European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 8, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Tuesday november 8,1983 the stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers my baby born in july was to be adopted by a wonderful couple in Toronto. We had arranged for a private adoption so i knew Herand her husband and they knew  the last minute 1 backed out leaving them devastated. Hated to do it Ann but after i saw my baby i just could t give her up. The woman is unable to have children and she and her husband had been waiting for this baby fora Long time. They had the Nursery ready and bought a Complete Layette. When Lisa was bom the woman saw her held her and fed her before 1 changed my mind. Telling her thai Lisa was no longer Hen was awfully hard to do. I apologized Over and Over but she turned away making it Clear that she was not wiling to accept my apologies. 1 Hope that she Witt see this letter and will under stand. 1 also want to warn other who Are interested in adoption to to through an Agency. Professionals Are experienced and they know How to prepare a Mother Tor the loss of her child. I am told that most natural mothers who arrange for adoption on their own change their mind As 1 did leaving hopeful couples , 1 want to say that i Tun sorry and i Hope that they will read this letter arid find it in their hearts to forgive me. Teen Mother in Ontario dear teen Mother there is More to be considered Here than your lore for your child or the couple s inability a for Drc Yoy. I am referring to the welfare of the  you me to provide the Loving Home and tender care that Lisa could hate had with this couple can jew support your child. These tones should Hare been Given top consideration and m bet Yon did t give them much thought. The big loser in my opinion could be your child. Dear Ann Landers what do you do about a neighbor who shows up at your House regularly twice a week with her spoiled Rotten 6-Ycar-old?. The child throws a Tantrum when her Mother mentions going Home to eat. She insists on staying and having supper with  times we have split two hamburgers or two Chicken breasts and two salads to feed four. The kid eats like an adult i Don t want to Hurt the Mother s feelings but my husband does t enjoy her company that much and he has an Active dislike Lor the  evenings they Are already on our front porch when we get Home from work. This has been going on for More than two Yea Sand i need to put a Stop to it. Can you suggest something up to Here in Missourie Aruto -. What s the matter no vocal Canu i apologize for sounding like broken record but i la Lay it again. No one can take advantage of Yon without you permission. The Only Way Yon ind your husband can reclaim your Hies is by telling your neighbor that she May not come Over anymore unless inn Ted. If she Ihori no after that fell her sorry we he plans for tonight which is no lie. Your plans Are to eat alone. "  Ltd in attn Tanh Nind Calad Colum Neil Lanton we omit your kit tarty on web la he in Ait a pm Sun and or ten Apo Fozan. . Letters Reader to pass up vote out of conviction please i be had enough of the propaganda on our vote  while Iii admit that if you vote your vote will count i contend Why Vole no 1 am not against utilizing my most important Freedom quite the opposite. I feel that my Vole is much too important to waste it on a National presiden tial election if neither of the candidates represents my views. Why would i be forced to choose Between  and Twe tilt dumber i believe that most americans would support adoption on the election that would read i do not vote for either candidate this idea has been around some time now and has even been tried in some local elections. The result was that Man people voted far no one than voted for Hose running for office. That is Why there is such a Strong opposition Fortis option on a National ballot. It would be too embarrassing to see that More people did not want i ther candidate than voted for a Winner. White talking to a Friend the other Day he also Hada Good idea. Require that at least five or More no for the office of president. This would include both major parties As Well As independents. Then at election time you would get to vote for the three people you would not want for president. In Stead of saying i Vole for or. A you would say Well i Don t know whom i want but i do not want Max or. Y or or.  that Way the people whore most not wanted would be eliminated. And i think More people would be involved an would Vole this Way please nobody write in and say that the popular vote does not elect the president i know that he is chosen by the electoral College. But that is not True either. He is really chosen by big Money big Power and big business. So t for one will not vote again this year. Yes 1 did Vole in the primary and my candidate lost. So rather than waste my vote on the lesser of two evils i la sit and watch. And yes when next Yea chief Bozo Sells nuclear weapons to khad Afy Duck for release of our National Supply of cat litter i la soy i told you so and continue working for the Candi dates who represent my political thinking. And for those of you who think i m a Little left Ofat Tita the Hun the last political candidate 1 could have supported 100 percent was Bobby Kennedy thelast presidential election i participated in i voted for George Mcgovey and yep i had a bumper sticker that read Don blame inc for Tricky dict i voted for  so if you really think that one of the two Candi dates would make a Good president and you could really support him then by All Means Vole. But if you Don t think either one should run the country then write your congressman and senator and Tell him her what you think out Volt does count so Don t Vole if you Don mean in not voting out of conviction is not the same As not  Williams Darmstadt West Germany writer can t wait1 to get Back to . A modest proposal in a recent letter prompted me to write. A Reader and his wife suggested that our first six months in Germany be spent without Access to cafes or commissary facilities. They feel that if we Are made to live like europeans the experience would somehow make us humbly thankful for the slice of americana that cafes delivers so Well. Well we Are not europeans. We Are transplanted americans with a capital"a.". The writer s simple solution to the howls of protest he is so tired of hearing has a few flaws. The first six months of a tour arc when a Soldier airman is most dependent on Post facilities. He or she has Little or no Choice in the place where necessities Are purchased. If a person is to truly live like the european around him her that person s military duly should be Zero. Fat Chance. Could the monopoly known As cafes survive without All these customers remember cafes is the Only Choice for a lot of military  the writer has forgotten that moaning and groaning in newspapers is a constitutional Guaran  is a system that at least overseas docs not have to compete like retail stores in the slates. 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