European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - July 12, 1990, Darmstadt, Hesse                                The stars and stripes Page 11 vi2 it a ave a a a t a a tit dear Ann Landers three months ago 1 began dating j a girl 1 will Call  we got along Well together but i was not in love with her. I decided to break it of because i knew she wanted marriage. When i called and told her that i did no to think we should go out together anymore she sobbed hysterically for 20 minutes. I  reason with her so i hangup. I last week i received a 2 . Call from her sister. She said Julia had written a three Page suicide note and left Home. No one knew where she was. I called everybody she knew and finally found her drunk at the Home of a Friend who lives in a nearby City. 1 phoned her sister who went and got her. Last night Julia showed up at my door looking awful. She begged me to Start Over where we left off. I done to want to become involved with her again Ann but i feel strangely responsible and More than a Little guilty. Please Tell me what to do. A dilemma in Hollywood dear Hollywood # done to allow yourself to be a victim of emotional blackmail. You do not owe this Young woman anything move than fair and honest treatment and this is what you have Given her. The Best favor you can do for your mentally disturbed Friend is to encourage her to get professional help. This would be a greater act of kindness than resuming the relationship out of guilt and then dropping her again. Dear Ann Landers v. I am an 18-year-old girl brought up in a Small town in Iowa. I went to High school in Chicago. My English teacher was older than my father and married. He used to kid around about How a a sexy i was and frequently offered to help me with my essays after school. I never took him up on it because i was afraid to be alone with him. The last Day of school he asked me to stay after class because he had a present for me. Well the a a present was a Sloppy wet kiss. I Felt like decking him. I told my aunt about it several Days later. She said i could have sued him for sexual harassment. To be honest Ann i never gave it a thought. I will be going to a big University in the fall and would like to know More about sexual harassment. Do students Ever win these cases i now realize that my English teacher would not have gone so far if i had been better informed. I was a Dummy and he knew it. Thanks for your help. A Antonny mouse dear mouse. Sexual harassment by a teacher a or a Boss a constitutes asking for dates making sexual jokes or comments inappropriate touching attempts to kiss or fondle or suggesting that sex will result in a promotion or a better Grade. A Little history the first institution sued for sexual harassment was Yale. Sorry about this Walies in 1980 an undergraduate sued her political science professor because he offered her an a in Exchange for sex. She refused and received a c. The student filed a suit and won. Knowledge is Power. To links for the Opportunity to get the word out. Dear Ann Landers i read an item in the Chicago Tribune recently that stunned me. It said the most frequently shoplifted item in americans drugstores is preparation h. I never would have guessed it. Please explain. A Wilmette dear Wil no mystery at All. A great Many people who have a the problem Are too embarrassed to face the clerk. C creators Syndicate the  european edition col. Gene e. Townsend Usan commander editor in chief it. Col. Suzanne l. Phillips Usan Deputy commander editor in Chiel Marie Kominicki Mert Proctor Deane b. Mcdermott production manager managing editor circulation manager this newspaper is an authored unofficial publication for members of the military services . Contents of the stars and stapes Are not necessarily the official news of. Or endorsed by the . Government the department of defense or me . European command. The appearance of adverting in this publication including inserts or sumo elements does not car Stute endorsement by the department of defense or the stars and stripes of the proud Gas or services advertised. Every think advertised it a this publication shall be made available Tor Purchase use or patronage without regard to race color religion sex. Smigin age Mardai status  Handicap political  or any other  actor of the pc Chaser user or Patron. Main office switchboard on leu to to ets 348-5741 or 5823. For departments ii c6i 5 601 Pius Extension or ets 318-8 plus the Extension. A Sato of operation methods explained with the transition from itt to Sato of almost Complete it is Clear that plane reservations to and from the states have been improved. But the following Are some differences Between itt and Sato of i have noticed 1. No More concert ticket sales. 2. No More one Day factory Tours to local Crystal or porcelain outlets or to the Black Forest. 