European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 23, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 Landers dear Ann Landers my neighbor a 24-year-old woman has a Boyfriend who beat her on a regular basis. This has been going on for almost a year. In the beginning i decided it was not my business and to stay out of it. But after the Hedda Nussbaum Case i could no longer remain silent. I called the police a number of times but when they showed up. Linda not her real name would Tell them everything was of. Now when i Call the cops they refuse to come. I be spoken to Linda from time to time and since i work in the Media i gave her several copies of articles about abusive relationships but i doubt that she read them. One Day i asked Linda if her family knew. She said she had tried to keep it from them but her Mother guessed because she had seen the Black eyes and the split lips. Linda s Mother had been beaten by her Hus band for Many years and simply accepted it. My problem is that when this Guy beats her i be come very upset. I am frequently awakened at 3 or 4 . And cannot go Back to sleep. I m afraid that animal might kill Linda one of these nights and people will say where were the neighbors Why did t somebody do something to help her Ann please Tell me what to do. Victimized in Brooklyn dear Brooklyn look in the phone Book and find the numbers of shelters for battered women. These people Are experienced mid can Tell you what can be done to help this poor girl. Linda might be Strung out on drugs like Heddi Nussbaum was and unable to help herself. Intervention is needed and the experts will Tell you How to do it. Please write Back and let me know what happens. I m sure my readers will want to know that Linda is out or danger and so do i. Dear Ann Landers the letter from fed up in Philly who sought to educate the Public on the subject of twins prompts me to write my first letter to you. Like Philly i must put up with insensitive questions from strangers every time i go out with my Chil Dren two of whom arc twin girls. Worse than this intrusion on our privacy is the Way people ignore our oldest child a Beautiful imaginative and intelligent boy. Since the twins were born Tommy has been made to feel invisible. Those peo ple who do talk to him usually say something incredibly stupid such As. Aren t you Lucky to have twin Sis ters let me Tell you he does t feel Lucky. In fact we had to consult a family therapist to help Tommy Han dle his feelings of rage due to being overshadowed by his Sisters. Please. Ann Tell your readers that when they Sec multiples with a brother or sister to please acknowledge the Singleton too. Santa Rosa dear . The same advice applies when the baby is adorable and a nol so Darling brother or sister is present. Please find something about the other child to Praise Loo. It can mean so much to a wilted ego. 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