European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 11, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 april riders dear Ann Landers Here Are some Csc Lent commandments Tor in Laws. And please Ann feel tree la add to this list. Ai one who has been through inc Mil 1 can Tell you there Are Many Young married couples who need All the help they can get. By Laws for in laws1. Don l feel thai you Are in t j titled to know everything about r. J your married children s lives who they entertain what they do every night Haw much Money they make what their friends Are up 10. Etc. 2. Don l complain Hal visits with your children and grandchildren Art Loo infrequent. If your son lakes you to lunch Don t Tell him it should be every month and then Call him id make sure that it it be Content with whatever time he can give you. 3. Don t try to Force your married children to spend Lime with their married siblings. We Are old enough to arrange our time together. My Mother in Law is constantly suggesting that we should entertain my brother and his wife every week. We love them but neither of it has the time Money or desire to do so a. Don l Correct your grandchildren constantly nor should you i Eccl perfection. Enjoy them. Raising them is not your Job. 5. Don t ask to be included when your married children ill you of some special plans. If icy want to include you they will. 6. Don l criticize your child in front of his or her spouse and Don t criticize the spouse. Neither one appreciates this. Don t phone every Day unless you Are asked to do so. 8. Don t drop in unexpectedly. Ever. 9. Do develop your own friendships and your own hobbies. Your children should nol be made to feet responsible for entertaining you. 10. Do compliment your child s spouse and say thank you when thanks Are due instead of behaving As Ifa thoughtful gesture took Little Lime and no Effort. Please print this. You could save a lot of marriages. Love pm but they re driving me crazy in Kansas Dor crazy to Kinin gnat fist. 1 can think or nothing to add. I a feel however u. Melody Parker Heimbach West Germany pen pals i Pip top Ofui. It put Numi Nguu torn la Jonm Toni vein it Topi in d Tow world i my 16 a let Ati. I would by 1ft Gofind Fli Pucul own cd we. Or How pm if Fang pm cog. Act ing. Nud Ahng Irod Puying if p a. I in 1a �3 3.12th fam a in Foa a a pal att Miv i in 30 i cuu to coir ipod Wrt i Pipta to ferret m Kufel i m h Yun of or rat Totth my i to. B4tryelrf�g. And we fing id the is times a fauns baath t1h aun it Blip. Apo will Muf cite 3un Ltd Satim. Point chit 1 4 37. D4ioo �n�tid1 1 1. A Manv. To i Maun of Thuat a my �i7bi a on furn cd i d&i5& 600.ete j-5%1 or w Lun f my. Wet a Nulu ismcii3?t. No 4d1, k2 so Atli an., my void 10001. To of i co5z1 a Juhik Auto on us-11 10 1 us a hot of Iii euro Ruth Orion it Colet Jeanne l Phillips. Usan Marie Komi ski heat fold cob Deanc o. Mcgheh Mott Prum Kiwi Uin jobs . C Julium Minigh this Imp must a Lutlo Xiloj into Flo pubic Jan 10 own bal Ulintin to wow on rim Conwill of tub Uii a Semi to Norm Chute to a Najl v4wi of of trek kid by. In u s b0nvnnl. The eur Dpn Comitia it. A tit Tuitasi of a i in n in bail kiwis w1un ln4nlfl. Dot not Annil riot swim Mph til 04 olo Ihm. H tha Euri ind us Thiol m a Trautt w mfg my nud in in Niue in a w my Iii now Fex us. Or plug a w to text Mph cart v Acil Manta Mali Wil Buum 102. A Man 210a. Emburg a. Bai flu Apo Mik. Imph et3 lil now. An tug in wm1-sin. . Of huh Jot Ourng in. Do Edwi cum. Apo n069. Us Pinoni Era 3u.��. �. Turim a. Much Peru am Chat it Dowd i durid14 a b Fiu rtt. Orv if Occum cd Man. Sou Ltd Apo Truoi. In pm et5 40 a life v i a Dhahir Tony hum. Buix it. Kurn o Ottn own. Afo Pohlit umm tis uo-t2m Nui Alwg in 1w1 ii t1s5. Tutti unit oth Miny Jowon 0n. Shinn xxx. Ham a. Pledl a Natl. Doi 171. Apo 091zi. Help Rabih trl umu9 a 7m nem. j. Xlyn in a. Ptim. Lute Aba bin m. Fpo my United Ima aau Din omit. Uhuru 4h t ass us. Raf us Kinnu Apo nit w pm Auto vol i�m2i a Uund of a ass tax. Wai Himton. By a two vhf. Jhm outrun. O0-pa Jpn. . A 4flm, a thin an. . A thu 6s. I. A. I fat be Eli 34. S741 of on Nufim dv.lsm01�37. off ecu Oei Watt riven. D. Cult. M. T1b7. E13 1324411, in Row. Tel Civ us Fri lilt. Ets 3241 is. Nm�-mm1. F left Kurt cry wet Max menu. Miu tin. Ete a jokes a Itu the j1jiii. Hwi unum n. S to 01 Sioto. In Vogian ? 100 to. 7101. Cum calh01903 a
