European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - July 25, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Saturday july 25, 1987 the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Lander your advice to the frustrated Mother of the 11-year-old laugh Ter was Fine but you missed inc real Issue. It s not Mam s authority or the daughter s behaviour it s i the Way they interact. I i Taw our family in that worn i Art s letter. I love my daughter i but i was beginning to dislike her i intensely. I also had become i highly critical of her and was a ritually negative. I i decided to try a one month Experiment. During that Lime i would refrain from All negative comments. T would offer Only compliment and Praise and Point out her Good qualities. I forced myself to hug her at every Opportunity. It was t easy. I was never a Hugger. At first she reacted stiffly but by the end of the month a Miracle had occurred. Our relationship turned around completely. I liked her. We enjoyed each other. We listened and talked to one another. She a almost 15 now and still life on my Lap and a not t hug. 1 never miss an Opportunity to let her know i love her. If Thi worked for us it can work for others. Please Tell your readers. Tvs Cindy dearly do Brilliant approach. And be Reward can be enormous. In Tahnyi did children will Lin in or Down to your if Yew town than � it they an lovable and honorable they will break the tar neck to be ibs Bat a Kufe b Toji Yoi it do will half Ltd us prophecy Boca a hell believe it Tat get Aleck la thai Mold. Lore la us strongest Force a tact world and it s Dikof i few Tiliga Job can he away and Atill Bare More of Ihaza Ever. Dear Ann Landers i recently found out that All three of our babies were bom mentally retarded and have Smith Lemei Pilz syndrome. Our oldest is 5 and i m heartbroken. We had to put him in a group Home. More than a year ago i started having severe anxiety attacks and spent a week in the Hospital i had my tubes tied because my husband says we can t support any More abnormal kids. The problem is that i am beginning to hate my friends who Are Able to have Normal children. When i Sec them enjoying their Little ones become resentful and Nasty. I cannot understand Why god saw fit to favor them and ignore me. I have always tried to be a Good person and do the right thing. I need to find a reason to go on living. Can you help me feeling Blue inthe West dear Rob lift to certainly tall Yon some cruel us palatal mom. I can indent and Why yowl eel u it do. But we most in com that which we cannot change and not rail a Joat h. To do otherwise is to incite Niter. Hare in seen a doctor about medication to help lilt to depression it not i Atje Yoi to do so. I also nope Job will it Thuu Eling. Yon need to talk about you hostility. Var Talida you few line will help Yon get rid of your Attr and feelings of per edit Ian ill Tiai Rahr Tiri 1 t or Page 11 letters Rahr u in Lac. Pfc b to Aai air. A tease write to be Agai Naad tet me that my Kare read that Retama a a thai Yew dear Aon Landers wbb Yoa were growing up did you have to Mern of poems what was your favorite can you still recite it a latin school n tout tour oct lure a it Cwm Boi it1. Apo my h 2302. Horn 2zx a Bof Hij a Phon piled it 272v4449. Ets430-m4b of pm. 07m h77i�. Kcomt Unuk j King Cnnon i Lull. Has bin 9u. Fpo of okie Utt pork at. An ii Ili him i Aitt Ovon in Nio n. United Uno Oom div Nohl. Apo 09127 bulling 4� ecsb4m.raf my flu to pin my Auto vol 21t-z22j or us Tonsul cd. Withlaw Tow. . Chuck Inch wham Burnin. F o to 4014.wluurnuxi, mb60.ks5 of so a 1t pin upon. Room 2c7�, a. Wuu Bubo Oer Hany to bold to a 04004 Irma Roan 110. 0n la cow of. Ulv Pron re Var m4 340-4704 Gren Otto 7 1 i Oei Luhv Botn. A Hsii. My i u. Efs 3314117 m. 0, to a. Let. Ct5 Ujj j1 ii . Fri Dilert no dh-642060 a 1ums. In 6025 a 7 Kab ets 130-6oh v 7101 ten 1i37u . Do. S7070or halt my. Vomit my 1 100. Ets 4m-7100. Us run. At Stoi so3 6�l w4. And Sam. Its Utthi Muon. 71jis� my 7001, e s 460-7001, a Omi-trokm.m4 of. Ets 47cmjok of Tecc Adah. To k233w it anti v1cwui. Civ & i Usa Vatt Mland ii ooi41 205.mwactv cj4i 84is5 United Kiho Oom 0,nnr.,m Carwona. C
