European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - April 27, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Monday. April 27,1987 the stars and stripes pag11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i just read another news Story Aboul a woman who delivered baby and she did t have any idea she was Proina. This is no the first time t have read such a Story i would like to know Ann How Comei have had tour children an with each one 1 was sick for three months i heaved my breakfast my Foci swelled. I fell Rotten. Indy ninth month of pregnancy i was unable to tie my shoelaces in fad i could t even Sec my reel. Also How come these women did t feel the kicking thai Start in the fifth month Alt my children were so. Active 1 Felt Tike kicking Ihm Back. Will you please explain to me Why my labor lasted 10 hours and yet this woman Mcrevy has a few pains she thinks Are from some tuna she ate Tor lunch she called 9 1 1 when her Wajer broke because she thought she had a bladder problem. I d like your views on this because 1 dont get it. Suspicious in Alabama Dearbin the reason Yon pm about these happenings to Che paper la because they an son. Almost inn Reibly the woman is a Vysel and has been told she could not get pregnant of the possibility never enters her mind. She Fiu no morning if Caneti. It Nerer dawns on her that the kicking could be child she ignores it her shape does t Cuce much because she gains is or 20 pounds not 40 like some women and she curies the weight on her hips and bar behind nol i front. While this sort of pregnancy is terrific for the woman it May not be so wonderful for the baby. Prenatal care is of the utmost importance. They say once Ine baby arrives All the unpleasant Ness is forgotten. 1 have never believed it and Jam letter proves i m right. Thanks for writing. Dear Ann Landers the letter about the Little adopted child who was left out by the family hit a responsive note in me. A few years ago while i was dozing on the sofa a voice from nowhere suddenly said you no not in i awoke with a Start. It took a few Days of combing through my psyche to remember that 60 Yean ago a boy on the playground at school had told me that was nol invited to his birthday party. My brother could come he said bul he did t Waul me. For 60 years i had managed to Block out that Terri ble Hurt. Bul there it was gnawing at my self esteem and making it difficult to be close to other human beings. How that Little boy s Mother could have condoned such fallout behaviour 1 do nol know. Such a blow can be devastating to a youngster. Hope the adults who read this will remember this when they permit their children to leave out a playmate foursome insignificant reason. Not invited in Nashville dear Nashville i an sore your idler Wilt Jar Loose Many painful Mem ories. My own childhood was surprisingly school a the killer for my Lister urine. Dear Ann Landers the ladies Home journal Sayi the average Ameri can woman makes love with her husband three to five limes a week. This sounds crazy to me. What do you think feeling inferior in Ithaca Eulth figures lie and Lian Al genre. Those munters May bold Moni the 21 to 30-year- for tit list 18 months of Maritn but my readers Tell me that Tylnn slowdown consider any fan own on. Fed better now Erml och him Foott Dunn pm a net minium you to in in pm to bin Mil Sadm. A ob11, . Reader focuses on scandal other letters Brncic yourselves for yet another instalment in inc never ending series of commentaries regarding the Iran Cumira affair. My Basic question is what s the big stink sure it deserves a Little Low level Aroma but certainly nol the compost Heap of controversy it has generated. It is simply a dubiously necessary fact of life that our government must make ices Ihan Savory deals with other political bodies if we arc to insure inc survival of this nation. True it. Col. Oliver North was a Little Low on the Triem pole to be so thoroughly immersed i such dealings and he evidently had poor taste in Irani an moderates. Unfortunately Iran and Iraq arc Mere pawns on the global chessboard. Better to be Friendly with an enemy Pawn and gain a foothold in enemy territory than to have the red Queen lash out and put the free world King in checkmate by strangling his Oil Supply. As for the profits of the Sale going to the contras the Money has to gel there somehow. Perhaps we should refocus our efforts on How the Money is used instead of whether it gets there or not. 1 prefer a peace time military Job to a wartime one and i d hate to Fin myself or my son tramping around in some Jungle because we be got More russians and cubans in Cen trial America than we know what to do with and where did they All come from and Why did t somebody do something Aboul in before they gained a foothold Ronald Reagan has done More for this country than any president in the last 17 years so Lei s get off his Back and those of the Cia and Csc and let in cmdr their jobs. Senior airman Scott a. Newton Ottburg a Germany where the Heck did inc Days go when the letters to the editor were used As a forum to discuss How the paper was managed current administration policy for eign events elections science the environment in Porlant military issues Etc.? the current crop of letters in the Slars and stripes tends to read like Donahue and dear Abby rejects. Is it really the concern of All of Europe that a dependent wife got in n spat with her neighbor in base housing or if we in the military have to work Long hours and perform Cora duties come on people the oath we look was All inclusive. If you re fed up with an up Channel a complaint to he network. Stars and slopes has no Power Over an. Save that of publicity in presenting another address or action to Lake. Belter yet. Just Don l watch to i be yet to Sec a letter published in the Boston Globe or the san Francisco chronicle concerning two neighbourhood Brais in fisticuffs or someone s dog taking a Doo Doo on someone else s Lawn. Every military organization has a system designed to Deal with such local problems local commander s hotline base paper 1c, the Chain of command Etc use them i m sure that the people tasked to copy canned replies to such letters have Bill or things to do with their Lime. And the editors Ihms Clvis could help by nol signifying these crybabies with Publica Tion hint. Senior airman Scott a. Newton Bill Burn a a Germany tighter budgets urged As Dollar drops i m not trying to blame anyone for being poor. When my husband was lower in rank and we were newly married i had to work for very Low wages just to break even. I now work part time. I disagree with a recent article that budgets arc futile with the falling Dollar. Budgets Are never futile. They May be difficult but they Are possible. They Are necessary wherever you live and they Are responsible. We have four children in Europe. Two of the Chil Dren Are teen agers which always seem to Cost More. They make do with a few special outfits and the cloth ing i sew. All extras come from allowances weekend Baoy sitting and Odd jabs. We live in family housing and Are grateful for the Money that and full medical benefits save us. Four of us Wear glasses. However if we lived on the Economy i would have to budget differently Over the past three years in Europe my grocer Bill has steadily increased. As the Dollar has fallen so has my buying Power. That Means / have to spend Lea pen pals it Means we have a stereo system Hal is 14 years old. We share a used Van and Lake the bus. I m Wear ing my to can age daughter s hand me Down jacket from last year. And 1 will leave Germany in june without inc Schrank and Grandfather s clock i so badly wanted. But i have stuck to my budget one thai has had to be constantly revised according to the Dollar Rale the needs of my family and rising commissary prices. We managed to live within our Means and to even save some Money. It in t easy bul in is possible providing people Don l spend More than they earn and maintain a Standard of living Hal matches their salary regard less of rank. 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