European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 18, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Paga 2 the stars and stripes wednesday May 1b, 1988 when your spouse is in the military it s a love Triangle wives Are told by deede e Arrington Doke stint Fri Terwillinger. West Germany military wives who try to compete with their husband service Ca Reen arc Selling themselves up Tor defeat according to a therapist and longtime army , wives of military member should realize they Are mining applet and when compar ing the Bond Between themselves and their husbands with the relationship Between the service and their husbands said Joyce Fields who also is a Mother of , director of the family support division in Schwein Ikirt discussed the idiosyncrasies of military marriages in a seminar on the military love Trian Gle at a conference held this week by the american women activities Germany. Fields shared her own Early in pretences As an army wife in advising women thai recognizing the difference Between the two relationships is the first principle new military wives should Ricarti. Also crucial to military marriages. Fields said is couple s ability to differentiate Between reality and romantic myths about military life Ai exemplified bythe 1982 movie an officer and a the s finale shows a Navy Pilot candidate portrayed by actor Richard Gere literally picking up his Girlfriend played by Debra Winger and whisking her away from the Dingy Industrial Plant she worked in to a new life at the wife of an officer Why Hai there not been an officer and a gentleman itt reids asked. Because a sequel the said would have had to portray the film s heroine worry ing about How to keep his Navy Whites keys to coping Well with a military marriage Fields said Are o resist the urge to compare one marriage with other and to modify one i wants if those desires an not being you Don t want to spend your life being angry because you Don t get what you want you have i change your wants Fields said. She outlined four characteristics applicable la military men and their reactions to typical military situations the military is a family and while the service member May feel he has the right to disagree wit policies operations or a particular situation brought on by the service the service member May not feel Bis spouse Bat the same right 10 criticize. In the eyes of the services. Fields Laid i Man responsibility is to keep his family in Low. If you can t keep your family straight obviously you can t run this brigade ibis battalion or this the military camaraderie appeals to most Mem Bers. Men Are attracted to he military As a sanctioned Way of having a lot of male friends Fields said. I combat situations the camaraderie has been documented As one of the factors that helps american lighting men survive military men do not leave Home very often. Tiey re chased Fields said. She noted that frequent absences make becoming put of families again difficult for the service member. Esp Daby when he families have Learned to adjust their lives around the absent wives on the other hand Field mid lend to be More responsible for children than did civil Ian counterparts. Have Richer involvement with do dial comma cities than their Hub . Croup together in social support it world a ten Dency Fields Aid poses a threat to a lot of male such fear is exemplified by soldiers who gains away Thor wives id cards while they go into the Field or contemporary duly the Laid. This Type of action further isolates Young wives who May be away from Home forthe first time and Are living in an unfamiliar country. Marriage should be a blend of teamwork ind leadership Fields said. She recommended butt military wives talk to their partners educate themselves and know everything there is to know about Ibe depart ment of defense in the same fashion that i jealous spouse would attempt to team everything she could about her partner s enter Mariul Don l deliver ultimatums Fields said. You will news updates execution urged Ozark Ark. Defective construction probably caused last week s collapse of anew five Story factory building that left at least 14 dead and 57injured, a police spokesman said is almost certain that the defective construction was the Caus of the collapse Bill it is not yet officially confirmed said scr Nando Martinez in a Telephone interview. Army Cook sentenced to 40 years in plot to blow up fellow Soldier by de Ream staff writer Schweinfurt West Germany an army Cook accused of platting o blow up another Soldier was sentence Din a court martial tuesday to 40 years in prison. Pfc. Scot a. Rosenzweig of he co,2nd in 64th Armor 3rd inf div was found guilty of conspiracy to commit murder. He also was demoted to private one ordered to forfeit All pay and Given Adi honorable discharge Rosenzwcig s prison sentence will delimited to 13 years if he keeps provisions of a pretrial