European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - December 31, 1988, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers my husband and i have 2children. The enclosed article has helped us enormously. Al this moment it is taped to Lac refrigerator. Please run in again. H.a.s.1n Albuquerque letters with feta an. It s one of my to Rev. C Galen a assigned a. To Lac Gulph correction Centre of for i Tanner work. While there of i he excellent rapport -. With Gay Young lawbreaker. He asked the is to Why they hid ended i a to oat institution. He then used own to draw up code for parents zeroing in on opt Dale Treu when the hid us. Hen i whirl emerged. 1. Keep coat dont Fly Oft Tot Bandit. Keep the lid Oit when Tiu out go wrong. Kids Noti to Ste Bow Mack bet Ter tvs tvs ton out when people keep their tempers Unitt Castrol -.-. T 2. Dot get Strung out Tram too mob boo if or Tooa Urr Piaf. When we see oar panels reaching for those cent Dos it get the idea that nobody goes it there alone Mot it s perfectly of to reach for bottle or capsule when things get Heary. Children Are great imitators. 3. Bag us a Little. Be strict. Show As who s Boss. We need to Itow we re got some Strong supports under foe cart in Hegel scared. 4. Done blow your class. Stay on that Pedestal. Don t try to ire dance or talk like your kids. You embarrasses Aad you took ridiculous 5. Light a Candle. Show us the Hay. Tell us cod is not dead or sleeping or on vacation. We need to Beltoe in foot Tutag bigger and stronger than ourselves 6. Scare the hell out of us. If you Atco us lying stealing or being cruel gel Lough. Let us know Why Hal it did was wrong impress on us the importance of not repeating such behaviour 7. What we need punishment dish it out. But let us know you still late us even though we have let you Down. It will make us think twice before it make that same move again. 8. Call our Bluff. Make it Clear Yon mean what you say dont Compromise. And Don t be intimidated by oar threats to drop out of school or leave Home. Stand up to As and Well respect you. Kids Don t want everything they Ashfor. 9. Be honest. Tell by the truth an matter what. And be straight Arrow about everything. We can take it Luke warm answers make us uneasy. We can smell uncertainty t Mie away. 10. Praise us when we it serve it. Give us a few compliments once in a while and we fill be Able to accept criticism a lot easier. The Bottom hoc is that we wan you to if ii it like it in. Dear Ann Landers this is for the woman who said snoring is music to the cars of a did t you Tell her logo to the Pound and get a big dog for is it makes belter sense than glorifying the memory of roller who drank and ran around. Funny How death improves peo ple. . In Oreen Vilue via sound like a bitter woman. A treat Many widows Hotd not appreciate your comments. Mellow out dear. Dear readers tonight is new year s eve. If you drink please Don t drive. If you drive please Don t drink. 1 want you alive and Well Reading my column at the breakfast table tomorrow morning As usual. Promise thanks. Ill sleep better tonight readers support the open door policy 1 am writing in reference to a Teller opposing the open door the letter stated that the Soldier in question used the open door policy to divert attention away from his Ucma proceedings by coaxing the brigade com Mander to initiate an investigation of the Soldier s Superior. After asking myself and other soldiers in my unit Ifa Soldier under Ucma action could coax a brigade com Mander to do anything 1 decided i think not. I have Faith in my Chain of command. If a brigade commander initiates an investigation be or she must have a reason. As the letter stated the Soldier did retrieve punish ment. The truth Wilt come out in the end. Let s not condemn a policy that helps Are very few policies that keep enlisted soldiers in touch with the officer corps we Are Alt american Soldier whatever our rank taut Dpi. Hardy or. Babli Ngea West Germany an open door policy is a Good idea and More com Manders should think seriously about having one. It takes a lot of responsibility to have an open door policy Tor exactly the reason you spelled out. There Are always going to be people out there who want to abuse in who want to use it to get Back at their superiors who know they Are going Down and want in take someone else with the heavy responsibility lies in the commander s ability to recognize these situations and put a Stop to them. Your commander should have instead of ordering an investigation prompted so1c1y j by the mouldings Ofa substandard performer called in the persons accused and heard their Side of the Story All in Confidence. Then based on his whole understanding of the circumstances he could have made a More informed decision. All Good leaders provide More than one route to a solution. The strongest argument for the open door policy is that it provides subordinates with a Means to keep their superiors in Check. If you have a serious problem with your supervisor or your officer in charge endangering lives Etc following your Chain of com Mand May not Only leave you very unsatisfied but you May suffer some reprisal for your criticism As Well. When the problems Are not problems involving an individual s professional relationship with his Luperi or what ii the tint question that should come out of the commander s Mouth have you tried solving this problem through your Chain of command Don t lose Faith in a very effective tool of leadership just because one person abused it. For every person Hurt by it there Wilt be veral others who can be helped. And whose responsibility is in to ensure that More people Are helped than Hurt he who initiates it the commander. If he is confident enough in his leadership ability to Start an open door policy then he is probably confident and capable enough to enforce the strict guidelines of keeping it. Senior airman Linda Noegeli la Nuslein a Vve to Germany writer Calls . Talks with Plo insulting the Reagan administration decision to begin Diplo Matic talks with the Palestine liberation organization Plo is an open insult to the families of americans who have been slain by Arab terrorists who have directly or indirectly received support from the Plo. Only a fool can possibly believe that Vassar Arafat does not support terrorism. What has he been doing in the past 2i years what docs it Lake to awaken a world thai has been so heavily drugged by the acts of terrorists that it is now ready to go to bed with them Many americans say that the Lime has come to Opena dialogue with Arafat and his supporters in the Hope that peace can finally be achieved in the Middle can show that this is not Likely. For thousands of years israeli and Palestine people shave Fough and bickered Over a Small parcel of land in the deserts of the Middle East hundreds of times me have moved Forward to denounce terrorist acts but have tarnished history by using those acts themselves to support their own goals and aspirations. During his administration president Reagan has stood firmly on one position that has been strongly pen pals supported by the american people America will not hold discussions with terrorists this is the same presi Dent who allowed Over 200 men to lose their lives in Beirut and took no decisive action to account for those lives by striking hard and fast against the terrorist who killed them. Now we will hold talks with a Man who once supported that act of murder. It is Only filling that Ronald Reagan is stepping Down from the presidency of the United Stales of America at this time. His inability to stand up for whats right and just at a time of Strong world disagreement even though he is Correct in a decision to restrain from talks with terrorists is sad. I feet sorry for him i feel sorry for All of us. This will be one of the greatest political mistakes in he history of out1 country. 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