3. No More free brochures from countries i plan to visit. Over the years i have visited the itt each time 1 planned a trip or expected a visitor from the United states or just to browse for brochures of the country we plan to visit. These brochures Are provided by the tourist boards of countries like Britain France Spain Italy Portugal and even the .s.r. Free of charge on request. They include information on where to go hotel accommodations and various tips for tourists who wish to drive themselves. This service will be missing because the emphasis is elsewhere. I will miss the personal touch of the itt employee a a local National or non appropriated fund hire a because Sato staff Are hired by airlines. The Sato a on tour Booklet seems to be geared for a different Market than the Young g1 and his family who would like to see Europe on a shoestring budget. Their prices seem More for the higher ranks and civil service employees. V a name and location withheld editors note a we received two replies to this letter. The firs is from William h. Kochenderfer assistant managing director Sato overseas _. We thank the writer for commenting and appreciate the Opportunity to respond. Customer feedback is essential to the Success of Sato of and we Are always pleased to find out what our customers like and do not like about our service. Sato of is committed to ensuring that All travel services Are provided to our customers. In the Startup. Phases of our Usa eur contract Sato of found that in Many communities a Strong desire existed to continue the Sale by the Community of concert tickets one Day Tours and the like. Working together with communities Sato of and a Pitr a Uso or recreation Center operations found that there was in Many cases a Happy co existence. Thus it is Worth observing that in Many communities concert tickets and one Day Tours Are available. The question rightly asked though is a Are customers really Able to obtain the products they want a the answer varies by Community. In order to provide a comprehensive solution Sato of has Over the past several months introduced the Sale of certain concert tickets in some locations and will continue to evaluate this. Sato of has also implemented in several communities a one Day tour program test. The purpose of the test was to determine whether Sato Ost could provide such Tours and still maintain the attractive prices and Quality of Tours customers arc used to. The writer and All our customers can look Forward to further growth of our pen 1 would like to write to 14-17 year kids in possible from Boston. I am 14 years old. A Francesca Marline via Latina 11/9 33100 Udine Italy i am 26 years old. I like Reading and going out with my friends. A lome to Gual East Balabag Valencia Negros Oriental Philippines one Day tour program As our Leisure department moves ahead with this project. With respect to an apparent shortfall in Supply of tourist braid brochures Sato of docs in fact have these at most offices just As let did. We regularly follow up on this and shall continue to do so to see that offices Are not missed in the mailings. The Sato of a on thur Quot Booklet does indeed address a different Market than the a shoestring budget traveler we firmly believe that there is a customer base within Usa eur that can and does take these kind of trips. Rather than continue to have those customers go off base Sato of Felt it Worth the Effort to specially promote certain Tours. Does this mean we Are forgetting other customers of course not. A visit to any Sato of office will show you that the products in the lower Price ranges a the bargains a Are still around. In fact they Are growing. Pub City for these products however must be handled in relationship to the Overall goal a serving Cost conscious Consumers. For that reason it is imperative that we promote the products with the More economical flyers stars and stripes advertising and not least the Point of Sale efforts of our Counselor. Finally i would like to say to the writer that Sato of is very proud of its travel Counselor staff. We have trained them and continue to train them to provide full travel services. The writer should not miss the personal touch of old tit employees a Many of those Fine people now work for Satori of we thank the writer for his comments and encourage All Sato of customers with comments or questions to please keep letting us know How we Are doing. Customer comment forms Are available in All Sato of offices or you May write directly to Quality Assurance manager Sato of Hanauer Yijin Strasse 21, 6000 Frankfurt main 1. The second reply is from sgt. Isi class Trandle Jones transportation no. Office of the Deputy chief of staff logistics. Us usage or thank you for allowing me the Opportunity to explain the services Sato of is required to provide to its customers. True. Sato of is currently not handling local Tours in the same manner that the itts did. Sato of is however working toward providing the same local tour service. In four to eight weeks Sato of will offer a full Range of local Tours in Stuttgart Fulda and Nelm Borg. Local tour service will expand to All locations As demand is identified. Sato of does offer limited one Day trips in All of the military communities. Sato oses support is then complemented by the information ticketing and reservation it offices outdoor recreation offices and usos. I believe you will be satisfied by the upcoming expansion of Sato of local tour support. If not please Contact the regional contracting officer representative for your area their names and Telephone numbers Are posted in each Sato of office. 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