European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - July 1, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Wednesday july a 1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my Huband has always tormented our Pel poodle. Last week boo sic Bil him and Al was furious. He hit the dog so hard inc poor thing went flying across the room. When i stepped in to protect Boogie Al who weighs 350 pounds pushed me against the Mil. I thought he had broken my shoulder. I phoned the police and or Csc d charges for assault and Battery and cruelty to animals. Al was arrested had to appear in court and pay a $200 Fine or go to Jai. He chose the Fine he Hain t spoken a civil word in a month end if mores boo sic completely. When the poodle lid i up to him and licks his hands he gets kicked in the face. I m afraid of this Guy. What should 1 do scared in Manitoba dear scam Al founds like a hoi temper tally who emm be Dang Ron. It already Hai Domut Raletz a prod Ralty for violence. Why risk More of the sane do you really want to live oat four years with this my u so Yon mint get to agree to joint Raouel ing. U la re due you ate better off alone. Dear Ann Landers my Mother has very Little vision and is Cigal Oywind. 1 read this piece to her and she said it s exactly what millions of people need to see. Send in to Ann land i Hope you will print it. Jennie s daughter in Little Rock dear Rock i did print in several years ago. But ii is Worth seeing again. Tunkl for tending in of. Courtesy rules for blindness when you meet me. Please Don t be ill at Case. It win help us both if you will remember these simple tales of Courtesy. I m an Ordinary person just Blind. You Don t need to raise your voice or address me As if i were a child. Don t ask my spouse if i want Cream in my Coffitt. Ask me. If i am walking with you. Don t grab my . Let me take yours. I la keep a half step behind to anticipate Curt Sand Steps. I want to know who s in the room with me speak when you enter. Introduce me to the others. Include Chat Bdrm and Tell me Ift Boft t a eat or dog. Guide my . The door to a room Cabinet Ora Carlott partly open is a Hazard to me. I Don t want pity. Bui Don l talk about the Vonder Ful compensations of blindness. My sense of smell touch or Hearin did not improve when i became Blimp i Idy on than More Tad to before nay get More information through those senses than you do Teal s Alt if i m your to out guest show me the bathroom Dot Dresser window and the Light switch. I like to Toon if the lights Art on. Iti discuss blindness with you if you re curious hut to to old Story to me. I have As Many other interests ufos do. Don t think of me As jus a Blind person. I m just a Penn who happens to be Blind. Langhelm thaws of unto Onu to tort Momm tout 1111tot am lot to m Cwb Al the Sla i ind Xinpu. Apo p32h, u b More viewpoints on duties of Cav wives the Cav wife s Letler urging others to support sheif husbands by baking brownies and cake when Ihry re turn from the fiend really look the icing off the cake. Really lady the exc Jei lifted Why lome wives Don t bake or go to coffees Are ridiculous and a real insult to All military wives. Some women have out tide Job and when coming Home baking and going to a Coffee at night u not a priority hem on their lift of things to do. Also in of tin Are Nuri ind Earin Menauch to know when our men return from the Field. Toy or a Mitsios that a brow Nie and piece of cake Are not on their minds. Ever bothered to ask the Guy what they d like after having gone without a Long hoi Shower without Good hot meal without a comfortable bed Vic e. we Baden dear Cav wife Why Don t 1 attend your monthly coffees and bake cakes let Roe give you some red reasons rather than the Alibi you listed i. I work a 7 30 . To 4 30 . Business Day minimum. 2.1 spend an hour on the Road commuting. 3.1 keep a neat and comfortable borne. 4.1 give my family time Aue Alioa. Love and Good food. 5. I contribute to the army Community by putting my husband1 career Needt ahead of my own by giving love and laughter to my husband to that he can Miter help the people be works with by being cheerful and concerned about my neighbor we Jere by contributing to Charitia that i am interested in Ana by keeping Guip 10 a minimum. An i the perfect Cav wife probably not but maybe in my own Way i am at Strong an asset to the Community � someone who bake Caw and attends monthly meetings. Name withheld Germany we sympathise Wilh your feelings when you say there Are wives who do not participate but what Aboul the wive who do you offend All Cav wives when you male to my fellow Cav our Wrves group has had iut share of Ops and Downs when we need the wives support. Not All wives can gun 100 percent of their time. Some May Only give 30 percent or even 10 percent but they do help. Yes. We even have wives who do not participate Al All it s their loss of Mil mating new friends learning new ideas and utilizing their Lime when their Hus bands Are gone instead of dwelling on the Lack of participation look to the wives that do help. Have they been praised for their Btty have you said thank you for their support Haw Yon made a Point of getting together with of bar wives groups to Sec How to gel More wives involved. When you first arrive Here it is hard adjusting to new ways and your husband being away so much. Learning in be Independent can be a new Eup Ortence for the new wives. You urge wives to support their husbands but what about the few husbands that May not want i hair wives involved because of unknown reasons As a wives group we can be there to support our husbands but also to support ourselves in feeling Posi Tive. Mth Mie Moore Sherry Tinsley Linda Mals wok Angelila Porales Andrea Jodlowski Macy louder tire Uia Canedy Bamberg Germany we love you German writer tells gis i fed i Mam for the Sake of Young soldiers and their families write to you. It Makei me so angry when 1 read your letters to the Zdilor. What on Canh makes people in the service Over Here think the German hate them i recall places in the United Stales i be been to where the average american would have nothing to do with a Soldier. And if a girl marries one they say is that All she could find or is it that some americans in the United states think that people that join up could t make u in civil Ian life let s be realistic. Have you not had a bad Day where you looked mean at everybody so Teller or incr i think you overreact when you Ihrk germans took Down on you. Eighty percent of germans Are glad that you Are Here. For the rest of them Well Haven l you heard they Are paid by the East to provoke Hale throw stones loot Etc., All in the name of germans that Warl nothing to do with thir actions i Loo gel such when i hear or read what those lunatics have done again. Or do you think we Are Happy in Berlin that they Are burning department stores destroying our property in the Long run we the Normal people have to pay for their actions. Prices go up taxes go up Etc. I have been to places in Germany where Ameri can Servic members and their families Are Welcome. All you be got to do is look around smile at Hose who look mean Al i do in always works. And i am German. My fellow germans look at me sometimes As if they wanted to kill me. So i smile Al them. They drop their eyelids fast it makes them fed ashamed. So for the rest of americans in Europe we love you. Ai you have 10 do is talk Unile Don t have this or Phan feeling. Don t let a few bad apples spoil your Lour Over Here. Enjoy in. 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