European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - June 21, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Ann Landers Page 11 dear Ann Landers i contracted genital herpes Sev eral months ago from a Man 1 bad been seeing for four years. 1 never knew he had herpes be cause he was always careful not to come rear me when he had an outbreak. One Day he was care less and i became infected. We recently broke up and now i am muck with this Nightmare. My outbreaks Are minor and � infrequent thank heavens but i am afraid id go Oul with another Man for tear t might transmit the infection. I know Protection should be used these Days because of the aids virus but if another Man and i become serious and we both feel Protection is no longer needed How do hell him or Don t i. My a Boyfriend told me he always Felt a tingling sensation when an outbreak was coming on. I save never experienced this. Please Tell me How to handle the matter when the Lime comes. Devastated in Hackensack devastated i contacted or. My bul Rosenberg executive director of in american Soful health association he had this to say Between 30 million and 40 my Lioa americans have genital herpes. Herpes is most commonly transmitted from a partner who has Active lesions but the Vires on also be transmitted when there is no sign of infection. It is Aba possible to contract herpes anti Bare no clinical symptoms or to have the first clinic outbreak Yean after lint becoming infected. Although Many people have symptoms such at Lingling prior la an outbreak thl is not a reliable indicator. Condoms and item Toddes vaginal creams jellies foam and the conc Eprime sponge should always be used Ven one partner has herpes and the other does not you Job fold be Frank and straightforward with a new partner in letting him know that Yon have Tyfo infection. When the proper Protection is used chances of trans Mission an greatly reduced. That was or. Rosenberg. This is now Ann Landers. 1 believe you should hold off intimacy for several months. Jul keep talking. If and when you decide that the Man is someone Yon want to keep in your life permanently Lell him. For inform Arhin about an extremely useful and informative newsletter Ivorite to the organza ton that or. Rosen Berg Heads. It will keep you posted on the latest in treat ment and provide a line support system. Ilik herpes resource Center . Box 13827, research Triangle Park . 17709, please enclose a Long self addressed clumped envelope with 45 cents return postage dear Ann Landers does a Mother who does not smoke have the right to ask her daughter not to smoke when the Mother i visiting in the daughter s Home several months ago i asked my daughter not to smoke when i am present she informed me that i Amno longer Welcome. It has been very painful for me to lose Contact with my daughter s family. I have asked for forgiveness but she refuses to have anything Loda with me. Maybe in time things will improve but right now 1 am heartsick and miserable. Thanks for any ideas you might have. A Mother in Harrisburg. Mother. No guest mothers included has the right Losel up rules in someone else s Home. Since you admitted Hal you overstepped your Bounds and Haw begged for forgiveness Yew daughter should find it in her heart to in rate Yon Back. A note from you saying this column mended the rift would make my Day letters Philippines cries out for helping hand arrogant words indeed and worrisome. The task of a muddling the philippine Economy and running the government coherently and efficiently is overwhelming. I doubt the Rich and privileged Mem Bers of the present administration have the fortitude or the courage of their conviction to withstand the pres sures or to make the necessary sacrifices. White there ii talk of negotiating new foreign debt deals the hapless Aquino government according to a recent article in the Wall Street journal sits on $1 billion in foreign Aid which is trapped in a bureaucratic land Reform is still being debated and the government continues to hold on to its Indus trial Empire i Lead of privatizing As it promised. When Ferdinand Marcos was overthrown he left behind a system in which Laws shortchanged most of the 55 million filipinos in order to enrich trims Elfand his cronies. Cronyism and corruption unfortunately did not leave with Marco. It looks very much As if a new set of aspiring cronies this Lime under mrs. Aqui no s umbrella Are ready to move in. There Are All kinds of investigative units and committees on corruption but they must be an exercise in futility if the custom commissioner s dictum of no vember 1987 is any indication. The commissioner told his staff not to Lake bribes anymore Only to accept tokens of although mrs. Aquino s government had impressive successes with initial economic reforms her administration appears now to be getting bogged Down in political jostling and infighting. She has had two serious Cabinet shakeup since 1986, and at least five increasingly violent coup attempts. The political Arm of the communist party controls More than 20 percent of All Rural villages and its guerrillas continue to replenish their ranks with new recruits. Mrs. Aquino whose attempts at reconciliation failed Haw t an effective plan to fight the communist insurgents who bring their violence into the cities. Ati this backsliding must be discouraging to those still shortchanged filipinos whose per capita income ii less than $600 per year. I Hope the . Ambassador and the other american negotiator Arent missing the tree for the i test the soviets have been wooed by the philippine communists. The new russian ambassador described by the Manila chronicle As amiable urbane articulate in English relaxed and accessible to the Media for inter View has perhaps already fostered a Ulang a Loob filipino for a debt of gratitude or reciprocity relationship with Tome members of in. Aquino s shaky administration. What better Way to reciprocate soviet favors than to kick out the two . Bases. In a country of ballot stuffing and disappearing Hal to boxes a referendum place re before the philippine people would Likely be a mockery. I Don t think we should allow or. Mane Lapus and those of his ilk to blackmail us nor do t think we should sell Oul 55 million filipinos who must be at the end of their Lellier when it comes to unfulfilled promises. I think we need to put steel in our Backbone and get off the Fence to constructively guide and influence the philippine government toward us ultimate Goat. 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