agreement that includes his testimony at two upcoming trials in Ger Man court concerning the murder conspiracy. Rosenzweig was involved in the alleged murder plot of an american woman Billie Clifton she still faces trial for enlisting the help of three men to Plant and detonate a homemade bomb inthe car of her husband Sec. Thomas Clif ton. Rosenzweig said in prepared testimony that he was solicited for the murder by Billie Clifton on nov. 1.1937. According to testimony Rosenzwcig american civilian William Larry Bryson and spec. Daniel l pack were involve Din the plot and were to receive s10.000. Authorities were alerted when pave contacted an army criminal investigation come undercover agent for advice on building a bomb according to court records. . Authorities arrested pack an Rosenzweig Jan. Id the same Day Ger Man police arrested Billie Clifton an Bryson. Pavek was convicted in a Genera Conn mania May 6 and was Given a five year prison sentence and a dish Ono Rable discharge. Bryson awaits trial in German court for allegedly obtaining plastic explosives for the plot Rosenzweig told the court Harta never intended to go through with the plan Thomas oif Lon the intended victim testified in Rosenzweig s trial and said he did not believe the plot was like to talk and act big. We an do it he said. I Don t believe it was More than that Hon furan Diplomat held on Coke charge property sales Wiesbaden the defense logistic Agency will hold two auctions in military communities in West Germany in re utilization and marketing offices will hold an auction in number thursday and in sicken him May 26. A variety of items will be auctioned depending upon the location of the Sale. Items Range from vehicles and household goods to Small appliances and electronic equipment customers Are encouraged to inspect goods to be auctioned As each item willbe sold As is. Hems will be available for inspection up to three Days before the auction and May be removed within five Days after auctions arc open to the Public. Cash in dollars or Marks will be accepted and Alt sales Are final. Early registration May be additional information Contact the demo Al the location of the Sale. Slam i a Honduras ambassador to Panama tried to smuggle More than 29 pounds of cocaine into the United stale by stashing it in clothing in his suitcase authorities said. A Uji. Magistrate on monday ordered Rigoberto Regalado Lara Stepbrother of Honduras armed forces commander in chief held without Bond on a charge of Possession of cocaine with intent to distribute. Regalado 49, was arrested sunday after he arrived at Miami International Airport from Tegucigalpa on Tan airlines flight508, according to court records. An affidavit said that during an examination of Regulado Luggage a . Cus Toms inspector discovered a while powdery substance secreted inside 10 packages surrounded by Coffee and wrapped in Plas tic concealed inside pants legs and other clothing in his suitcase tests showed that the substance contained 25.ss pounds of cocaine the affidavit theron edition thai he not be identified said co Caine smuggler sometimes use Coffee to Block detection by . Magistrate Peler Palermo scheduled a second hearing for thursday. Regi Lado was being held in the Federal metro Politan correctional Center the Honduras foreign ministry mean while announced monday no Gnu it sus Pended Regalado s diplomatic status ind that . Authorities were free to prosecute if convicted Regalado would be liable for the corresponding Legal sanctions i Honduras and the United states said eugenic Castrol a spokesman Lor the Honduras foreign ministry 19tegucigalpa Seaman killed in Rota crash identified Rota Spain Sas the Navy has identified the enlisted Man killed in an off base traffic Accident sunday that also injured three other tailors. Seaman George Henry Ousley Fromholtz Summit mo., was a passenger in a car that struck equipment being towed by t Spanish tractor on a Road adjacent to the naval base it Donna Hoff Neier base Public affairs officer said tuesday. Iisley 10, was pronounced dead of head injuries shortly after being admitted to the base Hospital Holt Neicer passenger in the car. Seaman Kenneth Lee Orel 19, of Bovey. Minn.,was listed in serious condition tuesday with injuries to Bis face Chest and Abdo men Hoffmeyer said. Grell was scheduled to be flown lat tuesday to the army regional medical Cemer at lands uhf West Germany for further treatment. The two sailors along with Petty offi cer 3.c. Anthony John Woody were Pas sengers in a car being driven by Petty officer 3.c. Eric Michael be fold Hofmei Essaid. Both Bergold assigned to naval Sta Tion Rota and Woody were treated at the Hospital for their injuries and in Ousley was assigned to Fleet so 22 As Are Woody and Grell she Stid he is survived by his father Leonc Ousley jr., also of Holts Summit and Bis Mother Rhonda Bise of Jefferson City to
