European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 13, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday May 13, 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers in line with the current Contro Versy Over condoms especially retarding television commercial aids and sex education let me Tell you of my experience. Too much has been written Aboul How selfish and inconsiderate men put women at risk because the men Don t like the darned after my divorce nine years ago i became very Active sexually. Not being a fool and afraid of unwanted pregnancies and Vene real diseases i insisted on using condoms whenever i went to bed with a woman t did ibis for almost five years 1 am now in a Long Terra monogamous relationship and no longer need the Protection during the time i was not committed to a single partner i was astounded i the number of women who refused to allow me to use condoms. The usual response was "1 have Art or i take the it does t feel natural or what s the problem do you have something i can catch these were intelligent College educated women who read the newspapers and listen to National Public radio. I confess my response was somewhat Cavalier. It went like this we Don t have to do it or let s try it once and if you Don t like in we won t use them stood my ground but still i got complaints. Luckily i never got a venereal disease and 1 started no pregnancies. My advice to other men Don t be bullied. By All Means be responsive to your partner but Don t fail to protect yourself and your future Safe and not at All sorry in n . Zbuka for a Frank but inhabit letter. Although h Tsa by More graphic than what usury appears m this space h should offend no one a smering out in an radar or wide epidemic of � horrible whetse far which there b no care. Anyone who mine life should take do Chance wit sex these ton aids b not a disease Tuu Only Homo Sci ult get the top authorities in Field Tell m thl Condon Are i meat Solas a Are abut rely Cert path a Yaw partner b free Orfinik Tow of totally Lomga Stum. No sexual experience b to orb dying for. Dear Ann Landers As a suicide survivor i fell the anguish again that was expressed by heartache at the loss of her Mother. She May Well need grief counselling is you suggested but time is important right now. There Are bound to be feelings of guilt rejection disbelief and a deep Down fear thai we May do the Sanie thing at some Point in our lives. We Dow know that suicide has a tendency to run in families. 1 a firmly enough do not relive bus. Even routine duties require some thought. Above All remember thai you could have done nothing to top it your Mother did run take her life because she wanted to die. She did it because she was unable Tob ear the pain of living and this was her solution. It is of to be angry arid feel betrayed. It is of 10 weep. Most of All seek the warmth and kindness of people around you. Cling to your family and allow them to Comfort you. One Day you will be Able to remember he special wonderful things about your Mother and Vou will forget the tragic ending. Been there in St. Louis dear is. Lows you letter will be a Comfort to millions of readers my Lluu iks far taking the time u help others. Explanation Given on change in paydays i was recently reminded about the change in pay Days. I refer to the change that makes the military paydays come on the first of Thi month rather than the present last Day of the month. Could you please answer a few questions about this change 1. Will the change in paydays affect the amount of income i earn in 1987? 2. If the defense budget for fiscal year i9ss is not passed by oct. I 1987, How will this affect my pay for oct. 1? 3. Will the change in paydays affect the present pay periods i.e., sept. 1-30 7 sol. Lawrence m. Honey Stuttgart editor s note a. Maj Robert e. Sears. Office of the Deputy chief of staff resource manage ment he Usa Reuh replies Yob Are Comet starting with the september 1987 tits of month pay period ail Active duty Thrata Bodt department of defense will be paid on the first Day of the following month rather Hub the Las Day of the pay period month. Except for september the military services Are authorized to Advance payday up to three Days when the first Day of the month alls on weekend or Holiday. On i know thai should go through the finance office but they Tell me they Only have recent less in my finance folder. I need to Krow How 1 can get my less since i have been in the army another question 1 re in traded in 1981 for six years and i received my Bonus. At the time i did not know 1 could add that Onlo my lax form. I was Only wondering if could still subtract or add it to my tax form. Lester e. Mach or. Bamberg Germany editor s note sol. A. Ruben e. Sears office of the Deputy chief of suit resource manage ment he a Lafieur replies this change of paydays will have no effect on income tax. The periods for which Yon Are paid Are Wuendi months. Also Yon wll rewire All pay in the Cal eur year Ilene a jul i is Federal Holiday and payday will be Moeed to hut workday in of the uses year 988 defense budget will not affect your qty an oct. 1, 1987, since that u charged against the fiscal year 1987 . The new schedule will also affect the allotment Chc Clu causing some arrival Date to be r Day or two later than waa Cufo Nury under the for bar system. I addition Aoun with mortgage or car payments Doc Al the end of the month their Daan Daj instil Tat Fons now to adjust these Paju Wrils. The re ii a in payday Wol not affect the periods in which to earn the by 1, Calendar bomb. For i be fallowing payday 1 a asst sept 1 september oct. 3 october no. I. 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