European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 21, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Onetime mistress of Camelot by Jerry Schwartz associated Pressi n fairy tales. Iho caul ill Princess marries the handsome Prince and hey live happily Ever after. Bui Jacqueline Boule of Kennedy Onassis fairy Laic Short circuited on a warm Day in Dallas when her p  Suil was spa Allerid Wilh her Prince s Bloodfin the ensuing 25 years she has had to write her own Happy ,. The Pool iwil5 she has chosen have nol been Papular with Iho adoring Muhi Ludes who would have prof erred Ihal she remain the National widow. Her 1968 marriage to greek shipping tycoon Aristotle Onassis engendered outrage and her penchant for privacy has bred some Rosenl Snopl. Bui once a your she kneels alone Al Arlington National Como try and onco again she becomes the stoic Black edited widow who stood at Hal spol in november s063 to Bury her husband presi Donl John of Kennedy. One must my let oneself be overwhelmed by sadness Chunco said. Ii is  to remember what Jackie Kennedy was to  a Dlo the world. She was the glamorous a la cry voiced Brunette Whoso appearance a i used As much commotion As her husband s Ca much so Hal he laughingly introduced himself As Jim Al s escort. She was i Fos in plate whose designer dresses Pillbox hats and White gloves spurred the fashion. John f. Kennedy it addressing the democratic National convention in Atlanta last july and Al age 3, saluting the coffin of Lohla tether at Arlington National conv Tery nov. 25,1963. A 19001 Jacqueline or Iasso with sen. Edward Kennedy Industry As much As her hapless husband wounded Iho Fedora Trade. We Are on the threshold of a new american. Elegance thanks to mrs. Kennedy s Beauty naturalness understatement exposure and symbolism said Oleg Cassini her official designer. She was the Young hostess of a televised tour of the while House the graduate of miss Porter s school end Vassar who said her prime responsibility was to " Lake care of the president so he can Best serve the  she was 34 years old when Juk died a striking con rail to her matronly predecessors Bess Truman and Mamie Eisenhower. Most of All she was mistress of Camelot. She forfeited that title when she married Onassis the aging greek who seemed the Antithesis of the elegant Kennedy. Many said she was a Gold Digger she never. Explained the marriage publicly never responded to such headlines As Jackie How. Could you Sho by surviving and being with him Juk when he died so dramatically became e legend in her own lifetime said a Friend. Paul Malhias. And she cannot live up to it because no human being could.". The marriage foundered quickly and Ari and Jackie lived separate lives. When he died in 1975, he text her $120.000 in his will she wort a $26 million settlement irom the Onassis family. At the same time stories about Juk s escapades while he was president began to spread stories about alleged liaisons with Marilyn Monroe and the mistress of mobster Sam Lancana. And others suggested that Juk s most lasting legacy was the War in Vietnam  ,. Camelot was t what it used to  her millions Jackie Onassis could have done absolutely a bling. Enjoying her 14-Rpom apart men Ori upper filth Avenue her estate in Bernardsville hand the oceanfront compound on Marina s Vineyard while rearing her two children Caroline and John or. Instead she entered 1he Job Torce in 1978 As an editor for Doubleday & co. She works there 3 Viz Days a week producing ideas and acquiring books from authors and Pagonio then guiding the writing of. Manuscripts ". A her primary publishing interests Are Art and entertainment never politics. Her bestsellers have included Michael Jackson s autobiography Moonwalk and Ballerina Gelsey Kirkland s dancing on my grave. I think people who work themselves have respect for the work of others,1 she has said her salary reportedly $40,000 to 50,000 a year is a pittance of her net Worth estimated at $50 million plus $200,000 a year from a Trust Lund bequeathed by Kennedy. She has made some Public appearances in recent. Years. She has supported efforts to save new York landmarks Ike grand Central terminal attending news coherence but saying Little and slipping out through freight entrances. On her infrequent appearances Al social galas she often dons the designs of Carolina Herrera. Her Date is usually longtime Friend Maurice tempelman 58, a belgian born Diamond dealer and International businessman. \. On autumn weekends Onassis sometimes rides with the Essex Hunt club near her Bernardsville estate. She often is among the spectators at the annual steeplechase in  she does not mingle. With the locals. She has been seen sailing and Walers Kling Oil Martha s Vineyard with tempelman but often eludes the Public Eye camouflaged in a Scarf and sunglasses. Her Island House is at the end of a 2,000-tool driveway. The signs out front   Onassis bottles with persistent photographers Are legendary. She repeatedly went to court to thwart the. Alten Lons of Ron a Ella first obtaining a  barring Gazolla from coming within 30 Leel of her or her children then going to court to enforce that order. She declines All enl reviews according to her spokeswoman Nancy Tuckerman. She would not speak on the 20th anniversary of the assassination she will not speak on the Quarter Century anniversary but occasionally new yorkers catch glimpses. One newspaper recently showed Jachie. A still Youthful looking grandmother pressing a Street while engrossed in a Book oblivious to the photographer. Even celebrity immune new yorkers share when they spot. Her jogging in Central Park or shopping on Madison Avenue you have two compartments. Your private and your Public Lite she once explained i think i m More of a private person. I Don t really like to Call attention to anything.".,"." a.  alter the assassination after. Jackie s fall irom Grace with Onassis after revelations about the Kennedy Era and after her determined efforts to maintain her privacy a poll asked americans Lei list their most admired first ladies. / first was Eleanor Roosevell the most Active of All president s wives. Second was Nancy Reagan whose anti drug Campaign was the stuff of current headlines. And third was Jacqueline Bouvier Kennedy Onassis. Page 16 the stars and stripes monday november 21.1988