European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 18, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Arm Landers Page 11 letters dear Ann Landers the letter from concerned Mother in Washington about her 15-year-old son who swiped her panty Hose and his sister s Bikini underwear struck a familiar chord. 1, too swiped my Mother s Lin Gerie i had been secretly Cross dressing since the age of 11, and at 181 was buying women s clothing by mail order. When my Mother discovered my secret she hit the roof. She was sure i was a homosexual possibly a child molester and worried that i would end up in prison. It took a Long time for my Mother to Cool Down and then Only after i promised to give up my  of course i did t Slop. I was just More careful from then on. But my relationship with my Mother was never the same. I am now 26, happily married to a wonderful woman who knew i was a Transve tile before we mar ried. She dots not approve but realizes it is a harmless outlet for me As Long As 1 keep my Promise to dress up Only in the privacy of our Home which i do. Just sign me Happy and Normal in Alaska dear hand from the looks of my null Tolj week half of the mate population of toe is. And Capaiu ii dressing up. Reidon dear Ann Landers. Tell that mom not to jump to any Hasty conclusions. Perhaps her Young son noticed the ads for panty Hose featuring Joe Namath and he wanted to try them. Or maybe he just wanted to try Bikini underwear in Stead of Boxer shorts. The next Lime your son goes shopping. Mom rive him Money to get new underwear and Tell him if he wants to he can buy something different. Then see what he brings Home. Virginia beachwear Ann Landers. Your Liberal reply to concerned Mother disturbed me and i fell 1 had to write. She was worried that her 15-year-old son was a closet Queen because she had found panty Hose and. Bikini panties hidden in his closet. You gave her no help when you told her not to mention it to him. 1 was married to a Man for eight years. Although our sex life was just so so for the first five years i thought he was basically Normal. Then he told me his big secret. Since he was 11 years old he had Cross dressed in private. He thought i would accept it and that our marriage would be wonderful. I agreed until he brought it into our sex life. It turned out that he could not become aroused unless he was wearing a lace Bra and a Garter Belt. Thai was Loo Kinky for me and i got a divorce been there in Ohio dear Ann Landers i am a 28-year-old female with a wonderful 33-year-old Fiance. Joe and i Are Boih intelligent and successful. We have a wonderful relation ship and a terrific sex life. After being together for Over a year Joe revealed his deep dark  he loves to dress As a woman especially when he makes love. Did i think it was weird not at All. I was just pleased and flattered that he shared his inner self with me. I now help him coordinate his outfits and enjoy putting on his makeup and combing his wig. J must admit he makes a darned Good looking woman. The Only thing that bothers me is that when we go out together like two Dames Joe gets a lot More whistles Thant do. Content in Toronto dear readers and people ask me if i make up letters Dodds teacher stalks missing paycheck on electronic funds Transfer Eft receive your net pay and allotments on  wrong my ques like Many of your readers i never thought i would be writing to you. 1 found the recent letter and response to the article titled delayed paycheck prob Lem addressed and the response from James Beasley principal assistant for operations 266th theater finance Center interesting Reading. 1 currently have a paycheck problem using direct Deposit and i must take exception to the inference by or. Bra sly that direct deposits to the Community Bank and stateside financial institutions using electro Nic funds Transfer Eft is a Panacea. I have used the direct Deposit for five years with no difficulties until this past year. The answer pointed out that As a teacher with Dodds Germany my pay should arrive 12 Days after ppe Date. This translates into arriving on a thursday. Over the past five years i have found that if my pay was not posted to my account by my stateside financial institution on thurs Day it would be posted by Friday or the following monday at the latest. In january of 1988 i had one paycheck arrive two weeks Tate but it did arrive. I received my leave and earning statement for the May 7 pay Pend on May i 9 showing what should be deposited at the Bank. My paycheck is still missing. The previously mentioned answer slated that we cannot guarantee that paychecks will arrive on time however we can guarantee that direct deposits to the Community Bank and stateside Finandal institution cd Coli Lions arc 1. What May a person do who has direct Deposit and the funds Are not received by the Bank 2. Because my account was overdrawn 1 have $26 in finance charges May 1 be reimbursed for the charges and by whom 3. May i be reimbursed for Telephone Calls result ing from my paycheck not arriving in a timely Man Ner by direct Deposit presently i have spent s60 for Telephone culls both in Germany and while on leave . 