European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 5, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Tuesday january a 198b the stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann larders Ken is another tale of Hie Seua abuse or children Tarn a Dif Ferent Angle. The lesson is frighteningly Clear. Two we ago my father reached Over and touched my Mother in bed they have been married 38 years and had seven children so you can be sure that he had Lotich cd her plenty of j. Limes with favourable results Bui of thit once he touched her in a car Tain Way. You see my Grandfather had been a sexual abuser. He d done in Bolh in the Home and on the outside 1 Don t know if he was Ever caught. In those Days it was t something people were willing to look into or talk about. Bui he was a Bora tide child abuser and Hij wire and children knew it my father had happened la touch my Mother in precisely the same Way her own father had touched her. Her father would come into his daughters bed room at night and run i hands Over them while they pretended to be asleep. This time when my lather touched her my Mother screamed and jumped As the terrible memories came flooding Back. Mom was an absolute wreck. In look several Days before she was Culm enough to Tell my father what had caused thai auction. A week later when she Laid me about in she said she had haled her father and wished him dead every Day of his Eirc. This he gentlest and most Laving woman i be Ever known was still furious after 50 years. To those of you out there who have this craving or compulsion think a second Lime. Half a Century from now that child May still be wilting up screaming because of what you did to him or her. For cod s Sake get help 1rvington, . Deir n a think you far an excellent letter. Would like to in Jour admonition to gel help. We now know that this problem a extremely common. We Alia know that Nus to rarely quit of their own Accord. This is extremely Jack behaviour and the help of a mental health or frs slum should be sought. Dear Ann Landers my Boyfriend and i arc planning a foil wedding we Are very much aware of the need for financial stability before Martina a family. We Bath work during the Day and t go id College a night in Phoenix. Last october 1 gave birth to a Beautiful healthy Girt. We gave her up for adoption. I would like to thank my family and friends who supported thai decision. I would also like id say a few words to the people who Lei me know thai they though i had done i terrible thing. In my View the adoption was a gift to All concerned. The first gift was to our daughter she will have a Home with parents who will cherish her. The second gift was to the couple. They have been wailing for a child far several years and Are thrilled to Welcome his Little girl into heir hearts and their Home. The third gift t gave 10 myself and my sweetheart. It was so hard in give up this Beautiful baby but we knew we had no right to keep her. By putting her welfare first we have Given ourselves peace of mind and the knowledge that the is Safe secure and. Adored. It s important thai unmarried girl who find them selves pregnant know that they Nave options. Please continue in Tell hem. Empty Cradle full heart dear empty Cradle full heart 1 Hope Job will ignore the nun cats or those mean Spiri Ted people who tried to Mike you feel guilty. They hate � right id a judgment. Yon acted in the Best intern of five people and the Odds Are pretty hard id beat. Tiv tvs to a Radium mix not land rom co Ami nut a Mon. Can Witt to in in Uit at a suit flu 5tnfma, Ato own . Page 11 letters Reader defends Carter cuban criminals this is in response to the writer who As cd where it Carter now the writer ital cd that Carter s naive be and colossal ineptitude among other things per milled Fidel Castro to dump thousands of criminals on american now what constitutes being a criminal in Cuba i know of one who wat jailed Tor Selling a pig on the Economy instead of giving he cuban government the first Chance. He got a seven year sentence 1 Call his crime whal do you Call i7 yet cubans such a he Are branded As real criminals u undesirables Cor practising the american Way. 1 a at fort Chaldee in 1981 and was there for the easter weekend Riol in which several soldiers in my platoon including myself were slightly injured by the rocks thrown at us. Fortunately there were no bullets t have no bitterness. Can you imagine what in a like to be cooped up for Over a year not knowing what is going o happen to you some of the cubans who rioted at the detention facilities have been kept there or have been shuttled from other detention Camps for Yean. They Ilon t want o return to Cuba and t Dan i blame them. My ancestors came to America during the great wave of immigration in 1900. They did his for a bet Ter Way of life and to escape persecution. Although they were never monetarily wealthy they were Happy this became evident during world War ii. Had they stayed or been resumed they would have been slaughtered by the nazis or by Stalin s boons. They never went Backo the old country not even fora Visil i dipl of americans have ancestors who came to the United Stales for Many reasons. The most com Mon reasons were Tor a better Way of life and to Ete pc persecution. Some of Dies immigrants were the nine Type of criminals that the cubans have been accused of being. Now i never did like some or or Carter s policies when he was president. 1 have always admired him for his Basic honesty and forthright inca. True of Mercoun tries especially Iran look advantage of this. I always enjoy listening to who he says because in is from lire heart. a Vuu go Ninny act of kindness observed and reported one often bears complaints about the military clinics and hospitals and heir medical staffs. If these hospitals were lumped together and considered one bureaucratic whole perhaps these complaints would be valid. However one orderly at the Usan regional medical Hospital Wiesbaden destroyed thai myth the other Day and i was there to witness it. While i was waiting in the radiology clinic for my x Ray results a Long Wail an orderly entered push ,., ing a wheelchair carrying a very frightened seven year Jet 3jk.csold girl. 11 Hurt to look at her so tiny with lubes All Wie Taden. 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