European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - April 29, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday april 29, 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Lander i be know i my wife since she was 5 Yean old. We started 10dale when we were both 15. We were engaged at 21 and married year later in 1984. This past october my wife in formed me that she ii in love with another woman t knew Mary and Betty up Cal a lot of Lime together but 1 suspected nothing. Neither did belly s Hus band. We thought they were jus Good friends. Mary has filed for divorce and is now sharing a apartment with Betty i love my wife and Don t want o lose her. 1 have begged her to come Back and get coun seling. She says she does t need counselling that for the tint time in her life she has faced up to her True sexual identity and has found peace of mind. Betty s husband made her the same offer but Betti in t interested either. I Don t understand How a woman can make such Complete turnabout and be attracted to a member or her own sex. Mary told me thai when she was 7 or 8years old she knew she was later when All her girlfriends were going crazy Over boy she was physically attracted to girls bul fought those feelings and forced herself to become physical twill me Why would a woman who is attracted in members of her own sen marry in t this a dirty trick on he husband my wife is Only 24.1 Bate to think of her living Outher life like this. Please help me to help her. Confused in Louisville dear Louisville your wife jus a tide it Clear that she does t wan help in gel same fat yourself soon As possible. Actually Mary did t mean id play a dirty Brick on you. She fought her homosexual urges Bop ing that he could be straight when she discovered ii was not Possi ble she and her Friend decided to com out of the closet the situation. Ii won t change. As i said ear Lier get some coun Eltag to help you through Hes dark Days Yon have gone through an emotional meat grinder and professions help is a Lack to you. Dear Ann Landers when a purse watcher came up behind me and grabbed my handbag 1 was furious. Not Only did 1 los nearly a week s salary but i also lost my credit cards and House Doorman let me into my apartment and 1 immediately placed heavy pieces of furniture against the doors i waited three Days for a Locksmith Al the while in a state of panic knowing that the thief had my name address and House keys. I now keep my keys in a coat pocket. When summer comes i will pin them to a Bra syrup. Please spread the word Ann. Those who have not yet been victim should know it can happen to them. Chicago Deacue thank a for an Opportunity to want women every where to be on it Alert Tor purse snatchers. If you carry a shoulder strap purse hang your bag round your neck and grasp it with both hands. Never let it Dangle on your hip. Keep it in front whew Yon can see to Al All times. Thieves Are incredibly Slick these Elrayi. They work with lightning Speed and can Clear you other favorite tricks Are trapping victims in revolving Loon they work in pain to pull this off and bumping do a Man or woman an an escalator or in a subway or train station. All it take is a moment of distraction and the thief is off and Ang a army encourages foreign tour extensions Ever since the air Force explained ils policy on the consecutive overseas tour and he indefinite Deros i have been hearing that the army also has both of the above opportunities does the army in fact have such policies covering consecutive overseas Tours or indefinite Deros it not does the army plan on having them staff . Simpson Fuerth Germany editor s note chief warrant officer John Sonn the army does have a program to encourage Consec tin overseas Tours it was established june 19,1986, and offers paid round trip travel to the Soldier s Home of record. Ohrmand sponsored finlly member an included in the free travel. To qualify a Soldier Mast firs Complete one full overseas Lour and either can met to a single Extension equal to the first Lour or incur a new tour As result of a funded permanent change of station nth i in lilt ttna4mhi la a will lev. Taylor chief management actions Branch 1st per Wynnel come he u5areur, replies pcs from one overseas station to another overseas station. The army he the fall Range of Extension program that the air Force has except Lor the indefinite Deros program. The array has no plan to implement his program since the air Force require airmen to provide on year notice prior to the time they wished depart Faun overseas. The array does not believe hat ills offers any advantage Over eur existing Baa recently announced streamlined procedures to make it easier for Soldier to request Exten Sions and also provide for quicker response to their requests. Our ability to respond quickly and positively has never been better. If soldiers Are working in their primary military specially and their commander sup ports Ihler request we will do everything possible to retain them for Ai Long As they Yon or any other Reader have questions concerning foreign service tour extensions Pleasa Call the Extension hotline at Schwerin Geo military 2136- or ets 379- m17. Readers urge drug tests for those on Dole if the government can t offer us the military an better than a probable 3 percent raise while at the same Lime cutting our benefits All in the name of balanced budget and saving Money May we offer a suggestion we think would Aid in reducing Federal an slate parasite support payments our suggestion would involve the now common urinalysis test for illegal drugs. When welfare and food stamp recipients come in for their government hand out first hand them a Little bottle to fill in front of a Monitor As we do. 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