European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - May 30, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Ann Landers Page 1t letters dear Ann Landers remember this column i look the original test 22 Yean ago when ii drat appeared. My Chil Dren Art teens now and i d like to see you update in and run it again. The Young people of today Are the Leaden of tomorrow. We must give them tame concept of How their behaviour is viewed by society. This lest could be a fair Mea Suring device.d.d., Bethany okla. Dot tic first set test for to ism was written by ten Ager in 196. The response As incredible. Four Yean lilt. Tour Memphis attn airs updated the test and i printed Belr Craion. Again the Selling fell in. Since Ihen thousands of updated m tests Hurt been sent la me by my Young readers. They Tell me hat if i redly want to help teen agers i d Tetter Tell it like it a. The column you it was he 1971 teen afe sex test submitted by lira teen agers from Dayton Ohio with slight modifications i in Well aware that Many dramatic changes Bare on rred since 1978. The test As it appears requires a major Mehaul and i can think of no Betler author ill than the teen agers who Are Reading this column today. Hen la the 1978 Venlon. Will you teen agers com pose i test thai Yon feel is appropriate for i9b8? i la print the Best one. 197s teen age sex test the scoring guide is Antic end. For each yes answer. Give yourself the number of Points indicated. Have you Ever been out with a member of the opposite sen 1 Ever engaged in Light making out kissing but no intimate touching 2 Ever gotten or Given a Hickey 2 Ever said i forc you"7 3 Ever said i love you to More than one person in the same week 4 Ever removed part of your clothing while making out in a car 4 a you led guilty about masturbation 2 Ever gone Alt the Way with a member of the opposite sex 5 Ever done so without using a contraceptive 6 Ever tried sex with a member of your own sen 8 Ever tried cigarettes 1 do you smoke regularly 3 do you smoke pot regularly 5 Ever mined pol with pills 6 Ever tripped on lsd7 7 Ever done Angel Dusi cocaine or heroin � Ever had an abortion or been responsible for one 8 Ever Wake up and not been Able to remember what you did 7 Ever get a girl pregnant 8 Ever considered gelling pregnant so you could Hook a Guy 8 Ever had group set 3 scoring guide 7 or under candidate Tor sainthood �-16 Normal and dec Chi. 17-30 heading for serious trouble. 31-40 in serious trouble and plenty messed up. 41 or Over you Are a damned fool or completely freaked. Lot Angl Pirih Syndicate Conan Hurt Unis a menu Trout in Wmk to he m til pith stir and Serpai. Apo m2i1. . Residents must work to keep area neat editor s note ii Hare run Rhiw the Loca. Linn Flam Lii fill Ltd in a tier and reply a cause Cvjeti the Taro Folia apply anywhere. We have been in Germany for almost four months and Are enjoying our Lour immensely. What we arc not enjoying is the Lack of concern exhibited by the occupants of the leased housing High Rise where we reside. This is not a Petty complaint on our pan. We have been in the military for Over 10 years and have experienced Many areas where Lack of concern has been displayed but never to this client. The tack of concern we Are referring o is three fold. We will begin Wilh the severest of the three. The ground floor hallway Entrance ways Eleva tors Are constantly littered with trash discarded cigarettes and any other item inc occupants feel they do not want to dispose of properly. Young children arc permitted to run free throughout the building Riding on the elevators using the washers and dryers in the laundry room As toys pulling laundry from the dryers and strewing them acro the floor using trash they be taken from various trash cans throughout the Complex to play with and discarding the unwanted items an the ground. The Only sign or supervision being a Call from their parents for them to come in Al dark although the laundry facilities arc locked with each occupant having a key you still do your laundry at the risk of having everything you own stolen. Washers and dry Ere arc ransacked daily. Each time you do laundry no matter what precautions you take you lose articles of clothing prior to doing one s laundry you must clean the Washer dryer and sweep the floor around inc area you arc utilizing. Broken Washer dryers Are no labelled leaving each user to guess which appliances will function properly. Whenever we come across litter we pick it up and discard it in its proper place. But it is a difficult task to assume the responsibility of grounds Cepcar for in is Complex. Although our children Are in their teens they were never permitted to run Loose at a younger age. The Lack of supervision Here Only foretells of a tragic event in the making. Are people so preoccupied Wilh their Day to Day existence that they have forgotten their responsibility to i hair Young this is the responsibility to guide them to adulthood by Means of a Safe secure structured childhood. Whatever happened to integrity and Honor arc they Only exhibited by so few hat the dishonest and shameless have superseded us unfortunately there arc those who find self Assurance by taking what does t belong to them. We find in contradictory to the stature of the military for its members family members 10 behave in such a manner. Do these peo ple not realize that the Economy is just As Lough for their neighbors As it is for them Don t they realize that someone else s hard earned Money was spent to Purchase what they could t resist taking maybe they can justify their thievery by the fact that in did t Cost them a Penny Only i hair dignity. Perhaps each area with this problem should appoint a laundry Monitor on a weekly basis just As they appoint persons to clean their hours and Hall ways. The Monitor would close and open the laundry room at specific times and be present to assure All goes Well in the area. Is this what it will have to come to before we americans can Trust our neighbors we have no More answers than the next person but we do realize that we Are All in this together As a military Community. Life away from the . Is difficult enough without being made worse by the Many who choose to make it so. We find it very disturbing to walk around the sur rounding neighbourhood. The area in general is a Cal Cpl. The germans take Pride in their Well groomed houses and apartment surroundings. What disturbs us is the difference we observe when approaching our High Rise. The difference in Cullura is so apparent it reaches out and grabs you. We have always had the understanding that the military requires one to Lake care of the area in which they arc assigned. Until now we have found this 10 he abide by. Is there something we arc missing Here Are the military standards of maintaining leased housing different from that of regular government housing if they arc one and the same Why Aren t they enforced who enforces them in leased housing we realize this letter will not change any of these conditions. Only the persons responsible for i hair perpetration can alter them. What we Hope for arc opinions or answers to assist us in making our area a belter Home during our stay in Germany. We Learned a Long Lime ago that Host countries do not present the military family with problems. Most of our problems come within our own communities created by our own families tolerance of their existence. Name and Lealion Tell held editor s note the Deputy Community com Mander replies we appreciate the Opportunity to respond la the in Eblem addressed by info resident. While Ihu Wilur took the Lime to share her thoughts Irre ire probably other residents who feel the same but have not written and Dan l know Hal to do. We snug esl two things talk with your Orlf Tabors and. In an unofficial capacity help to Model what you want others to be. Get involved with older concerned neighbor in planning activities for youth organizing Welcome com Mittee and joining your neighbors who work As a part of the mayoral Chain As building advisers or Contact people. Support inc military Chain of command in your area. Know what the current array regulations state about resident sponsor responsibilities. Speak with your door coordinator building coordinator and or area coordinator about observed problems and possible solutions become involved in referring problems and individuals who shirk these duties loth appropriate personnel and encourage thira to do the same we All own a Pucce of where we live and Tvorik. Get involved in becoming part of inc solution not just identifying problems for others. Report refer misconduct to the appropriate personnel. Gel involve we in identifying others who May join you in doing other positive self help projects to highly Rel he positive. In closing i can assure he residents that writing u idler Lottie Stan and stripes will not solve this Situa Tion. It will take concerned residents to band Lowther and be part of the solution and nut part of the problem an Tut Iliana i spot is was Par Ideal Fry the director of engineering and homing building coordinators Are responsible for notifying the appliance Section of Dei i Hen washers or dryers break Down. 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