European Stars and Stripes (Newspaper) - January 31, 1991, Darmstadt, Hesse Page 12 the stars and stripes thurs amp a. January 31. 1991 u a i. Law a a a Community support overseas is lauded this is in response to the letter a wife says waiting in . Is we Are All scared and we All Cope Diller entry but perhaps you underestimate the support Here and overestimate it in the United states. I have no children but 1 can sympathize. Every Mother and father doing the Job of two parents needs a break. Granted child care can get expensive so Why Don t you Start up a Coop program for All those spouses who need time apart from the kids do you know How Many mothers would jump at the Chance to watch someone cd see a children just so they could get away from their own once in a while and it does no to Cost a thing although it is More work. A you say you can t afford to have fun the re what a your idea of fun Why done to you visit a museum or the zoo How about a Uso Day trip they had free trips just last month ? or go see a movie on one of the caverns it Only costs $2, that about renting movies and having friends Over do you think you could get in touch with your husband easier news any quicker Here 1 have Access to electronic mail. I get up to Date messages sent from my husband and his battalion through our rear detachment. You could t drag me away from this source of information. If you honestly feel you would have better support Back in your Hometown by All Means go. The army has offered to Send you and they will even pick up the Tab. But think twice. You would be surprised at How much support and fun you can have Here in Germany if you give it a Chance and make an Effort to get involved. A Lou Burse Frankfurt Germany a wife s letter echoes thoughts of so Many editor s note a though ice do not normally print person Al messages to loved ones in desert storm on the letters Page we Felt this letter verbalized the feelings of so Many that sharing in with our readers is my husband staff sgt. Nigel r. Fursdon serving in operation desert storm the Sun came out today a just for a Little while. But it was enough to remind me of Spring and your vegetable Garden and the Yard with All the Lovely Flowers you planted. It made me homesick for you something i feel 24 hours a Day seven Days a week. I love you and i want to reach out and try to Stop the events of the world. But i know i can to so i keep getting up in the morning getting ready for work dropping the kids off. I try to keep my mind off All the horrible possibilities but they slip in when 1 least expect them. Its hard for me to sit Here in a Nice office with everyday conveniences and think of you out there in the heat and Sand and wind battling fatigue and bad food and god Only knows what else. i could be there with you share the bad things with you As we be always shared the Good. But i am with you in spirit. And i keep you tucked very closely inside my heart. I love always have. I always will. No matter How Long it takes ill be Here waiting for the Day you la come Back to remain forever and faithfully yours a Jan Fursdon Niernberg Germany a go in Gulf appreciates Goodwill gesture i am writing in regard to the soldiers and sailors act enacted by our government to help service members with their financial obligations while in an eminent danger or hostile fire area. My letter to you is prompted by a letter that i re a Reader seeks alumni it you attended Hahn american High school Germany from the 70s to the present please Contact Tho Hahn High school alumni Assn. Attn Jane Endres . Box 9051. Austin Texas 78766-9051 a a Telephone 512 837-0343 a. Cei Ved from one of my creditors. The Shell Oil company wrote me saying All interest charges were suspended on my account As Long As i was in saudi Arabia with the . Marines. Since receiving this letter from the Shell Oil company in be written my other creditors asking them to Honor the soldiers and sailors act and Only Levy a 6 percent interest charge against my accounts with them while we re Here in the desert. Id like to thank the Shell Oil company and encourage other creditors to do the same. Most of All i would like to make my fellow service members aware of this Opportunity and Good Deal available to us. . Chapman operation desert storm pen pals i am 16 years old and enjoy writing and meeting new people through the mail. My hobbies include cooking singing and dancing. A Diana Mccalpin. 19 Valdes Road. Spanish town ., St Catherine Jamaica. West indies i am 23 years old. My hobbies Are dancing singing and Reading magazines and books. I am the eldest of 10 children. A a sus Lyns Supra. To Remy s store Riverside Caliban Davao City Philippines a i am 27 years old and originally from Greece. I would like to write to people 27-40 years old. A Cathy Sabani . 31. 8507 Obe Rasbach am 22 years old. My hobbies include Badminton and Bowling. A a Lorna. Toralba a 92 Burgos Street Bacolod City Philippines. In a serving at a Remote site in Turkey and would like to write anyone. My hobbies Are Snow skiing and listening to Prius la. A. A a a pfc. Driskell. 14th us fad. Apo new York 09379 i am 22 years old. My hobbies Are singing Reading books and listening to the radio. A Leah v. Beltejar a 306a san Juan Burgos St. Bacolod City Philippines a a dear Ann Landers i dated a Jack Quot for two years. It was a serious relationship or so i thought. I was in my mid-30s, had never been married and i wanted children. When i pressed him about our future together he said a the timing is Jack and i parted on a Friendly note and i immediately began a relationship with another Man who had loved me for years. Two months later i discovered i was pregnant. Based of what i thought was my Fertile period i concluded that the father was my new Boyfriend. We were married promptly and seven months later i gave birth to a Beautiful baby boy. When our son was 3 months old 1 could Sec that he looked very much like my former love. There was no mistaking the resemblance because Jack is a Blond Blue eyed scandinavian. My husband is a darkened italian. Jack also had irregular features which my son inherited. I wrestled with the problem on my own for a year and finally told my husband. He said a i love this boy a lot. As far As in a concerned he is my son and i Don t want you to mention this subject 1 was greatly relieved because he is a wonderful father and a terrific husband. My question is this do i owe it to either my son or to Jack to Tell them the truth please advise me. In a terribly torn. Pennsylvania dear Penn first thank god for such an understanding and forgiving husband. Second keep your Mouth shut about what you believe is your child a biological history. You could be wrong. Do you have any aunts or uncles who Are Blue eyed blonds what about your grandparents what about your husbands relatives there Are Blue eyed Blond italians you know. Please done to risk your future happiness by playing a a truth or you done to owe your former Friend a thing and your songs father is the Man who is raising him. Dear Ann Landers i am a 20-year-old male with a problem that is driving me to distraction. I know this letter is one of thousands that you will receive today but i done to know whom else to turn to. In be been going with a girl ill Call a a Bernice a for 21/ years. Several months ago i came to realize that we had grown apart and i did no to love her anymore. The Lent is that i cannot end this relationship because i m scared to death that she will kill herself. Bernice has had an extremely difficult life and she is very unstable. In be urged her to see a Counselor and have offered to pay for the sessions but she refuses to seek help. Please Ann in be read your column since iwa$�13 and i value your opinion. In a desperate and need to end this relationship but i done to know How to do it without destroying this girl. Can you help me a Canadian admirer dear Canadian do not permit yourself to be held hostage to Bernices neurosis. You Are not responsible for her. You were generous to offer to pay for her therapy. Since she has refused to accept help there is nothing More you can do. Tell Bernice that you will always be her Friend but the Romance is Over. To remain in this empty relationship would be unfair to her As Well As to you. 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