European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - November 22, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                Not Landers tuesday november 22, 1988 the stars and St Hopes Page 11 dear Ann Landers my Mother s favorite child was her Only son. My father s favorite was my younger sister. Since iwas always on the outside looking in i could t Wail to get married and out of the  Man who chose me was wonderful. I was thrilled to be. R cantal by somebody. Everything was divine the first year. A then the fights Slart cd up j about everything and anything f he says he loves me but he puts me Down every Chance he gels. He magnifies my Laws and there is no rasped or affection Between us. We have. One child t never was Able to get pregnant again is the child a Joy to me no he is not. This kid is so rebellious and perverse he makes Ray life hell. I Nave taken him to three Counselor but not one would continue to see him. I know the reason. The boy has inherited my problem whatever it is i have asked myself that Well known Ann Landers question would i do better off in this marriage or out or it the answer for me is to stay. I have a degenerative disease that Wii eventually leave me totally incapacitated and that is Why 1 am saving up the sleeping pills. I la be damned if i la let myself be dependent on my husband 10 push me around in a wheelchair and teed me with a.  May be that 95 percent of the people who write to you can be helped by counselling but please be aware of the 5 Perchm like me. For those of us who can t be helped suicide in t such a bad alternative. And the world will have one less crazy who never should have been born in the first place. You do a great Job Ann never Stop no City no state dear Friend i m not hiring up an you. For those who cannot be helped with counselling there la another Hope. Chemical treatment go to a psychiatrist Anil take this column with you All psychiatrists Are ads and Ean prescribe drugs your doctor will know what la do. Please please write again and Tell me that you took my advice and what i did for you. Good Luck and Coil bless dear Ann Landers most people believe that their Telephone Conversa Lions arc private and they arc with two exceptions cordless telephones and cellular Mobile units. People with simple electronic equipment can tune in and hear whatever is being said. I would like to know if there Are any Laws against listening in on phone conversations. What about scrambling equipment would t that solve the prob Lem  Holdin Santa Ana Dea Santar. We contacted John k. Cusick director of external affairs at an Trellech. Lit was most cooperative. Here s me Story my correspondent is Correct. Cord less and cellular Mobile phones Are really radios. Conversations can be heard if a would be listener has the Correct equipment. A scrambler would be a solution Bulshey Are very expensive the electronic communications privacy act says it is indeed illegal to listen in on conversations but at Thimo Nitzl there is no Way this Law can be enforced. So to those of you have cordless phones or cellular units in Jour automobiles Don t say anything you Hdldn l want the whale world to hear. Big brother big sister your s Bor could a listening. Your next door neigh readers say writer should enjoy Europe i would like to respond to a recent article in your paper. The title was writer can t Wail to get Back to the writer states that his experience overseas has been nothing bul one disappointment after another. He has no one to blame but himself. Europe has so much history and culture to offer that you have to be near brain dead not to appreciate it. I Hope for the Sake of the United Stales this individual is not affiliated with the armed forces in any capacity after All we Are in Europe to protect democracy not shop at cafes. Staff sol. Robert Didich bucket West Germany this writer is amongst the sorries individuals i have Ever run across. He has Europe at his Doorstep and cries for Levi 501 jeans. You have no Choice but cafes new and exciting International foodstuffs and clothing Are available at every Type of store imaginable. Open your eyes work on your flexibility and Learno enjoy your new environment. What have you got to lose after Alt your next Lour of duty is bound to be better just like the last one. A Cottrll Naples Italy in response to a recent a incr this one really made me cringe. Most readers of the stars and stripes write to you about questions or ideas not to put Down the United Stales army what has this Guy got to complain about anyhow was he drafted a he forced to enlist what be been Here almost two Yean. I was Here 10 years ago for one year. No matter How bad it gets i Wake peach Day o almost the same routine and i Don t regret it one bit i am thankful to have an cafes commis sary. Class i clothing sales and All the Othni military bureaucracies that have always been a part of the system. If you do not like the Way you Are treated or you have not been Given a fair shake you can always learn to be a Snake Trainer in the a know Whatt staff sgt Kun let.  i Weil Germany Zaragoza teacher gives is Story a a in a recent edition of the stars and stripes there was an article written by a William j. Barman entitled Gao report faults Dodds Pacific.". The first paragraph of the article stated one Oul of seven students in the military s overseas schools sys tem in the Pacific Region graduated in 1988 without meeting minimum  a person Reading that first paragraph might be shocked upon learning that fact however paragraph eight of the same article stated that a review of 200 students who graduated from the two philippine High schools in 1988 showed that one in seven of these graduates failed o meet the mini mum graduation  Correct me if i am wrong but 1 do not believe that two philippine High schools constitute the Pacific Region of Dodds. The information in paragraph eight is contradictory to the information Given in in first paragraph of the report. If or Bartman was concerned in writing an article that was specific exact and Correct he should have omitted the first paragraph or changed it to agree with the eighth. This Type of reporting is irresponsible and smacks of sensationalism. It helps fan the flames of hysteria growing slowly but surely about Dodds. Or. Ban Man s first paragraph it very slanted and leads the Reader to think that the entire Pacific Region of Odds is bumbling along when in fact Only iwo schools in that Region were reviewed for graduation requirements. As a Reading and writing teacher. I am trying to teach my students to be enact specific Correct and responsible when writing a report about a topic. The Type of article written by or. Barman. With its incorrect and slanted information is an example of whatnot to do if one wants to be an objective reporter. Or Bartman s report would have been Given a a in my class.  Zaragoza Spain pen pals Plaa a Kidd my bin Thorp Long. Pitying Golf and mtenlng10 disco Mulc. My Ivr Turla group Art us boat Ehon John hid pc. Uiha sunup Towb a. Liml Yein a. Tim hthhc2/mar ,og7m  i Wulw Alia to be i4ud Tai of in Mac Tion. La s old and my -bnaaahabt/0 Charu a inn pupa a wont  cry n9s malt i fond dul. 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