European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - October 5, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Arm Landers the stars and stripes Page 11 letters dear Ann Landers my son is 20 years old a col lege student who lives at Home he has been seeing a girl who will soon be 15. Suzy looks older but when she opens her Mouth you can it she is very Young and not too evenings during the summer Suzy would Cone by an she and Lloyd would Wallfi to. Until l30 in the morning. When Wjk he took her Home he rarely came of Back before 4 30 . All this was with her Mother s permission. I called up on at s o clock in the morning to ask if Lloyd was there. She said yes he s Here but you Don t have to worry. I Trust them can t understand her attitude. If i had a daughter that age i would be worried to death to have her out so late. When i hinted thai i thought she should impose some sort of curfew on her daughter she said non sense you have to Lei your children know you have Faith in about this Ann am 1 wrong of please answer in your column. Richmond a. Dear Valmy finl question is Whit s 20-yur-old College student doing with 14-year-old Ghl does t fee know that he own be arrested for contributing to the Delin Quency of minor if the girl s Mother thinks it s perfectly of to let her adolescent daughter keep such hours it Means the Eleva Tor lint going All he by up to tin top. Yon need to Tike Coo Tel. Hind this column to Lloyd us Tell blk to Witke he by smell the Coffee. Obviously the attractions . He could be heading far big trouble. Dear Ann Landers will you please Tell me Why so Many people who have a serious hearing problem refuse to and Mil it 1have a dear Friend and Bridge partner who drives us All crazy because she can t hear the bidding. Then there s my neighbor in the next apartment whom i dread running into because i must repeal everything four limes and she still does t know what i m talking Mother in Law is the one who sends me around. The Bend. It is impossible to carry on a conversation with her because she just Plain can l hear. When i suggested that perhaps she ought to consider a hearing Aid she blew up like a Volcano i did t mean it As an insult i wanted to be be hearing impaired is not a disgrace. Why arc women particularly sensitive about this please reply in the paper. I m sure there Are Many readers who would like to be enlightened. La Porte ind. Dear Psi Porte hearing problems often suggest that the years Are beginning id Lake their toll. Of course this is not neck Star by so but it is i common notion. People who for vanity s Sake refuse to admit that they can t hear miss a Greal Deal in life and make things difficult for those around then. We need to do a better Job of educating in this Ana. Dear Ann Landers help me win a bal. Which of the following has the Legal right to break into a funeral procession 1 fire engine 2 ambulance 3 police car 4 . Mail truck i said the . Mail truck and was told i was crazy. Am 1? . In Wyocena wis. Dear Wyocena Yoa win. A vehicle owned by the Federal government has the right of Way. Though this is technically Correct ii is not practically so. I m sure do one would object if � fire track or an ambulance Cut through a funeral procession. Watch your purse closely Reader warns it started out to be a Lovely Day. We Rode the train into Frankfurt with our three children. We chopped for a while. Then we found a place to eat lunch. We my Down to eat and during the time we were eating someone reached Over the Back of our Booth and stole my purse which was sitting Between me and my son. It was inconceivable at first that this happened to me. I had worked really hard this week. I am a child care provider and i had had a difficult week with sick children so the $801 lost really Hurt i also lost my id card my Driver s License my club card my Check Book a Mastercard i m liable for Sio my car and House keys keys to the storage shed our Mailbox my Wallet and a set of extra clothes for my daughter. When i came Home after going to fill out a report with the Polizzi i Felt violated. I have nothing no id i can t drive i can t write Check i have no spending Money for two weeks and i la have to pay Mastercard $50.1 can l gel into my car or House or Mailbox or shed. And on lop of All this i feel guilty knowing that right now a terrorist might have my id card. I know it s not my fault my husband was even sit Ting across from me How Safe can you be but i still in some Way feel it s my fault even though i know i m the victim. So let this be a warning. You can never be Loo careful ladies beware watch year purse Robin Clayborn Rhein main a West Germany dependent male spouse feels excluded i am a dependent family member spouse whichever phrase you Are most comfortable with. I just finished Reading an article from Ramstein a name withheld. I found myself agreeing with most of its Content although i was disturbed with the end. Name withheld defined dependent As wives and children in 1988 that statement is no longer True. I am a proud member of a growing minority a dependent husband. \ find that male family members receive very Little if any recognition. Wives club religious wives club women of the Chapel Are All organizations for spouses. I think in Stime that they acknowledge the fact male spouses do exist. I was told by our local wives club that they have been approached by other males but none has joined. Was also told that until a male does join the club the title wives will remain. Granted in is Only a word bul it leads me to be Lieve hat the male family members Are not valued enough to create a club for spouses rather than wives. If a simple thing like changing a word cannot be done then there is a Long hard Road ahead. No Mailer what phrase you use spouse family member we Are All partners to our military spouses regardless of our sex. Also to All those Hospital clerks please Slop asking me what unit my father is in. Jerry can Wal Ryburg West Germany writer complains about gripes in letters i am amazed at the letters that you print in the paper. Surely someone on your staff must work Over time to make up these letters because today s service life is voluntary i find Ilhard to imagine or believe that these service members left behind a life without lines to wait in or stores that did not Stock whal they wanted when they wanted it and in the size and color that they wanted. 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