European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - June 8, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Monday june 8, 1987 the stars and stripes fags 11 Ann Landers letters dear Ann Landers for most of the j 4 years Thaimy wife and i have been married she has been undressing in the closet. At first it bothered me but 1 never said anything because 1 knew she was shy by nature and j did t want to upset her. Well last week she started to sleep in the closet and this is More thin ican Lake. 1 Don t understand How cd can be comfortable in there bul she say it is just Fine and that i should t worry about her. I ought to Ell you hat we have two Beautiful Chil Dren and a Good marriage. We love and respect each other even though our sex life in t terrific. Her Mother told her when she go married Hal it was a duty and to lie Back and think of England. I feet guilty in a Nice comfortable bed while my wife is on the floor with a shoe rack and a laundry bag. Please advise. Gary.1nd.dwgary i be heard of shy women undressing in the closet but sleeping bwe i new ant on be b in possible that you Aren t u careful about your Paradoa Bugle in As Job might be do Yon Minoret an a Atmaa demands exons fat or idiftf7 if you can Tamer no to All of the above i suggest that Yog tit Down with year wife and Hae quiet talk. A woman who prefers the closet Hoar to i bed deeds to explain Hemet dear Ann Landers with so much mud attention focusing on aids another disease thrum it open and Frank discussion has been crowded into the background. I refer to Geni Tal herpes. Will you i canc let your readers know that a person who is infected with the genital herpes virus but has no Tajn plods. Can pass on the disease to his other but Pait Dat in tact this Type of transmission occurs More frequently than when persons ate aware of an out break. The condom Dian Raisin Spenn Icide should reused without Tail. The Public should be told that the Only effective medication no cure for shortening or preventing out Breaks is acyclovir. It is available m most drug stores but requires physician s prescription. 1 commend you for your ongoing efforts to educate your readers on disease prevention. Carry on Kathy one m. Stone. M j centers for disease control Atlanta Star or. Stone authorities such m to tit eat Maesky helpful. And while we re on us subject readers who Wutt More Urford a Mijou or emotional support Iron other Beiji Suft Rorri Shoou write to american Sodat health association . Box 1327, research Triangle Park . 27709. Enclose a Long self addressed stamped envelope with 42 tents potage dear Ann Landers i am planning a late summer wedding and am faced Wiki a big probe eau. I have a Beautiful and expensive Ajmir Vituj gown from a broken engagement. It fits me pc factly and i am crazy about it. Iffy Fiance does t want me to Wear this gown be Csc its bought for someone Elss i Odieve be is Craog Petty and immature. It would be different if had gotten married in the gown but it is Brand new ewer worn. Your opinion is wanted. Battling it out in to. Karbal Var crying in the grog woman if you Fiance does to at you to Wear the gown give ii away sell ii or make a Throop Orrata of it it m owl War in army weight control program discussed although Ray career in the army has not been Long one i have been hounded by the Ever present weigh tables established by a 600-9 Ever since i enlisted. I emphasize that i have never been declared officially overweight but i find myself wondering every Day Bow Many calories that twin it has that i m about to eat. On a More serious note i feel that the army weight control standards need some serious revisions. The army says that if you arc overweight you arc subject to being eliminated from the service. Let t examine this statement. Why is it that if you Are overweight of can pass the army physical readiness Tes part do not appear unsightly in j uniform acid Are Able to perform ail your Dura in a military manner you arc then considered for acceptance into the weight control program yet take the who in not overweight cannot pass Tfaye part and appear unsightly in a uni form oar lend to took the other Way As Long As the Scricc meatier eventually panes the afro. It seems to me that if you can piss the part pm perform your juries arc Fry Bally and medically fit and do not appear on simply in a uniform Wiy should your Weic Fol Fca anything to say about whether or Bui you Are retired in the service As a supervisor 1 veld prefer someone As j Jiosi described Ratum than Tome Slob who makes the weigh standards but cannot pass an part and looks disgusting in a uniform. I recently Learned that if you fail your skills qualification test set you May still be considered for re enlistment however Don t get caught on the Over weight program twice in one year or it s curtains on your army career. What about All the Romero children in the army you know the outs who can t teem to stay out of trouble or the ones we drink too much or get involved in drugs. Admit a of if these Individuate Are dealt with acc Nunt a. However i also dec that the army has institutions Jurt Pond millions of dollars and manpower to try to rehabilitate All these people in order to make them effective Oisten. What do we do for of weight people give them a tape test and Tell pm to lose farce to five Pouwe a month or you re outta Herd maybe there is a medical reason for the prescribed weights that Are published in the ars. If there is admit that 1 Don t know what they Are and maybe am Way off base by writing this letter. What i do know is mat 1 have stroked to maintain my weight and or body fat Levels to remain within compliance of the published ars. Nothing is on my mind More especially when i know there is a Aptt Aff Dimy duly performance and my own personal lifestyle. I rare never failed so part nor have i Ever been officially found to be overweight or had too much body fat Cement yet 1 see people in today s proud and ready army that barely pass these weigh ins barely piss the part and can Hardy perform their duties and yet nothing is done. I guess the Bottom line is that to me if you can pass the part Are mentally by i Cathy and be Dilahy fit do not appear in tightly in your help for sex spouses an you a a teary Wal Iati. And round Runkl a flu Angton , Ainapo salad expose a per Tami at Send camat. Set Granun Tor e re Lity s buying id a Rcd Tahj expose pub Tohati b Padil toot flt vat of. A Ottto Lor Hartary Wmk facing e4f�riflon of this Teykl in Laim wow do Lor it of poum. 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