European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 2, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse Friday december 2, 19b8 the stabs and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers i am a full time teacher with a Small child. I work hard at being a Good wife Mother and teacher and take very Little Lime for myself. My problem is my husband. He wakes me up almost every night for sex. I am perfectly willing to have sex in the evening morning or both but need a decent night sleep 10 get by Ai work and make it through the Day. Also if 1 am Awak f a cd in the Middle of the night i find it difficult to get Back to sleep i m a Light Sleeper and my husband snores. He claims that having sex at night or before going to work in the moment is too the Man continues to awaken me whenever he pleases. I need your help. Exhausted in Madison. W1s. Dear ext Yoor Barbaraj is selfish and inconsiderate. To be awakened to tit Middle of the night for sex is of occasionally but on a regular basis forget it. Tep the nocturnal noon la thai you arc willing to help him be More creative morning or evenings or Bot but the Paul Revere Bill is out dear Ann Landers this letter is for anyone who is thinking of suicide. I first contemplated killing myself five years ago during Rev senior year in High school. 1 actually tried to do it my freshman year in College. A fiend stopped me just in time. Here s my Story 1 thought i was ugly and thai no Gir would want me. My parents were super critical and 1 Felt i could never live up to their expectations. I thought they would be relieved if i was t around to Embarrass them. Also 1 was a social hop and never it in , when i look Back at my life i thank god that i did t succeed of 1 had 1 would not have graduated from College last May. I would not have met my Beautiful Bride to be. I would not have realized my lifelong dream of becoming an army officer. To everyone who is thinking of ending it All. Please listen to me. Don t do ill if you get the night kind of professional help life will get better. I know because when i hit Bottom i thou Chi i was finished. But i put myself in the hands of a wonderful doctor and he helped me turn my life around. I am now Lucky and Loving life in Dayton dear Loving life yen were More than Lucky to were sensible. And it paid nit. Thanks Tor letting the world know. Dear Ann Landers our 31-Ycar-Otd daughter has no great desire to get married but Doris has always had an intense love for children. She i making plans to adopt a child next year. Though i am somewhat Uncertain about the Wisdom of such a decision i understand her feelings and have go Van her my Lewings. Her father however is Vehe mently opposed to the idea and hat made it Plain that he will sever All relations with her if she insists on going through Wilh this harebrained idea. I Sec years of family turmoil ahead and it is making me sick. What is your advice concerned mom in Sharon mass. Dear concerned mom r if Doris is Able to be a Loving Parent to a child who Nevils a Home 1 see no reason for her not to do so assuming of course that she can provide the proper environment and support the child .1 hop her father will discuss his feelings with a Counselor. His Lack of understanding is clouding misjudgment. He need to talk this out answers provided on army separations my husband and i arc both Active duty army. We live in government quarters with our daughter who is command sponsored on my orders. My separation Dale is june 14, 1989, and i would like to separate Here in Europe. My husband will Complete his three year tour in August 989 and would like to extend for oneyear to Complete his four year enlistment Here in Europe. No for my questions 1. If i were granted an european out. Would my husband be granted command sponsor hip for my daughter and myself so we could remain Here for his one year Extension or would he be required to do Knotner three year tour before command sponsorship would be granted 2. If command sponsorship would be granted us for that final year would we be allowed to remain in government quarters while our paper work for command sponsorship was being processed my husband is signed for the quarters. 3. Of 1 returned to the slates to separate would the government pay for my daughter and myself to return to Europe for the final year of my husband s Extension if command sponsorship was granted until we receive some definite answers my husband cannot put in his Extension paperwork and i am unsure of whether to pursue an european out which re quires an extensive Effort to accomplish. Sgt. Marfa r. Hen Thoni Dex him West Germany editor s note Annmarie Erler twee travel actions Branch 1st per com he l1sareur, re piles we on certainly answer you questions and perhaps offer clarification far other soldiers who May be in Simi Lar circumstances. If Yon Are granted a european out you and Row daughter can be command sponsored by your husband who remains in service provided he completes a sex month. Tour and has at least 12 months to Arm alter command sponsorship to approved. The request for com Mand Apo Oship Aronld be submitted immediately Fol lowing the Date of your discharge Yoor Serr crag per sonnet Ollilee is the approving a Thorf. If Yoa return to the United Stales for separation Yon Are Mitbo razed spas mra red Gort nement transportation to return to the overseas command. The entitlement is from a place not further than the distance from Jam husband s Farmer duty station to his present duty Tai ton. If Lotf Danch Ter retain to the United states wit you. On separation orders she Itab be considered a de pendent acquired after pcs and will be authorized Auter space available space a travel Back to the Are sea command. Shipment of household goods to the Ovena com Mand is not authorized. Your request for retard transportation Mast be submitted through your Serr Lomg personnel of and Houslin Jobke to Compaan Dir 1st Peru Unel command attn Teupe psst pm Apo 09081-5404, prior to your departure for the United the answer to your other question to provided by Rose Salerno Hou Suir Difton Deputy Clef of Staft Engineer he Usa eur. Once your husband Rel approx it of Extension of overseas assignment and com Mand sponsorship for yen Aad your daughter the Mully can remain in your present quarters. For record Par poses you husband should report the change in family status to the housing office. Reader advises checking out insurance after Reading the re cell idler entitled Check Fine print on car policy i am compelled to comment i spent Over iwo years working for a Well known insurance company in the Stales. The person who wrote to you in t alone in his naive be in regards to Auto insurance. The situation outlined was thai responsible for damage to the car could not be located. Your collision deductible will always apply to a hit and run. And it is Standard to Market value your vehicle in order to determine the total out pay off from your insurance company. The amount of your loan is irrelevant your Only Hope in recouping any of your Exa is loss is by locating the Juilly could then sue him and or file a claim against his insurance. For the amount of Money that people spend on their car insurance i would Hope that everyone would take the time to understand what exactly in is they Are paying for. I suggest that people should sit Down for a few minutes and talk to their agents. 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