European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - January 28, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Thursday january 28, 1988 the stars and St Lopes Ann Antlers dear Ann Landers i was interested in the letter from the Gay Man who resented being pursued by women. I seems thai a great number of his social friends were quite certain they amid make him is might if he would just give them a Chance Lama lesbian who has had the same experience keep running into men who Tell me that if 1 tried sex with a male i would f never consider Eny other Way of a life. I feel like telling those egomaniac that i have had intimate relations with men in feet i was married to on and i prefer members of my own sex. What those idiots do not understand is that who i sleep with or How i sleep with thai person in an infinitesimal and unimportant part of who i bin and what my life b All about. Heterosexuals ire not pestered in Ihu manner. I wish people would leave a alone. I have been in my present relationship for More than 10 Yean and am extremely comfortable with lesbian couple we know Are All settled mature and faithful which is More than 1 can say for the heterosexual i work with. Also not one of our Circle has come Down with aids which has Many of our straight friends worried sick. I once heard you say that your Mission is to educate people. With that in mind i Hope you will print my letter. From Philadelphia deaf Philadelphia think Yon for your contribution toward my mail ii i am not rant of my my Raj will it Little Wiser be cause Yoa wrote. Dear Ann Landers my husband is a senior executive in his company of 400 employees. This morning he left for a trip out of stale with a group of about to. The purpose of the trip is to Reward ibis year s top meetings Art held during the Day and there is entertainment at night. The entertainment consists of dancing and drinking. One of the employee asked Ifni wife could go along at his expense. He was told that a policy decision had been made against including spouses. T believe such trips encourage Hanky Panky of which there is already enough in his company. I was very unhappy when my husband left. I Don t like the idea of him spending a week with female employees who would love to make some Points with the i some kind of a nut what do you think Ann frustrated in Oregon car no it Itata to do that this company tales incentive plan b not doing much to support family togetherness which i Almy in a a Holt lot of trouble. If the husbands would band together and refuse to go on next Jar s noting without their win the policy would he thing a i recommend that you ind he older Ifft at Home women band together and go to work on your men. Dear Ann land plus Settle an office argument who pays for the removal of organs from an Organ donor s body it Scanu Only fair thai the recipient s family Shou Duke care of the Cost since the donor has already made the ultimate gift. My co worker says the donor s family pays the or false Midland Texas ecu Midland false. Bill Bressler executive director of the living Baik in Houston has asked me id make la Clear that Ike recipient pays. Removing organs for it treated a b regular surgical procedure and is often corned by insurance. Lana no sym Tchir Alumna i Liman a vim my Talutto Miu to of m an a ins us i i Simmi Apo d9j11. U s. Page 11 letters writer questions support of local hire Bill the group of people from Mannheim who heart ily support the Bill to hire local teachers Michigan rep. William d. Ford s Bill or 3424 accused new York rep. Gary Lackerman s statement As being blatantly ignorant i agree will them about the statement but 1 have to ask myself Why they would support a Bill that would obviously harm rather than support a Good number of the local hire teaching population in fact 1 Haven t met any local hires who would state that this is a Well thought out Bill thai is fair to All. Let me list some provisions of the Bill along with my own personal Hearty recommendations. The recollection of these listed provisions Are from articles i be read in the stars and stripes and the Unity overseas education association All Germany news letter. Military family members would be Able to teach Only As Long As the military sponsor remained on Active duly. Retirement Means the military spouse can Only finish out the school year. The same goes for sponsor s stateside reassignment or divorce. One Basil for a Good education program is consistency of successful teaching method and operations. Let them continue teaching local hires hired after oct. 1, 1937, would be limited to just one year of employment. Again the consistency concept stated rib Nve also Why a cutoff Date i thought the reason for the local hire action in the first place was because of no availability of Continental United state onus hires. Hiring people who know they will be terminated Inone year is no incentive for them to perform Well. Local hire applicant May not even want to try for the one year stint. It is much More secure for hem to Turylo gel something under the dependent hire program even though in May not be As High a Grade. I say let them teach under the current conditions the first year As temporary and then Dodds has the option to no competitively convert the person to permanent hire military spouses Are exempt from the one year limitation explained in the. Paragraph above Why should Only military spouse be exempt if any temp Lions Are to be specified include qualifying civilian dependents also Asil is in the dependent hire program. This program has thus far been very successful u Why try to re invent the wheel local hires hired before oct. 1. 1987, would be grandfathered to career status with conus Hir Benefit mainly living quarters allowance and return benefits after three years of successful performance. Again As stated Why is a cutoff Date necessary this provision May Only be monetarily beneficial to the non sponsored local hires. I think they also deserve a Chance to remain within the system since they were hired because there were neither qualified conus or dependent applicants. Some have even paid their own expenses to move to Europe knowing full Welt that they May or May not find a Job and at least deserve Equality i they Are fortunate enough to be hired. What in boils Down to is that Kep. Ford s Bill would have my support and probably the support of the total local hire population if they establish a three year Grandfather require ment one year probationary period with no cutoff Dale for qualification or no one year hiring limitation. They let military dependents continue teaching regardless of the sponsor s status. These two provisions Wou d support the govern ment s current attempts to Cut budgets by reducing moving expenses and boost Quality of education through retention of teachers who prove themselves Good educators. Name and location withheld teen Ager has a message for parents i m writing to the cos who were complaining about Rowdy i am � 15-Yeamild girl who is the Type to go put on weekends with Friend and party. Gut 1 Don t drink so i m usually the one taking care of the drunks. So. I know How you feel if Only you knew Why they go out get drunk and whatever else and stagger into the House in the Early hours of the morning or not come Home at All they re not fortunate like most teens who Are loved and care for by their parents. Hey their parents could t care less what they do Mast have single or divorced parents. All they really want i to be Laved cared for and noticed at Home. But they Don t gel that so they drown themselves i drinks at the local club and Start fights. Why Well at least then they la be noticed. If Only you adults who Are site Pompil to be parents open your eyes today and Sec what your kid is doing now you Oil wonder where teen age pregnancy teen age drug abuse re and teen age alcoholics come from. I love my friends dearly but right now 1 Hale their parents for neglecting them. Remember you did give birth to them and in is your responsibility to see that they make something of themselves. Well so far on your daughters part they arc probably our future prostitute of America. And your sons Are probably the next victims of some drastic crime or disease. Vou All arc probably wondering what i am doing out late Well Sec you parents Are not there to show your love and so Forth for them so 1 am. My Parent know that i Don t drink or whatever else. Your kids do and they love and Trust me like i do them. We re allowed to have fun. Wren t we there s no Law saying we can t. Same friends hate me because i am loved and they Are not. 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