European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 28, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Page 11 Ann Landers dear Ann Landers docs anyone else out there fee As frustrated As do have been married for 20 years and have never been unfaithful. My wife and i have three wonderful children. The youngest is now 10, this was a first marriage for both of us. We Are Good friends. We share the same philosophy of gift. We agree about politics religion anyhow to raise children. We appreciate a each other s sense of humor. A the problem is thai we Don t " have much of a sexual relationship anymore. We kiss but that s about it. The fault is mine. I have no physical desire for my wife. The thought of her body is nol exciting or appealing. To be honest it is repulsive. She has become morbidly obese. She says she has irid 10 lose weight but she can t do it i really feel sorry for he because she loves to cat. I Don t want a divorce Ann. I love my children too much to break up our Home and be separated fro them. I Don l want to risk aids by going to a prostitute besides that is not my style. An affair is out of the question. That s not my style either. I be been Reading Ann Landers since t was in College and never dreamed i d be writing to you. But Here i am. Can you help me. Madison wis. Dear Madison. Show Ihu column to your wife. Tell her this idler is from you. Let her know you will do everything tinder the Sun to be supportive if she decides to do something about her weight. She probably needs counselling As Wells proc Mona help with die ind exercise. Writ again in six months and Tell me what happened i m belting things will he belter. Dear Ann Landers in 1942,1 was on inc staff of a Well known military Academy in the Midwest. One Jay the frustrated father of a Cadet came to my office very agitated and upset. It seems he had just sofa his prefabricated housing business to inc government for several million dollars and he wanted to use some of the Money to assure his son s future at the same Lime he did not want to jeopardize his son s chances of being a hard working productive Young Man by Takin away his incentive to work understood what he meant because we both knew that the boy was an  wimp with nothing much Goin for him. Without baiting an Eye 1 looked up very quietly said tic up his Money in a lifetime Trust fund so that it will provide your son with an additional Dollar for every Dollar earned after he graduates from College. Make the terms foolproof and Lam per proof. This Means he will have to work to gut the Money but he still can live twice As Well As he normally would have if he had t had you for a father that was excellent advice 46 years ago and it is still Good today for any Rich father in a similar situation. Pass it along  g.b., . Thanks for singing my song nothing destroys incentive like knowing you dim l have to do anything because in inheritance is right inert waiting. Dear Ann Landers was taught to turn put lights to keep the Light Bills Down. My husband says it takes More electricity to turn lights off and on again and that i m kidding my self. Who is right frugal in Chattanooga dear Noou -. You win. According to Phillip Rosenbach coordinator of conservation programs for Commonwealth Edi son chicag whenever lights Burn they Cost Money. Ii does t cos anything to turn lights off and on a Lun Angeles tin Ayag Icabod column Tel Lander welcomes you letters of Tan Watt w her in care of the Bart and Guipo Apo 09 11, us. Of him. Writers defend taking babies to Heaters i would like to respond o the recent letter afoul infants being at the theater i have two children 2t months and 8 months old. I have attended a few movies with inc both of them Andi m pretty sure tie movies were rated a since most of the movies arc these Days. I m nol complaining about the ratings. My husband works two jobs air Force and a part time Job to keep us living just under the com tillable Range As we live on the Economy. This Means t am Home quite a bit. When a Good movie comes i enjoy getting out to see it even if it Means bringing the kids. I always try to sit in the very last Row. 1 try to bring quid things for them to play with when they gel bored. I be noticed most people who bring kids also try posit in inc Back. This is an indication to me that respect for other people is being considered. Not everyone has the luxury of a Babysitter. Arc we supposed to slay Home because of that if you go to the theater and Sec kids there try to sit somewhere else in lie other direction. I also Don t think parents should bring infants or. Kids if they Aren t going to control them or be ready to leave if necessary. That 5 common Courtesy. My Point is if you want to go somewhere such As Heaters restaurants or shows go to the expensive ones go to place you can go and at least nol run into me and my two kids. Everyone has a right to go the cafes theater an enjoy a movie however i be never been to one with a perfect crowd yet no matter what age is there. A Little belch chortle or cop in t going to ruin movie but screaming is definitely a get up and Lake your kid oils id move. Mrs. Bishop Rhein Maln a West Germany inasmuch As j understand your Point of View and agree with you on the fact thai some infants and Lod Dicks Are disruptive in a movie theater you simply cannot state that cafes needs to take responsibility Al the door. Exactly what would you have them do stand at the door and deny american soldiers and their families the right to Sec a movie because they have a Small child ask. Ask ask. That is not the american Way. 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