European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 23, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Monday May 23,1988 the stars and stripes Pago 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers recently a Mother liked Why her to children were so differ ent. They were raised exactly alike with it lot of love and she and her husband went out of their Way to be impartial. You said genetics a a lot to do with i am convinced that you Are 100 percent right. I wish you had elaborated on the subject so Many of us need the facts spelled out Here is our Story my husband and i were married for several Yean and wanted desperately to have a family although the doctors could find no medical reason Lor our inability to be parents it just never happened. Finally we decided to adopt our son was Beautiful and healthy but he never stopped crying. We walked the floor with him for months. When Bobby was i year old i became preg Nail and we were blessed with a second son. That child cried very Lilac. His disposition was pure Sunshine. One year later we had twin girls. They were a Joy to us from Day one. Like our second son they rarely fussed. The twins and their natural brother got along beautifully. The older boy resented the three younger Chil Dren and was abusive and mean to them. Starling in the first Grade Bobby was in trouble constantly. He was a poor student labelled uncooperative and Dis the three younger ones were excellent Stu dents and there were never any behavioural problems. The twins arc now 15. Our second son is 16. Bobby is 17. The twins Are Well adjusted have a world of friends and Are a Joy to us. Their 16-year-old brother is a straight a student a Fine athlete kind and thought Ful. Bobby has been expelled from school twice. We caught him drinking alcohol and smoking pot when he was 14. He has stolen from my husband s Wallet and from my purse. We let him know that we disapprove of his friends and tried to get him to accept counselling. Me refused to cooperate. As i write this he is in a Halfway House for drug abusers cocaine. My husband and i Are convinced that the genetic Factor you spoke at in your column is very much at work in our family. We Are sure that there is nothing we could have done to make Bobby turn out right by the same Token we believe that if our other three children had been adopted by another set of parents they would still be great kids. The answer is As you pointed out genes. Thank you for printing hat letter. Again you have made an important contribution to the education of the american Public. Anonymous across the Board dear anon Downs of readers hate Wal then to relate stories that sound great Deal like your. They in thanked me for bringing Ihli Touchy subject to Light. Ii la not one that people want id talk about. In addition to the genetic Factor a nov know that women who drink smoke and like Donigi during preg Nancy May of birth to children Nho Are underweight sickly and sometime brain damaged. 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