European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - September 21, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Monday september 21, 19b7 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers for inc a Laird Lime month i be read some Lhing in the new that 1ms left me with in netting heart. I be never fell so Hal pm in my life. 1 need 10 say some thing to every Parent in inc coun try. You could provide me with that Opportunity. Will you. Ann Oshkosh dear och Koch you bal i will. Here i Yam my if j 9�ge. It i a Good one. It dear mom and dad were you inc one who said no birth control for my child because in Means i giving her or him permission id have sex did you Tell your daughter if you gel pregnant you will not be permitted to five in this House ? did you say to your son she s what Well it s not your responsibility. She should have known How to take care of a Crair or Are you sure it s yours or you really messed up. Don t ask us for Hel now have you Ever said to your teen Ager i love you or if you need me i la be there for you or let s talk about the problem and see if we can Tome up with the Best possible solution one More question. Was inc Newborn baby that was found dead wrapped in newspaper and thrown in in garbage can your grandchild dear Ann Landers recently accompanied my husband to his High school reunion. He ran into a single female Friend at inc registration desk and invited her to sit at our table. Melissa and my husband chatted endlessly about their school Days. J Felt completely out of it. When he asked me if i minded if he danced with her i said of course not later hey danced three More sets Leav ing me at the table alone. I did t know anyone and Felt out of place. We Haven t been married Long. Ann. His excessive attentive Tttus to Melissa upset me. When i told him so he said she was alone and thai is Why i was so Nice  i told him that while he was being Nice to her i was alone and had a perfectly awful time. Before the night was Over my husband gave Melissa his business card in Case she could t remember Haw his last name was spelled 1 interpreted this As an invitation for her to Call him at his office and was  All fairness t should Tell you that i was t present when he gave her the card. He told me about in. Please an Correct me if i am wrong. Was my husband out of line or was i reunions can be trouble dear trouble the bet thai your Nib and told you about the Busi Ness cud suggests thai no secret plans arc in the hitch ii trat owner thoughtless of those two to Ltd you alone while they Omen four sets. Since it s water Over the dam you d be Wise la develop tones ii about that Noih Turtle event and never mention in again. Dear Ann Landers four months ago my Cousin lost her husband Afler a six year illness. Her Mother and Sitters Are shocked hit she is dating again How Long should a widow wait before going out with a Man brookl1ne query dear Brook it used to be a you1, Tot tout rate went out with the by tar hip. The widow should decide Tor herself based me Tow she Fetu. For some Lix weeks is enough and for when it Btty take six Yean. Idt Angelel Ulmat Syndi Jtb column Lanovel  hot  Cut Var to or in it the sail Una st Pei. Urn toll us Fermi change of address cards improve service i would like in address a subject thai Alt Cis virtually every individual assigned . 1 am talking about notifying family friends and of her correspondents of cur rent mailing addresses. Ii is my belief that when people make a move and Complete the required number of a form 3955s change of address card they think the Apo will for Ward All their mail. Wrong answer mail addressed to a particular unit will continue logo to thai unit. It is then the unit mail clerk s responsibility to Forward the mail. Thai is assuming the individual has a a 3955 on file. Otherwise in is returned to the Post locator stamped moved left no  currently the a 315 will stay on file for six months from the month of departure. Upon expiration in is re moved from the Hies and any mail Tor thai individual is also returned to the postal locator stamped forwarding period expired personally As a mail clerk i would write a note on the letter letting the person know their expiration Date is nearing. But i Gilill continue to receive letters Bank statements Bills and worse yet checks that Are no longer required to be Forward. Now those Are profession Al people from Al too-6 and gs-3 logs a 2. Why in inc world do these people leave a matter if Luch personal importance in the hands of another party having your mail forwarded is a Nice service to have until you can advise publisher and correspondents of your new address. But failure to do so creates delay and extra handling at All Levels of the system Anil is not very Cost effective. People Musl work longer and harder hours to handle the extra volume caused by this. Jusi Stop and think maybe you did t receive the pack age you ordered six weeks ago because there was t any room on the plane due to All he mail thai had to be forwarded. The Bottom line is this see your unit mail cd cry or visit the nearest Apo and ask for a few copies of a 39ii change of address cards. These arc postage paid forms so All you need to do is Complete it address in and mail it. The next Lime you have a complaint ask yourself have i done my pan you May nol realize it. But Iii one subject can Lessen the Load on the postal people and allow for a Lille belter service. Randall w. Holder Heidelberg military clothing shortages explained a funny thing happened to me at our clothing sales store recently. I went to buy a Blu hat and some Jungle boots. My head and feet Are Normal size 7 / and 11 i respectively maybe my feet Are Little big. The Only hats they have Are sizes in the 6 Range and then they jump to about the lady working there said they would have some regular Sim in february 1988. Now this Means the hats will be in in Only seven months. Arc they on the same boat or Camel that s bringing the bars of soap shoe polish and bottled water now to the Jungle boots. Our clothing Sale store does t even carry them the sales lady said we Arcan Annex to the Schweinfurt store and they Aren t allowed to carry them per 3rd in div policy my unit is authorized to Wear them As i be seen some soldiers doing just that. Why can t our store support us so we Don t have to drive around trying to find them at other larger stores. I would like to com ment that usually our store is most helpful and they usually seem to have most of the Oiler items i veneered. Ski. Randall p. Cuner bad Kos Singrin Germany editor s note Kenneth Penny scent Infura Exchange manager replies sorry for the inconvenience you had during your Ristl to the bad Kissinger Annex to the Schweinfurt military clothing sales store. Blu Caps have been Bock ordered since january 1987. The present get Well Dale is february 1988.this situation exists because of government furnished defective material used to manufacture the Blu Caps. The . Army Nallick Laboratory was asked to find an alternate source to Supply the material. With the limited space available at the bad kiss Inger mass Annex it in t possible at this time to Stock the Jungle boots. We expect in have those in Stock in the main mass Al Schnec unfurl in the very near future. Some Good news we plan to open a new mass at bad Al Quinnen in fiscal year 1988. Anonymous Good Samaritan gets thanks dear tinder of my address Book i m sorry i can t Call you by name but when you re Lumen my calender address Book you did t include any identification. The Apo postmark on the envelope came from High Wycombe. I Don t know How the address Book got All the Way Over there or whether that s even your real address. Maybe you picked it up on an air plane somewhere and High Wycombe was the first place you had the Chance to toss Itin a Mailbox ii Wai a Small Book definitely not Worth anything to pen pals anyone but me. But i had accumulated a Long list of Corn ins events and phone numbers that j use quite often at the office. It would have been impossible to replace All the information. Resuming it was a Small act on your part but a big help to me. I be asked the Sura and stripes to print this letter nol Only in thanks to you but As a reminder to other finders to do likewise. 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