European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 12, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Saturday. December 12. 1987 the stars and stripes dear Ann Landers three years ago my husband told me he was impotent. He even made a doctors appoint ment to tend Validity to his Story which i found difficult to believe. Tom is 68 and keeps saying i should accept his limitations i now know thai he is impotent Only with me. We arc both retired and have separate bedrooms. That was Hii idea and now 1 know Why. Our bedroom windows Are Large and Low. Tom insists that we lock our bedroom doors at night As Protection against burglars and rapists. 1 realize now that he did t want me walk ing into his room and surprising him. Last night he thought i was asleep. I am on Mudica Tion and should have been asleep for some Lime i decided Noi to Lake the sleeping Pill and read instead. Suddenly 1 heard a noise and saw a woman coming into our Yard. She went straight to my husband s open bedroom window and climbed in. I will spare you the details of what happened next it was someone i knew. She lives Only a Block away. They Don t know i saw them and i am undecided As to what i should do. I d appreciate some counsel. Betrayed in Cincinnati dear b. In Cin wait until you have calmed Down then pick a quiet moment in Lei i your husband what you saw. Lei him know that you will not toll Rale such Hall Nelly insulting behaviour and a news he promises hat there will a no More of it and apm logo for joint counsel ing he should pack his bags. Dear Ann Landers my husband and i Are having a Battle Over his Pater Nal grandmother s funeral and she in t even dead yet. Grandma is 86 and in poor health. Two years ago my husband and i went up North for the funeral of his maternal Grandfather. We travelled by plane to save Lime and had to borrow $500 to make the trip. Money is very Light these Days and we Are Stilt paying off thai loan. I have told my husband that when his grandmother guilt tripped in Colorado dear tripped since the trip would create � financial hardship e said repeatedly that some alcoholics drink Noth ing bal Beer. I Hope the woman in blood Kineton gets the Nessine. Her husband needs . And she needs Ai anon. Page 11 letters youth idolizes wrong heroes says Reader in response to .1 recent letter do today s youth realty idolize characters like spuds Mackenzie go Joe and Liacho in a negative Way 1 think so. Before my army Days i spent the Summers Between College semesters working at a boy scout Camp. One summer vandalism was at its worst find the Camp was spending a lol of Money replacing Camp equipment. The Camp director was ready to quit and the Camp staff was starting to guard the program areas at night. The problems could not be controlled by the outnumbered leaders. Several things happened in 1985 that had not happened in previous Summers. The one Inch rope on the 100-meter Monkey Bridge was Cut several times. Tents and campsites were vandalized with valuables stolen. One morning All the canoes were found adrift on a Lake that covered an area of about two Square Miles. When we caught some of the Junior terrorists we noticed some common denominators. The scouts were running around in bus at night with an assortment of knives. The second rambo movie was hot in the movie Heaters at thai Lime and nearly All of the apprehended barbarians had seen it before coming to Camp and appeared to be bringing the gospel of rambo to sum Mer Camp imitating the deeds of their new hero. This May not be the most scientific observation but with the  observed one would think  rambo had attended summer Camp. Spec. 4 Chris Kim Bali  i read an article with which 1 totally agree the Bull terrier spuds Mackenzie docs promote drinking by Young people. Since the Anheuser Busch company is now making children s toys and to shirts with spuds Mack civic on them teen agers associate spuds with alcohol and therefore think alcohol is a toy or a by joke. As sen. Strom Thurmond stated in the article nov. 15the current advertising gives the impression that wine coolers arc a soft  this i believe is True. Advertisements constantly show someone doing an excruciating physical activity then the next minute gulping Down some form of alcohol As if it were soda pop. Whet Young people see this it makes hem think that alcohol i a sol drink and they use it in a careless Way. It1 the same sort of idea that spuds Mackenzie is suggesting a fun message for an alcoholic Bever age saudi Mackenzie is a Cool dog. But it s not Cool when it is used to promote alcohol drinking for teen agers. Lora Beth reams bid Godesberg Germany Quality time is. Quantity discussed this is in reference to the woman s argument qual Ity time is Quantity with her children. Modern psychologists with All their recent expert advice has encouraged these false notions along with Many others to counter the guilt Many parents face today. How does this Quality time happen after a Day s work when you feel like it when Thev feel like it during a video god forbid ? can in happen after school during a Field trip or at the Sitters who controls in ii appears to me that a Quantity of time is needed to make Quality time. Quality Means Superior and Excel Lent and it does not come naturally without work hard work and time something that is worked Al Over a Long period of time finely tuned something that you arc present for in order that it can happen Ponta where is Carter now during recent months one could t help noticing that former president Carter and family were piping up with annoying regularity concerning various world affairs. The Plains ans seem to forget that they were thrown out of the White House and 1 mean resoundingly after four disastrous years in office. In other words. Americans could t care less what the Carters think about anything. My question today where is or. Carter now that the cuban mess has gotten out of hand lest anyone forget it was Carter s naivete and colossal ineptitude that among other things permitted Fidel Castro to dump thousands of criminals on american shores in the name of human rights. Now these undesirables have destroyed the facilities built for them by . Tax dollars it would seem that the cubans Are undo lighted at the Prospect of having to return to Castro s workers Paradise. Bleeding heart liberals Ike the Carters should be forced to live in Miami s most crime Ridden neighbor hoods. Perhaps then they would at least partially recognize the consequences that their wrong a Cauca poli cies so often produce. Nine withheld Heidelberg Neoushy unforced and free. 1 am tired of mature and selfish motives egos. Money and self interest is the priority and motivation in most of these situations. 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