4. In june it took the belter part of a week for either the principal s Secretary and myself to reach 266lh tic. This past August in look me closer to two weeks la reach 266th tic. In june 1988, i sent a letter registered and return receipt requested. I have the return receipt. In june the principal s Secretary was told thai disbursing had sent my paycheck using my name. Social Security number net amount of my paycheck and my Bank s code. If my paycheck was not received hey indicated in was a banking error. My Bank after a two Day search informed me they had not received my paycheck and that i should inform my employer to Stop payment on the funds and reissue them. This was All done in june. In August i resumed from leave and tried to find someone with helpful answers. In september i finally got Somei Hins other than n Busy signal or a Telephone that was not being answered. The indy 1 talked to was courteous and was trying to be helpful although As yet she has been unable to provide me with any further information. In t there an easier Way to reach 266lh tic to gel answers quickly and efficient lost eagles wanted to of Tofoi it pee i Airt Alm gluon no Rah sur to Tirlet it or Jennri for toil a Kwh men a tag Taw and Trio Enta scout run u youth t. Tel  in dlgn0c to  All is Ute r0gt�dh of big or Doc Pilton to to Kef Nurt ind Tov tved in maning a wows rip win i m a Lafleur. A tar scout in  � Oemus. Jim it Slih at by  am looking for anyone who May help me solve my particular problem however it May do everyone a Public service to print an answer to my questions. Do know that i will be trying to Contact or. Bail by to get help on my particular problem. Robert l. Teck Tenborg of Luau West Germany editor s note Susan s. Pfeiffer director civilian pay operations 266th stealer finance can Ler replies your letter provides an Opportunity for new to further explain the pay options available to civilians paid by the 266th theater finance Center tic. Currently 266th tic has Over Isido financial  participating in the electronic funds Tiu for Eft program. Another 400 financial institutions receive pay and allotment by composite hard copy Check not Eft. Hie is. Treasury is encouraging All financial institutions not currently of Eft to join the program and every month several More do Witch to the Eft Lys Jem. Unfortunately your Bank was not coded As participating in Eft therefore your pay was being included in a composite Check mailed to your Bank. We have since converted on Hank to Eft. Apparently the problem that occurred with your May 19 pay was Doe to a posting mar at the Bank the composite Check sent by thai office included pay ments for 11 other employees and Only yours was not pasted. Part of the problem was a missing Hyphen in your account number. I Trust this has been resolved. Now to address the other questions presented in your idler. H an individual has direct Deposit and the funds Art not received he she should Contact our customer service office ets 370-7701, -7717, -7713 or -7718. Customer service will verify whether the Deposit is Eft or a composite Chuck to the Bank. If it is Eft and the Deposit has not been received by the Indle Luul s Bank 266th tic notifies fort Benjamin Harrison Indianapolis ind., via electronic mail. I. Benjamin Harrison receives the kit laps and therefore. Is responsible for ills Fot Luw up. If the Deposit is made by composite Check. Customer service will provide the individual with the Pace and line number from the Bank Deposit Lis Liny that is generated each pay period. The employee should provide this information la his her Bank. If the Bank Silil claims Nan receipt of the Deposit the Bank must Forward a letter signed by Tod Bank officials stating so. The 266lh tic will then initiate a Slop Puj mint action which is required in order to reissue la original payment. Most bunks Are very cooperative in refunding administrative charges assessed when a posting error is involved. ,. Unfortunately there is no provision for reimbursing your Telephone charges we realize that the Telephone lines id civilian. Pay customer service Are quite Busy. We also realize Ihal this is caused by an inadequate number of phone line. In fact we Are cum Nlle reviewing Telephone requirements for All of 16tilh tic to determine How Many additional phone lines Are required. Pen pais i would a to Mem Tali i in 3z in pm i \ toy Ungino. 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