree with you but for fear of retaliation they won t openly Back you. You can make the difference name and location withheld writer Alert to Gorbachev popularity the United states is now facing a foreign policy Challenge unlike any in has seen for decades the Rise of a powerful and popular soviet Leader. Mikhail Gorbachev is instituting the most profound change soviet society has teen since the Rise of Stalin. He is extremely popular among the soviet people who Admire Hii relative youth and vigor after the atrophy of the Brezhnev years and turmoil following his death. Gorbachev has launched 4 Challenge to the United slates in the Pacific placed a unilateral moratorium on soviet nuclear testing offered Prima Facie conces Sions on arms limitation and has started an internal openness Campaign which has included a much publicized release of dissidents. Many of Gorbachev s actions have Only a propaganda value. However his appearance of being a creator of peace and world stability puts United slates policy on the defensive . Policy must then be justified in the world forum in the face of withering soviet criticism. Gorbachev is fighting to gel world opinion on his Side. The United Stales must maintain a robust and enlightened foreign policy to meet the Gorbachev Chal Lenge.  Sigo Eliaas skill Telephone addicts likened to alcoholics there is help for alcoholics through a. There is even now a group called gamblers Anonymous. Of Cottrie there Are clinics for people who want to quit smoking and the Hospital will help those who want to get off drugs. Even weight watchers will help you to get Over your craving for Rich foods. What do these people have in common they Are addicted to something that controls their life. After Reading the stars and stripes articles about the declining Dollar in Europe and about those people who run up astronomical Telephone Bill it is possible pen pal that help is needed for these people in the form of Telephone Calls Anonymous picking up the Telephone to Call Momma in the slates because you Are. Bored is an addiction which is caused by a lost of willpower or being unable to say no to yourself. People like that Are in the same category As alcoholics gamblers drug addicts smokers etc., As they do nol have the intestinal fortitude to control their ability to say no i will not do  these people definitely need help. Brace  Heidelberg. Account tog. My Notta � red Najj to Ming guru and Coop Gittin i homed Rackl i Bam inter it . Chinti Liiv Dun Guiti City \ win xxi Cwm i Wnm a id an Phi Pajur aured to world. 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Now we have two kids he Mill does t work. I gel Wel fare which barely covers our 1 needs. I m tired of struggling to get through the month with two Kidi to feed and clothe. I never get anything for Mic of. Never have a dime to spare. My Boyfriend drinks when he can gel someone to treat him and he knocks me around when he s in a bad mood. What can i do with no Job training i feel trapped. I Don t love my Boyfriend anymore but i am afraid to be alone. Tell me. How Doea a person Mart Over with two kids and being so Young i m scared and i know in my heart my Folk Are right. Hell never amount to any thing i Don i want my kids to grow up around this Lazy bum. Please Tel me what to do. Oregon girl who messed up Dew Oregon girl the Flat thing pm Mial do h Complete your High Faunl education and gel into t Job training Prog nun. A Todal worker can help you do Ala. Contact the family ser race Alao Ditkum in the phone Book or cil Balic Chi Tifei Ham Don t hire to be Catholic or the Pinon Yon Art seeing abort you prent welfare arrange want. The pc Enid thing Yon met do la in fat out Jour Boyfriend join a awl stick with h or Man out belter to be alone than with Freeloader who drink and knocks too armed. Get going and Good Lack. Dear Ann Landers although 1 have not required  since childhood i have often fell apprehensive when seeing Hospital care depicted on to or in movies. Specifically i dislike when doctors or nurse address patients in the first person plural instead of the second Pinon singular Ai How Are we feeling or time for our  even though the depiction May be based on exaggeration or Mutiny Moulion there must be some Bain in fact for it and that 11 the cause for my concern. Re Gai Lea of the. Motivation if i were confined to a Hospital bed to be addressed in such a manner would be considered an affront to my dignity and emphasize dependency. Surely talking to a patient in a Normal manner is the better Way. Do hospitals have any policy regarding this practice ill at ease in a. Dear 111 at ease thl ii no a matter of Hospital policy. In � personal  i suggest to Folk who feel As you do thai they verbalize their dip Leisure. Some people Don t know they an being Effer were until they Are told. Dear Ann Landers i have friends who let me know t am Welcome to come for Holiday dinners easter thanksgiving and Christmas need i Tel you they Are a godsend i also have friends who Call me a Day or so before a Holiday to give my family a Chanee to ask me first i appreciate this More than they know. It is so Good for my self esteem to say sorry i have other plans when the family drops me a Crumb at the last minute. 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