European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 15, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Arih Landers dear Ann Landers raspberries to you for your Lousy answer 10 fed up in Taaj the couple who complained about the Slob neighbors next door. You told them to build a Fence and Plant shrubs to hide the junk in the Yard and the rundown condition or their neighbor s Home. There Are codes and ordinances pertaining to the maintenance of residences and businesses in every Community. They keep irresponsible people from becoming a nuisance As Well As health Hazard. If fed up in Texas is really fed up. She should Contact her i y Council representative or county super visor and Register a complaint. The authorities will Force these people to clean up their property or face some stiff fines. Fed has already spent enough Money making her Home Beautiful. She should t have to invest in fences and shrubbery because slobs moved in next door. Kenner la. Dear Ken right Yon Are. Help yourself to mow other a Nugget Totoiu tent in by Giralt and sympathetic readers Call the chamber of Commerce. Notify the belter business Bureau. Check the Homeowner a sedation. Contact the Board of health. Sloppy neighbors May be a Roulf the i a Welt at deprecating your properly. Dew readers out Yon stand another letter on the same subject i Hope id because Here it it dear Ann Landers please let people know they Don t have to put up with neighbors who live like pigs. Our Home represents a big investment. We take Pride in our neighbourhood Mien slobs next door let their property dirt Down they devalue nun. Here is the letter that goes to All citizens who move to Moorpark Calif. .,.- dear neighbor. Part of what makes Moorpark a Nice place to live is a warm feeling about neighbors. The fallowing violate state and local Laws and people who break these Laws will be prosecuted. I. Urinating in Public. J. Drinking alcoholic beverages in a Public place. A blocking driveways or double parking in the streets. ,.4. Playing music so loud that it annoys your neigh Bors. 5. Parking cars on your front Lawn. 6. Failure to maintain your Home or Yard. You Are Welcome in Moorpark but we insist that you respect the rights of others. You May not interfere with their right to enjoy their Homes and neighbourhood. Moorpark City Council sent in by Anonymous Reader dear Anonymous Many thanks for an excellent blueprint that could Benefit other communities. Dear Ann Landers when a person you work with brings 40 or 50 Pic Tures to the office and explains who everyone it How can one say i am really not interested,1 without of fending bored outta my Skull i Manhasset dear Man there s a better Way. After you the seen a dozen or so it s perfectly of to say they re Ery Nice. Excuse then go somewhere. Anywhere get a. Drink of water. Make phone Call. Go to the ladies or men s room. Recognize a Friend who jul arrived. Ihil Tritous Nat really. It s More gentle than saying Yon Are a nerd and your pictures Are a monumental Page 11 letters Call her family member not dependent i hate the word dependent i am a family member and in Case any of you Haven t been paying attention family member is the appropriate term and was officially adopted by the army several years ago. There arc several reasons for my dislike of the word it lends to Foster the notion that spouses of arc not capable of doing things on their own. True there arc people like that and for them i feel sorry. But it is not the Case with every army family member. 1 happen to be employed in a position in which i make More Money than my husband the service member and i enjoy my own employee benefits. Many whom i Correct for having used the term de pendent on me get defensive. One such individual Lold me that 1 was indeed very much a dependent and that if it weren t for my husband and the army i would be nowhere what would i do if i god forbid had no he privileges or could t utilize other army facilities maybe i m one of the very few people that have figured out that the universe is much broader than the pm and that if need to use it 1 have my own medical care plan. I am proud of the fact that 1 can exist on my own that i do not need my husband or the army to sup port me. Being Able to handle my own life is the reality of life itself. Unfortunately the problem is much greater than my calling the Hospital for an appointment and hav ing the clerk say Are you a of you Are a dependent or having someone ask me in conversation arc you a civilian or a dependent Many commanders and Community leaders embrace the Altitude that family members and especially wives arc . Tins View makes me angrier than the fact thai i am occasionally referred Loas a pen pals 1 Plum up Bah our Nanna in your pan pal column. Road Nara s. Cutava. 20pauhlan.tatatan 1" 1 dependent. These Leaden May not actually Call us dependents but simply by the Way they regard us when speaking to us or about us clearly illustrates How we arc seen by them. I have attended Many functions where the High ranking individuals have in speaking to the group Felt the need to translate what icy had just said and actually prefacing the condescension they were about to commit by saying for our ladies that Means .,." although i am a civilian if i were a woman in the military. 1 would be even More furious at that Oul died habitual Assumption that All Scricc members arc male. But just to have them think that i do not understand what they Are saving because i am a woman a family member a civilian or any combi nation of the three makes me angry enough. To commanders and other Community leaders you arc truly held in High regard by those who work for you and around you. What you think and what you say is absorbed by everyone who hears you speak. Your views establish the views of Floc Community As a whole. You set the standards simply by the nature of your rank. Thai s Why you Are called a Leader. By permitting inappropriate attitudes to remain within your realm and by actually committing u few of these sins yourself you arc in fact expressing to everyone in your command Hal this is acceptable. The standards you set for this and other issues will determine whether you Are respected for your rank alone or for being a conscientious dynamic progressive Leader whose ideas can be respected As Well. I am sorry to say that As Long is i have been in my Community 1 have not personally encountered very Many leaders who can i ii those shoes. Name withheld Vest Germany . Nncy Ouintal. Olymph c. 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