European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - April 5, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Sunday. April 5. 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers this appeared in the is. Maria Gorelli Church bulletin. 1 Taw myself in it and thought maybe you might want la share it with your readers. Many of them arc sure to squirm a Bil As i did. A Reader in Arlington Texas or Reader a Lutle squirming operer Hurt i anybody. Thank for sending Iton .-.-. Bear Catt Tab member. Do att do you Wilt go Rigi Flem of the water. Then i Beautiful to Tenn that a you won t enjoy them. The priest oaf Saf some Good Telma about you Bat you Matt be table to hear them. Then trill by but Alful tousle Tot you won t by Tajo Jig it. There will Hebeart tilt Poyen but they will oat touch your a tort the will by friends  then Bat you will not worship a Ltd them. Yoa will go no Natter Howa of hypocrites at there. You will to to Natter How much fou tre needed Al Home. You wont be contented about whether you re dressed fear. Afir Twitt in trip you Willnette Hare to decide whether to attend Church or not. You la Oen Rutt matter Chance  nod Well Aid have the Choice of whether or net to go to thatch dear Ann Landers Here is another Side of the Story to empty prom ise in Utah the daughter in Law who is upset be cause dad was reluctant to retire and give the Busi Ness to his three sons. Our no. 3 sop decided to stay with the family Busi Ness of which t am president. He announced that the business will be his when we retire. Wrong at age 30, Bob has made it Clear that he will not work himself to death like dad h doing. Dad is 57 and intends to retire when he is 60. Bob spends Many working hours on the Golf course says he makes business contacts there. He s a clock watcher and rarely closes the office because he s rarely the last one to leave. He has no financial investment in the business and is a poor financial manager. If the business were Given to Hurbis Fust Purchase would be an expensive sports car. When we discussed the possibility or Selling the business he said if we did he would Start his own business and take Oil our customers. Why do we tolerate this irresponsibility and Lack of respect because he s Good at what he does and brought in new contracts when the business was about to fold. Family business can be a pain in the neck. Any suggestions on How to avoid the Pitfalls mom in Ohio Dea Roboc unless the kids get along really Well with dad they should go to work far someone else or for themselves. If they do go into a family holiness Long Range plan should be made and i Mew everything should be in writing. Dear Ann Landers i just got married and i be received several gifts that didst include a card with the giver s name. I be kept records of All the people 1 invited to the wedding so i could narrow the mystery Given Down to a few names. But How do i determine who each gift is from help i want to respond and thank these Gen Erous people. _ mrs m1mnesota dear in. In phone the store. They May be Able co help identify the giver. In lot Angotto Tow s policy on Washer dryer use explained i am writing in regard to military families who live on the Economy and cannot by regulation use govern ment housing washers and dryers. Aren t we All Over Here together and in the same boar what is wrong with helping each other out the washers and dryers Are . Government prop erty and because they Are what is wrong with helping out our fellow family members who live on the econ omy Why make our tour harder on ourselves i be been in the Amy for 13 Yean with my husband and have lived Over Here for two Tours. The first time we Uvedis on the Economy for 18 months. At thai time i had two children. When it came Wash time which was three limes a week and my husband was in the Field i would have my dirty clothes in a Duffel bag to include the soap and the bleach one child in a stroller and one in a Backpack and ride the German bus to the Cavern. The walk was nearly three quarters of a mile to the laundromat once 1 got off the bus Yea t tee nothing wrong with my helping out my fellow family members on the Economy with their Wash. I would like to know Why he government has such regulation. After All does t the army take care of own name withheld Kirch Gount Germany such aits editor s note let c. Turk chief. I Laming division office of the Deputy chief of stuff Engineer he u5areur, Repski first of ill. There May be misunderstandings Boot who May by issued government washers and dryers. All come unit so Rorri families whether living in government quarters or i private Ranul Homes Are Eli Gible to receive Washer and dryer. Families residing in private rental House Are issued one i per family while families residing in multiplex buildings stairwell and in some cases leased apartment buildings must share on the basis of one set per two families. Gentr la v there it Little delay in obtaining Washer and dryer. Today in the army in Europe there should be no need for i command sponsored family living off Post to use washers and dryer installed in on Posl family housing nulls. In an earlier response we stated that washers and dryer Are installed in government controlled family housing for the exclusive use of the building occupants. That policy for reasons of privacy building Security and prevention of unauthorized use of government property remains in effect. I think the writer for interest in this Quality Olfe Issue housing entitlement regulations clarified i am in the military with a dependent husband. I applied for overseas housing allowance a month or two after my marriage. They told me they either approve or disapprove Oka on whether or not a Soldier is command sponsored. However i have not seen a regu lation slating that not being command sponsored is the determining Factor. 1 have been trying to get Oha since october or november and am now gelling ready for my Perma nent change of station. Please give me an answer so 1  or not i should pursue my attempt to get any overseas housing allowance thai May be due to me. Spec. 4 Michelle Perkins Ansbach Germany editor s note Sec. Michael Donohue office of the Deputy chief of staff resource management he Usa Keur replies entitlement to overseas housing allowance is provided for by Taw and rules that an contained la chapter 9, joint Federal travel regulations vol i. If your Only does not Haw a copy you May review it in your servicing finance office. A for defines a member without dependents As a member who has no dependent or who has non Coin Mand sponsored dependents residing in the Vicinity of the permanent duty station. Further a for author ii Oha to members without dependents when adequate government quarters Are not available for assignment. Accordingly if adequate single Type government quarters Are available for you and your spouse is non command sponsored there is no entitlement id Oha. Thanks for the thank you my writes As a military police person stationed in Munich for the last 2ft years i must say How Nice in was to be included in a recent thank you letter. I think All Soldier have complained of one thing or another. We Are Stilt human beings but so few of us Lake the time to thank those around us. Maps Are con stantly trained to try to stand above the rest to be the epitome of the army and to be above reproach. Add to this the position of correctors we must apprehend and read rights often having to play a part in the downfall of another s career. These Are not things i enjoy yet they Are my Job. And when threats Are made Security measures Are increased by those far above me in the ranks yet 1 am the one to implement those when things happen things that demand me to take unpleasant actions and so people complain i Don t remember the complaints. I remember the one person who changed my Day with a Nice remark or a thank  and though the kind comments Are severely out numbered by the criticisms the former always out weigh the Lauer. In closing a thank you to All who have appreciated not just myself but any Soldier. We cannot Al ways be above reproach but we try our Best. Sgt Cynthia Shockley Munich pen pals a via a in uni Ien. Phlp pts Tom pub but my mine in tin Pun Pil Exumn. By Phi Palm i m 11 ind in stud tag naw ology ii Algon a Swift. My a Ohi h Tut Muik mining. 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