European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - February 11, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse The stars and stripes Page 11 Arm Landers dear Ann Landers i am in my 40s and grew up on your advice. I have profiled from inc Wisdom you be shown Over inc years bul i believe you were wrong in your counsel to the woman with the cheating Hus band. It s difficult enough to raise daughters when your husband is running around but it is worse with sons. Sons identify with their father and emulate him. He is their role Model. Somebody has to teach those boys right from wrong. Children catch on to what is happening sooner than we think. When their father goes out on the town with other women they Are sure to learn about it eventually. I believe that the Mother who finds herself in this Aukward and embarrassing situation should Tell her children that she is aware of their father s unfaithful Ness and that it is not acceptable behaviour. The Mother who remains silent in the face of such philandering sends either of two messages to her Chil Dren. One. She is too dumb to Sec it. Or two. She sees it and does t have any objections. I Law rethink this one. And change your advice. Ann. Crystal a. San Francisco dear san i ran Vhal seems Crystal Clear to you and perhaps to ohm. Is not thai obvious to me. Of Haie Here Mother to is aware that her husband is unfaithful and she is determined to discuss his unfaithful Ness h ii the children. Since i cannot Bej Fly on the Wall i can t predict the nature of the discussion but rest assured she h not live him any Good conduct medals. Granted he is a Low life and a scoundrel but i still cannot condone a Mother telling her children that their father is a cheating. No Rood Rotten Man especially when she Dunlin us to live with him. ing in a Home where there ii undeclared War is Louth enough on the children without their being forced to choose sides. No Mother needs to Tell her sons that it is wrong to hate extramarital affairs. They know it. An what sort of message does a Mother give her daughters when she tells them their father is stepping out with other women bul she has no plans to leave from where Sil. This Mother is saying put up with it. Girls. It is of for husbands to fool around. Keep quiet and Don i Rock the so. What s the Bottom line if your husband is unfaithful ask Wiur Adf that Well known Ann Landers question Mould i be belter off with him or without him if of would be belter off Wilhour him Lell him to pack up and Leaie. If of would be belter off with him accentuate the positive. Keep the Home fires burning. Don Trun him Down to the children. Maintain your dignity. Don t Needle or nag. Be honorable and decent even if heist t. Remember that when parents draw Battle lines and the Home becomes a War zone the real casualties Are the Ann Landers a former neighbor moved to another City several months ago. This morning. I received a Large heavy Enve Lope from her. H was jammed Wilh copies of her children s report cards essays they had written original poems and do ens of pictures. Also included were copies of form loners they had received from celebrities. this stuff bored me to death. Why did she Send if Pueblo Colo. Dear i because she is insecure and unfulfilled. Don t be too critical. The woman needs a Booster shot for her ego. Ice creators Syndicate by bulb Bibl by Bah sex la Mew cafes explains bottled water changes Well we have done it again. In furtherance of Ger Many s new ecological initiatives cafes is phasing out the plastic bottles of evian Mineral water and re placing them with Glass bottles of Stolic Ebacher Alp on the surface this measure appears to be rational . Substitute recyclable containers for those which cannot be reused. However when i asked How much Deposit was required for the new bottles the Shoppe Ltd sales clerk told me they arc not to be returned. The new bottles reflect the following data Glas Linw cof Lasche Kein Pfandt Cine Ruck Abc or Glass non returnable bottle no Deposit no when i asked what really had been gained by the change the sales clerk informed me that we were still better off because a Case of the new Mineral water is Only $3.25 while a Case of evian is $5.50. She seemed to be genuinely Supri cd when i pointed out that a Cas of the evian water contains 12 i i Liick bottles but a Case of the Stolic Ebacher water contains Only 6 i i Flitcr bottles resulting in an increase of $1 per 12 bottles of the latter. So now we have bottles of Mineral water which not Only arc More expensive but arc heavier As Well and which still will be thrown away. Name withheld Frankfurt West Germany editor s note master sgt. Dayton p. Strick land customer relations he cafes in rope replies i think what you want to know is if anything has really been gained by Germany s new Law and cafes changing from plastic to non returnable recyclable Glass for the new Law that s for the environmentalists to discuss. The Law did Force us to go to non returnable recyclable Glass bottles in evian because evian is ship Ped to us we then have to warehouse it and distribute it to our Shoppelle. We Don t have the warehouse space to get into the returnable bottle game. With our other Bei rages returnable Are possible because the distributor makes daily deliveries and pick . Unfortunately this translates into higher costs for Purchase both for us and you the consumer. The prices Are evian i liter. 12 per ease $9.25 evian .25 liter. 24 per Case $10 Alpen Wasser 1.5 liter 6 per Case $3.50 and Alpen Wasser .33 liter 24 per Case. $7. Because these Waters Are purchased on the european Market and the Dollar is bouncing around like a Yoyo the Price is subject to change. Cafes highly encourages customers to Deposit their recyclable Glass bottles in their neighbourhood re Clee bin. Army policy on family s move explained 1 was recently assigned to Europe from the West coast. I relocated my family in Vermont. I have been Lucky in that 1 was Given government quarters within40 Days of arrival. However the confusion exists about what happens to the request for movement of depend dents.1 am told that my wife will have to Contact my old duty station in san Francisco transportation Section which will in turn Contact the nearest duty station to my family fort do vans mass. Can someone explain what really happens Why does t the sponsor receive a copy of this Mes Sage so that he May facilitate movement of household goods that May be in storage at a different location than his dependents sgt. 1st class John b. Bayne Wurzburg West Germany editor s note Ray g. Jendras. Chief. Person Nel movement division 1st personnel come he Usa eur replies we appreciate the Opportunity to clarify the policy regarding the procedures used to Send for a Midler s family after he she acquires housing. When an application for family travel is received a message is sent to the army installation nearest the family to process them for travel overseas. The Soldier s previous duty station receives a copy of the message to authorize release of passports. If applicable. The Spon Sor should be furnished a copy of the message that is also sent to the Community where he she is assigned to process shipment of household goods. If you have any further questions on the processing of your application please Call ets 379-7614/7981. Addresses available for helping Romania just recently we saw a letter in your paper request ing addresses in Romania. We have several lists with addresses for Over Romania and we Are already in the process of packing several packages. The Deutsche bund Spahn has started a program where anyone who wishes to do so can Send care pack Ages to Romania for free. Those packages have to weigh at least 10 kilograms 22 pounds. This program is supposed to be in effect until the end of february therefore we should act quickly if possible. Frankfurt map in error with the astounding changes sweeping Over Europe we probably should t be surprised that Frankfurt is now located on the Rhein River. The next question is Bonn now on the main it. Col. James w. Krehmke bad Godesberg West Germany this refers to a map we used to locale a train wreck. We miss Abele the main River. Editor we arc collecting donations food clothes Etc and we arc also giving out addresses for people who would like to mail their donations themselves. 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