European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 3, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Ann Landers dear Ann Landers i ended a relationship with a Man i had been seeing Tor tour years. When i began to Date my current heartthrob or. K., three months ago i wrote and asked you what to do about making sure he did t have a sexually transmitted disease. Of course i was thinking of aids. You said it was mandatory that 1 have a trunk talk with him and insist hat he be tested. I took your advice but he swore that he had been Only with his wife from whom he is now divorced and his former Secretary who was a Virgin Al age 31 and afraid of sex. He sounded like a Safe bet. Three weeks ago i discovered that i had 3 raging Case of crab tick. The doctor gave me some dusting powder that worked like magic but i am disgusted with or. He accused me of giving the lice to him in this morning s new York time i read an article that said a great Many men lie in order to get a woman to go to bed with them. They he not Only about How much they care but about How Many others they have slept wit hand How Many women they Are Sci ngon the Side. I am dumping this rat and opting for celibacy. 1 Hope you will print my letter and urge your women readers to do the in Manhattan dear nameless sorry you became involved with a liar with lice yet Bat there ire alternatives to celibacy. While condoms do not ensure 100 percent Protection they will drastically reduce he chances for infection. There it no substitute however far an honorable truthful male in a totally monogamous relationship. Dear Ann Landers my father raised me with some very sound ideas. One notion had to do with borrowing. He said if you borrow something once is the limit. If you need it again go out and buy it my problem is three neighbors. They Are car nuts. Every year they buy new cars. On weekends they Wash polish and vacuum. Since they Are so in love with their cars would t you think they would have their own vacuums Well icy Don to and they Are wearing mine out. Last weekend i had had it. I told one of the Guys look you re making s15 an hour. Thai s More than make. Why Don t you buy your own vacuum the Guy did t Lake offence but my wife did. She called me ungracious and said if i carried on like that we would t have a Friend left in this town. The same Guy borrowed our Lawn Mower lost year and broke it. The other Guy borrowed our limb Tapper and lost it. The third Bozo borrowed our electric Hospital bed and returned it two years later in terrible condition. My wife is on my Case. Am i wrong Mesa Ariz. Dear Mesa no you re not wrong. Your wife is. Letting people Lake advantage of you is no nay to Cement friendships. It s Fine to help i neighbor out of a Light spot by lending him a tool or a piece of equipment but when they borrow habitually instead of buying their own it s time to lower the Boom. Dear Ann Landers i had a nervous breakdown three years ago and fed As if i m going Over the Edge again. I m sick of doctors also broke and feeling desperate. Help pm Deor pm recovery Ine. Would be the answer. This marvelous organization has More than 1,000 chapters in the . And Canada and it s free. Check the phone Book or Contact the rational Headquarters at 802 n. Dearborn st., Chicago Iii. 60610. Page 11 letters answers provided on Camp Darby club living in Livorno Italy at Camp Darby for the past 2tt years has really become a Challenge. 1 Nave teamed to Cope with Many different situations and tried to improve what i thought i would and to learn to accept what i knew was impossible to Correct. Camp Darby has a Small Community club and during my time Here we have consistently been told that our club is losing however in May when i received my club Bill there was a letter attached slating that in april for the first time in months the club had shown a positive turn and made Money. To celebrate this Windfall they the managers decided to close the club completely on mondays when i received my Bill for june at the end of july i discovered the monthly dues had been raised $2 each month i As sume to ensure we could cominic to close and show a profit. Now Here it is aug. 2 and since july 29, Camp Darby has had the pleasure of being the Host for approximately 6,000 naval personnel. During these four Days the Navy was Here the club ran out of food ran out of change for the game machine and opened late almost everyday plus the air conditioning broke Down and the club was extremely hot no one attempts to repair that either. Now that the Navy has left the area and the club has counted its profits made during the Short time they were Here it seems that our club has decided to close completely for two weeks. It is really very hard for me to understand How a club in this Small area can afford to close consistently and expect to have any members or Active participation in their pro Grams. As near As i can figure we have problems with the management in our club they want Money from the Community but offer nothing in return. How about a few Uso shows or other entertainment to stimulate interest and give us a return on our investment name withheld leghorn Luly editor s note col. Charles c. Viall jr., com Mander he 8th support group replies thank you for the Opportunity to clarify what apparently misunderstanding on the part of the Tetter writer. The Camp Darby Community club has lost Money in two out of the last four fiscal years. Cuner or the club has a deficit net income. However if the of Jisc Chatton for new equipment la omitted the club he made $4,500 by of 31 july. The Fin Neil so Nalion is precarious is it is with most clubs in the army the decision to close the dub on mondays was made As a result of a recommendation received from the management assistance team which Ritj item us to May of 19is. The purpose of Closius the club for one Day a week wag to do a thorough cleaning to enhance us appearance for the Benefit of club members. We have since reversed ibis decision and have worked out an alternate cleaning Pun monthly does were increased in june in i Effort to increase Revenue. This ins the first dots increase in several Yean and in my offset by a Coupon North s3 off on any dinner at the club on selected night for those people who bring their balance to Zero. Camp Darby a indeed very fortunate to Host the Elicon Hower and other nary ships. Not Only did it give the sailors Chance to relax on dry land but it also brought added income into the Community. There Wen decisions when we ran out of change for the amusement machines but the club never ran out of food. Their conditioning never broke Down however due to Large numbers of people to the club the system could not keep up with demand. There Are no Plant to dose the dub for two weeks. With respect la entertainment Al the dub the following bands Appe cd Ihbe year in addition to the Dod show on 28 july which was held at Ibe football Field and Dis cos country & Western nights held at the dub on fridays 25-16 feb Nagra 21-23 april by agent 2-4 june pure fantasy 19-20 amp crimes n passion 16-17 sept company policy thank you again for your interest in our club. If you have any further question or suggestions please Contact our club manager or. Lee Medley at Darby military 7h55 or 7-162. Hard working personnel office praised this letter May not concern Many people but after what i heard today 1 Felt compelled to write. Our unit is a fairly Large unit divided into three separate missions. Hhd Headquarters and Headquarters detachment is the smallest of the three dealing with primarily staff Oil pcs a Soldier was overheard malting the statement thai Hhd might As Well close Down because they have no Mission. No Mission speaking from experience they work darn hard. Those people mostly female work their by Hinds off. Where was the Soldier that made that statement when the personnel and administration enter was working weekends trying to keep the paper work straight or working after hours checking leave and earnings statements to ensure that the sol Diers got paid the right amount Many weekends they have worked when everyone has been out socializing and having a Good Lime. 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