European Stars And Stripes (Newspaper) - March 4, 1989, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and St Lopes Page 11 Ann Rahders dear Ann Landers i am a single woman 30 years old and a successful professional who lives in a Nice neighbourhood in a Chicago suburb. My parents live two Miles away and we get along Well except Futon a problem my Mother is an inveterate Wymer. Gave her a set of keys to my apartment in Case or an Emer gency. If she telephones and sex peels me to be sit Home and Lam not she comes Over and lets her self in to Sec if i am of if my answering machine in t on she worries that. Something is wrong and comes Over to Check. Once she came in and scared the daylights out of me. I thought someone was breaking in. Her reason for not knocking was that the lights were out. I can think of several things a 30-year-old woman might be doing with the a aprils out during which she would not Welcome a Surprise visit from her Mother. I fear it is just a matter of time before something very embarrassing happens. I Don t want to offend Mother by asking tier to re turn the keys but 1 can t think of any other Way to solve the problem. Can you. -. Grown up in Evanston letters schools lunch policies outlined by officials. Have your lock chanced for Security reasons and in form Jour Mother you have done so. Tell her hat you think ii it by that she not Hare a set of the new keys became Yon Don t want to be scared out of your not again. Thai should do it. Dear Ann Landers your response to the Paducah woman who could t understand Why the old geezers in the office were com ing on to her was typical of the blame the Vic tits mentality that is so prevalent today you asked were you standing too close do you engage in Loo much Small talk Are you too informal. Excessively chummy perhaps you make this woman and others who have this problem crazy with guilt and paranoia please Bear in mind thai old geezers arc just As capable of sexual harassment As the younger men. Sometimes More so at the very least. Ann you might Hove acknowledged that he writer s complaint could have been legitimate. Annette in Minneapolis dear Annette an awful Tot of women did t like my answer and after giving to some thought i can understand Why. 11 was a Clunker. In retrospect i Don t know How i could have missed the Mark so completely. I knew . Dear Ann Landers we were invited to a cocktail party at the Home of a new Friend. We were still in in get Acyl painted stage and iwas so shocked i just sat there and could t think of anything to say. The women looked stricken and he men seemed Somchai amused. Our hostess quickly changed the subject. On the Way Home 1 was in tears but my husband insisted that they knew he was kidding i saw no Evi Dence of this. We Sec these people once a week and 1 sense a definite coolness. 1 am sure they thought my husband was serious. How do 1 handle this miserable in Oregon dear Oregon your husband Matte the mess and it s up to him to clean it up. Tell that Clown he owe 11 to you to set the record straight. In your presence Complete with an apology. Whit tasteless remark l h Angim Towl Ayno Citoli Catu Mollt us a octet your Tittin you cart Arjia id not n pm a tha sure uti St rfcs Apo w2us.fcrcat i i happened to be Reading some of my second Grade daughter s school papers lately and came across the official school lunch policy. In Short if a student forgets his her lunch the school will try to Contact the Parent. If this is unsuccessful As t suppose it often is the school will provide a drink 25 cents and a package of crackers 15 cents to the Stu Dent and Send a note Home that evening requesting a donation to cover the expended costs. At first glance this seems reasonable but not when you think about it for Long. I think i is Well documented that kids Don t perform Well in school when their tummies Are grumbling. To the school s credit there is a policy on reduced Cost lunches for Low in come families. Hut that s not the problem at hand. Most parents can afford to pay full Price Only $1 for lunches but sometimes they the school for whatever reason can t gel involved in loaning Money at All to lithic kids so they can cat then that would be a stupid policy but it would at least be. Consistent bul the current policy of giving a child 50 cents so they can cat crackers and milk when would buy them n nutritionally Complete meal is a classic Case of Penny Wise 1 Don t think the extra 50 cents will bankrupt Dodds especially since i m sure that there is nearly a1 do percent payback. I Haven t mentioned the school purposely. The poll. By May be Dodd Swiec. Wherever it is it needs changed come on school administrators. If you re going to do something at All Don t do it Only Halfway. Do i right. A Richard Cruz lbs Heidelberg West German 1 editor s note be received two replies to this letter. The first is Tram a. Smith Reeves chief executive services Dodds Germany the Overall school lunch program is the to of the local military commander. Dodds is responsible for the supervision of the students during the lunch period. Therefore there is no Dodds policy that would apply to the situation described by the writer. Dodds does not have Access to funds to use for this purpose. If Money is Given to a student it usually comes from the pts boosters club or administrator s or teacher s a Fleckel. Some schools have local policies that provide for students who forget either their lunch or lunch Money. Other schools have Shire table where extra food can be left by students parents or the pts. 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