European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 18, 1987, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday december 18,1987 the stars and stripes Page 11 letters dear Ann Landers i have asked myself am 1 Bill or off with him or without him financially i Tan make it Ort my own emotionally 1 would have a hard Lime. Bill and i arc join i owners of a corporation. We have four Beautiful teen age children. Bill is involved with their activities As Well As Community projects. He up docs not drink smoke or use s drugs. We own a Lovely Home travel together and have always had a great sex life. So what s the problem Bill was recently arrested during a raid at a Massage parlor in a neighbouring City. It got in the papers. He since confessed that he has frequently visited topless bars and Massage Parlours and engaged prostitutes. He says he loves me and Doe not want a divorce. T feel deeply humiliated and am having a hard Lime holding up my head in Public. 1 am seeing a Counselor who says 1 should accept the situation and get on with life. But the heartache is so great i just want to die. I have not been physically involved with Bill since the arrest. He has promised to Stop seeing prostitutes but sees nothing wrong in going to topless bars. He wants my permission to do so. Meanwhile my Trust in him is shattered. What shall 1 do agonizing in Lafayette ind. Dear Lafayette a Man who a been arrested Tor visiting Massage parlor and still wants to frequent topless ban is a Fen bricks Short of loud. Since your husband has engaged prostitutes he is at risk for aids. This Means you too Are Al risk. You should be tested immediately and again in six months. Some might suggest that you engage in Safe i would Cay abstain completely since Safe sex is not 100 percent see. You Lay your Trust is shattered and understandably so i am not optimistic about your chances of getting fair shake with this Man. I think you deserve better. Also suggest that Yon get another Counselor. Good Luck. Dear Ann Landers i am passing on the following information in Hopes that it will help your readers who have been told they Are suffering from Pmj the painful jaw condition called joint dysfunction. A year ago the hinge on Rny Jawbone was becoming quite sore. 1 went to my dentist who informed me that i was clenching my Teeth at night. He said i was under tension and needed to find a Way to get More restful sleep or he would have to break the jaw and reset in. Break the jaw seemed like a pretty drastic Mea sure so i went Home to rethink his advice. I also noticed that my left shoulder same Side As the sore jaw was beginning to freeze. I suddenly became aware that there Are two air conditioning vents in my bedroom and the one Over my bed is the Only one that is open. 1 Cut it off and opened the other one. Within two Days my jaw and shoulder were Back to Normal. I am passing this information on for your readers who May not realize what an open vent Over a bed can do. . Birmingham. Ala Daru your letter brings to mind another Point Worth mentioning. Ever Beard of i Frog Nolc illnesses they Are problems caused by inappropriate or unnecessary medi Cal treatment. Had you taken your dentist s word and let him break totter jaw. Lord knows what the repercussions might Hare been. I urge people i a second opinion before resorting to surgery or i Ivy treatment in your Case a Little common sense investigating was just As Good. Cheers Lor you a plea for courteous Friendly driving i live off base Ramstein but the other night i had to attend a base function so i returned to base at night. Just before i got to the Security guards without warning it was dark the two Entrance lanes were narrowed to one Lane by Cones. Since i was in the wrong Lane i put in my turn signal indicating i needed to Merit and i wailed. When a Gap in the traffic appeared i moved Forward to enter he left Lane. Immediately the car in that Lane sped up to close the Gap and then much to my Surprise this huge Man with three Small children in the Back seat turned around gave me a dirty look find the Finger after my initial Shock wore Oft. I Felt very sad about whal he had just taught those children. The message was loud and Flea Don t Ever Lei anyone gel ahead be first and always remember so discourage others from Irvine to get ahead by getting angry and giving the Finger to prove that you be won unfortunately this incident is All too typical of whal happens on our roads every Day. And it s not just sad it is dangerous people seem to feel the magic Armor of a motor vehicle is i License to be rude. To let oui their in err and frustrations be first be the fastest be the Best win wrong. Motor vehicles arc Means of transportation not Armor with which to fight psychological wars. There Are vulnerable humans in every car friends neigh Bors relatives not the enemy wish for just a while we could All try to drive Friendly. Let one car merge or go for it let two restrain your Middle Finger Case up on the Gas Don t be the first in the Gate sorry but first is not always Best How you finish matters Loo. If Noi for yourself More pea ii of mind and self res pct or your neighbor safer roads for everyone then do it for the children. Don t be mod Els of rudeness teaching them to buckle up. Eel mad and be vulgar. Teach them a Little lint uni is goes a Long Way. Nest Lime give the other Guy a smite it will certainly make for a nicer Day and a safer trip. Drive Friendly in just might catch on Debbie firing rums Cin a Germany go talks about vulgar language in military i am an american Serviceman. I would like Load dress the civilian Reader who is irritated by vulgar language before i joined the military 1 almost never used vulgar language. When i went to Basic training every body was called every bad name you could think of. The people who rained us used vulgar language every time they opened their Mouths. Now i speak it All the Lime. I have heard nothing but vulgar language since i be been in the military. 1 asked my father about that there has been vulgar language Ever since i can re my father has been in the military Over 20 years. All i can say is ignore it. We will always speak vulgar language. The military can do something about in rut a Lertol be Able to enforce it. A a can try joining the military to underhand out Point of View. Name withheld Tiel Hausen Germany new rendition of an old Christmas song my Friend Kathy Koi Stcin and i wrote these words to be Sung to the twelve Days of Christmas tune last year for on no pm wives club meeting. 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